The Sun is Gone

By Jodee Prouse

One Woman’s Wisdom on Rising in Strength from Family Crisis

Learning Through the Tears Hard Truths About Taking Care of Oneself First—

And the Power to Stop Enabling 

Whether it’s Addiction, Abuse, Divorce or any other Family Trauma, a Woman at the Center

Can Step Out of the Insanity – With Love

Jodee Prouse—The Embattled Woman’s Champion

Dear BBS Radio Host:

How many times have you lost yourself in some chronic family crisis, giving and giving until there is no more left to give—and yet you give more. Out of love, out of duty, out of knowing that everyone looks to you?

Whether that awful situation is a result of a horribly dysfunctional family, chronic drug or alcohol addiction, sexual or verbal abuse, raising a disabled or autistic child, the pain of a disintegrating marriage and divorce, the responsibility that comes with parental healthcare decline, a jailed or arrested partner or some other trauma?

As women, we have often learned from childhood that we are the ones that must be the peacemakers, the problem-solvers, the fixers—the ones to make concessions. And we sometimes do this with dire consequences, losing our selves, sometimes our partners and our children -- and even our souls.

Jodee Prouse knows this from experience. Her painfully honest book The Sun Is Gone about trying to halt the alcoholic decline of her beloved brother, amidst a lifetime of family crisis and dysfunction, is both a cautionary tale and beacon of hope for women to find the strength to make painful, but personally healthy choices.

Her story begins as a child where she becomes her sweet little brother’s protector as her alcohol-fueled father rages in the night. The grand-daughter, step-daughter, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, niece, great-niece, aunt, cousin and ultimately sister to alcoholics, she becomes the one pillar of strength in her immediate household as her neglectful and emotionally-withholding mother moves on to a new partner and divorce again. Eventually starting her own family with a loving husband and two children, and beginning a business, Jodee remains her brother, Brett’s best friend and safe harbor.

But as his drinking becomes apparent, grows worse and more self-destructive, Jodee is drawn into a maelstrom of pain, co-dependence, and battle of wills with her other family members. Her deep love for her brother propels her forward to make choices and sacrifices that are disempowering for herself, Brett and others.

Yet, finally, despite excruciating emotional pain, she comes to realize that she must put herself and her husband and children first—and set boundaries—that she cannot fix someone else’s life. For anyone dealing with an addictive family member, this experience will especially resonate.

But today, Jodee Prouse asserts that the need for women to take back the control over their own lives –and disengage from the maelstrom within a family crisis -- to no longer be an enabler -- is universal.

Now a full time speaker and advocate living in Alberta CAN and Oroville, WA, after successfully building and selling her highly regarded beauty company, Jodee is also urging families to stop hiding in shame from “family secrets”—to deal with hidden emotions by sharing, speaking out and getting help, to lance wounds that lead to pain, addiction, rage, regrets and family crisis.

Says Jodee: “I know what it is like to feel powerless to something that takes control over your life. It is not easy to break patterns of all we have ever known, even when our choices hurt us or hurt the ones we love. I know that sometimes these behaviors are etched deep inside...But when we lose ourselves in someone else’s addiction or issue, we are no good to anyone; not ourselves and certainly not the one’s we love. In the end, we are not culpable for someone else’s path. Just our own.”

And that’s the deepest form of love and understanding. Jodee inspires people to:

LEARN. ACCEPT. FORGIVE. HEAL. 

To interview Jodee Prouse about her vital message for women enmeshed in family crisis and the tragic family story that has brought her this wisdom, please send an email with the name of the show, your contact information, a proposed date and time, and the calling details.

Jodee Prouse is the Embattled Woman’s Champion. She helps woman recognize that they have the strength to transcend family trauma, and the power to disengage from codependency with those family members who are at the heart of the drama.

Her mission is to help women recognize that love is the reason NOT to engage, that taking care of oneself first is not a betrayal or selfish. Making the hardest choices may seem to be cruel or callous, but, in fact, are healthier for all parties.

Jodee spent more than 30 years seeking to protect a brother ultimately lost in alcoholism, giving so much it nearly cost her marriage and risked endangering her children’s mental health.

The grand-daughter, daughter, stepdaughter, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, niece, great-niece, aunt, cousin and sister to alcoholics, she has tremendous empathy for anyone who has gone through or lives with a family in constant emotional crisis.

Her gripping and tragic story, told powerfully in The Sun is Gone: A Sister Lost in Secrets, Shame, and Addiction and How I Broke Free, unfolds while she is also growing an enormously successful beauty products business. Pulled in so many directions personally and professionally, she finally finds the strength to make the painful and necessary decisions that restored her emotional equilibrium, self-respect and protected herself and those closest to her. All along the way, while still loving her brother as he lived his own journey.

Committed to her new mission to empower women to find their strong inner core and make healthy decisions amidst family dysfunction, chaos and crisis, Jodee recently sold her business and now serves as an advocate. She speaks on women’s empowerment, addiction and mental illness from the family perspective and breaking away from longstanding, destructive family patterns.  Half of the profits from her book, an Amazon category bestseller, go to non-profit organizations that support addiction and mental illness programs.

Jodee has two adult sons, and has been married to her husband, Jim, for 27 years. They split their time between Sylvan Lake, Alberta and cottage in Oroville, Washington.

It’s not really possible to write about oneself or even present a case in the first person. Why should you believe me? I could say anything about anything and without tangible proof why should you believe a word I say?

So all I can pass on to you is what others have said about me and this adventure I have survived!

Certainly most have suggested it’s a unique case to study. Most also suggest it has credibility and that my honesty has never been in question. Nothing and no one has been able to disprove any aspect of this case in over 20 years! and recently facts have come to light that only reinforce the credibility of events I have related over the years.

What is it all about then?

As a child I seem to have been selected for a mission, further study suggested this mission was drawn up even before my conception on this planet.  

Things you need to understand are:

most UFO’s have pilots, mostly these pilots don’t live on earth full time.

If you have difficulty with that fact you need to read about it more deeply. Just like in the case of 911, if you take a stance on what happened without reading most everything that has been written on that event which includes both sides of the argument, you have done yourself a disservice.

Once you come to the understanding that many UFOs have pilots then you have to ask what are these pilots actually doing here?

My story will answer that question, in at least in one case.

And so the story begins…… read the book!

https://coev.webs.com/apps/webstore/products/show/2616887

One Monday in mid-February 1989, Alec Newald set off on what should

have been a three hour drive from Rotorua to Auckland, in New Zealand.

He arrived in Auckland feeling tired and confused, but was even more

confused to learn that Monday was now Thursday ten days later, and that

he had no idea of what had happened in the meantime!

 

When Alec did retrieve his memories of those missing ten days, he

realized his life had changed forever. Early on in that fateful trip, while

driving through a foggy mountain pass, Alec was whisked from the road by

beings from an extraterrestrial civilization. The most unusual thing was not

only was Alec taken, his car was taken as well. And it was his attempts to

find out what was “wrong” with his car” that assisted him in remembering

and at the same time put him on the radar of Government Intelligence

agencies.

What he learned and experienced during his stay with these friendly

beings has profound implications for all of us here on earth.

Soon after his “return”, Alec received strange visits from “government

scientists” wanting to know about his experience.



Among other things, they were keen to learn what he had noticed about

the capabilities of this alien race. Alec was uncooperative and soon found

himself in “hot water” and in fact

 

It was obvious that these “scientists” knew all about Alec’s abductors’ and

expected they would return to Earth one day - soon.

The interrogations that took place behind closed doors while Alec was

locked away from the public eye have never be disclosed in any of the

Coevolution story thus far and edition No 3 will tell that story and it only

opens up a bigger can of worms as far as Artificial Intelligence is

concerned. 

This is small extract from a 32page document that recounts two days of heavy

interrogation while held at her majesties’ pleasure.

….He did draw another item from the case. “Your turn” he said, handing

me another small item, this time a cube similar to the pyrite crystals I had

been given aboard the alien craft. At first I thought it was one of them, I’d

had one stolen a few years before. But on closer inspection it was more

highly polished and less natural looking than my own. “See what you can

do with that” House suggested.

As soon as I took it from his hand it lit up as if I’d tuned it on! “Ah, now we

are getting somewhere.” He said, “Up til now we had not managed to get

anything out of it, and in case you are wondering, yes it’s the real deal,

that was not manufactured here.”

The cube was studded with what looked like small dots, but once it was

switched on the dots appeared to project images, I could describe them as

letters but actually they were more like hieroglyphics or symbols.

“Oh, that’s interesting, House commented. “I’ve seen those symbols

before, we worked out is some sort of periodic table. I don’t’ suppose

you…..” He tapered off as the cube started to hover above my hand and

started to spin. It spun so fast it became invisible -the only things left were

the symbols. “Quick, write those down.” Cried our House, only to realize

he and I were the only ones in the room.

My name is Michelle Morgan, founder of Vida Es Oro, a company built on the foundation of empowering people to recognize, embrace and live in their total self-worth.  I am a passionate transformational sports coach whose sole goal is to empower youth in every aspect of their lives. 

With a sports background, earning a basketball scholarship, and a passion for working with young people, I wrote a book dedicated to today’s young athletes, How YOUth Triumph in Sports: Tools That Create aTriumphant Life.  This book was written for youth to understand the important traits they’re learning while playing sports.  What makes these tools so important is that you can apply them in any area of your life, now and forever to create a triumphant life.

I am a believer in the importance of young people recognizing and understanding what it means to value themselves and that their actions and decisions are a direct reflection of how they see themselves.

Michelle Morgan is the founder of Vida Es Oro, a company that focuses on empowering people to embrace their self-worth in creating genuine love and happiness in their lives. With a sports background and a passion for working with young people, she lives in her purpose of inspiring and empowering young people to attain their goals and to shine the light that lives inside of them.

EVERYTHING IS IN PLACE OR LINING UP - FOR THE DAY OF THE LORD 

#1) Israel being formed as a Nation by the Un on 11/29/47, or when they formally Declared their Independence on 05/14/48 is the Macro Key. 

#2) The presence of this Nemesis System which comes appx every 3600 years, "The Destroyer" as the Ancients called it, and now in our skies, is the Micro Key.

Jesus said that the Generation who sees Israel (Fig Tree) reborn, would also see His Return, as in "The Rapture". Biblical generations are either 40, 70 or 100 years. I'm Strongly leaning to the 70 due to the close proximity of "The Destroyer", which (imho) will Trigger the 6th Seal. The Wrath begins at Revelation 6:17 during the 6th Seal. 1949 + 70 = 2017!

With Russia (Magog) poised in Syria, and enjoying a Strong Alliance with Iran. With the Nemesis/Nibiru System in our Skies NOW, and Ezekiel 38:18-23; describing a Russian lead attack on Israel,  with accompanying Cataclysms plaguing that attack, which can easily be associated with Nemesis/Nibiru…

For me it is All adding up! Not to mention the recent No Confidence Vote in the UN against Israel on 12/23/16…..the Things that make you go Hmmm…..

https://robertdunnendtimeprophecyinsights.wordpress.com/2016/08/31/epiphany-ezekiel-38-war-describes-6th-seal-event-in-verses-18-23/

I'm 61 years young. A child of the 70's who partook of all it's forbidden fruits. Almost all anyway :-) Been Born Again & Filled with The Holy Spirit since 1984. Backslidden many times between now & then, but as Jesus Promised, He never forsook me. Been back Stronger than ever in The Lord since early 2011 when I moved back to Pittsburgh, PA from Las Vegas where I was supporting myself through winnings on Sports Betting & the Horses. Short bankroll, so never got rich. Stretched $5K for 5 years, working a real job very little. Since back in Pittsburgh have fell into being a Watchman for the End of Days. Started with the Comet ELENIN Psyop and has progressed from there.

Debunking the myth around what intuition really is and how every person has the instant ability to use their own in day to day life.

Veronica Drake is a Soul 2 Soul Coach, Angel Communicator and Intuitive. All this combined with her quick wit and warm heart she entertains and educates her audiences.

Veronica’s own twenty + year spiritual journey has prepared her to teach. She is taking all her experiences and sharing them with her audiences. She openly and honestly shares her journey with raw emotion and quick wit.

Her focus is primarily on the development of unlocking the Soul’s potential and living life on purpose. While sharing her personal life story and bringing to light issues previously thought taboo, she creates hope in her clients.

Her style is intuitive, inquisitive, witty and humorous. She loves to laugh and finds laughter to be great in releasing our authentic selves.

She refers to herself as a Spiritual Badass! She is fiercely in love with life and all things spiritual in a practical, non woo woo way.Curiosity is second nature to Veronica and she finds it brings an ease and comfort to the Self-Development relationship.

If you are looking for an inspirational, God loving, witty, compassionate woman to inspire and motivate your community look no further!
Her credentials include:
• Coach training at the International Coaching Academy
• Active Member of the International Coaching Federation
• Certified Practitioner in the Law of Attraction
• Certified in Mastering Life’s Energies
• Alumni of The Holistic Learning Center
• Author of Several Books: The Unconventional Road to Emotional Freedom & Prosperity…The How-To Guide for Today’s Heart-Inspired Entrepreneur; Thoughts, Food, W(h)ine & Bubble Wrap…A Woman’s Journey to Self-Acceptance and 3 Keys to Unlocking Your Divine Purpose

Hello,

My name is Gloria Hass. I am an evangelist and do speak the prophetic. I am not a fortune teller which is witchcraft. I seek God for His message for people. I have a yearly Internet Bible Boot Camp on my web site as well as weekly Bible studies - one of which is on Facebook Live and the video is also shared to YouTube.

I like to offer hope and inspiration to people and show God's love.

I have been an evangelist since 2003. I have also been a street and traveling evangelist.

I am a retired life and business coach - 25 years experience. I now give spiritual guidance with my ministry work.

Many of us are looking for ways to reduce stress and increase happiness and well-being.  We are also looking for ways to release out dated emotions, habits and beliefs; to become more peaceful and loving and have less conflict both within ourselves and those we love and care for.

I utilize a variety of skills to assist others to create a loving, more peaceful way of living through the various courses I teach and the private session work done.  

Susan is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and has been a hypnotherapy instructor for Coastal Academy of Hypnotic Arts & Science for 6 years.  In 2015 she founded the Advanced Spiritual Hypnotherapy program and her work was published in Roy Hunter’s, “The Art of Spiritual Hypnosis” in 2016. The book went to #1 on Amazon in the US & UK.  Susan’s hypnosis specialties include:  Spiritual and Cognitive Behavior Hypnotherapy, Parts Therapy, Virtual Gastric Band and she is a Pain Relief educator.  As a certified facilitator, Susan has developed workshop s for hypnotherapists and the general public.  She also teaches all levels of Heart Resonance, which is an energy healing modality.  She is known for her compassionate, heart centered and practical approach to healing.

Before creating Better Life Now, Susan was recognized by the Greater Langley Chamber of Commerce and received a Business Excellence Award for The Garden Spa – a business she owned and operated for over 5 years.

To learn more or to order Roy Hunter's new book, "The Art of Spirtual Hypnosis' click the link below:

https://www.amazon.com/Art-Spiritual-Hypnosis-Accessing-Divine-ebook/dp/B01FP0KBYE

Forbes Magazine said last year that the Hemp Industry will be at $200 Billion by 2020 in the USA.  I say “NO”, my predictions is California will be a $200 Billion Industry by itself!  There will only be ONE shot to be at the ground floor of something this HUGE…

We are a division of Medical Marijuana Inc., the legal, legitimate provider of high quality CBD hemp oil in ALL 50 states. I am reaching out to you because we are currently looking for people who will share our products through direct sales, our online marketplace, B2B, or their current health field. Or, like I do, ALL of the above.

Athletes who are using high quality CBD are reporting that they have more speed, strength, stamina, and faster recovery. CBD is an adaptogen, so your body is the healer and the CBD feeds the body like nothing else can.

In addition to our amazing products, we have several high profile people who are a part of our company. Two prominent names you may know who are Dr. Omalu who was the one who discovered CTE, sits on our Scientific Advisory Board. His worked was highlighted in the movie Concussion played by Will Smith.

Also Dr Sanja Gupta who sits on our Medical Advisory Board, he is most known for his documentary called Weed, and his work with CNN.

We are just getting started, if you would like to know how to get on the ground floor of the “Gold Rush” of our time, then please contact me!

My wife, Robin, was bitten by spiders on March 1, 2016 and the virus spread to 90% of her body.  Doctors wanted ot amputate her leg and I feared that she might die.