Sudden I Impact, May 3, 2021
Sudden I Impact with Lee
Guest, Coach DeCarlo Eskridge
Coach DeCarlo A. Eskridge is a certified Stress & Trauma Care facilitator, certified life coach/ trainer, motivational speaker, certified hypnotherapist, certified N.L.P. practitioner, author, and ordained minister. He is very proud to have authored and independently-published several books through his company NU DAE Enterprises where he serves as President and CEO.
A prolific teacher and encourager, Coach DeCarlo A. Eskridge reads over 50 books a year, and listens to countless hours of audio programs. He is a Certified Life Coach through Franklin Covey and a motivational speaker who earned advanced honors at Toastmasters International. He is also an Ordained Minister with over 30 years of biblical study.
Coach DeCarlo A. Eskridge has been imbued with an inexhaustible, unyielding, and unrelenting thirst and hunger for knowledge. His mission is to travel the globe teaching, empowering, inspiring, and transforming the lives of millions with the truths he has discovered in order that every person recognizes who he or she is, what he or she can accomplish, and that they live it!
Coach DeCarlo A. Eskridge is married with two stepsons. His lovely wife Amanda, Executive Vice President and Public Relations Manager of NU DAE Enterprises, works collaboratively with him as a counselor, spiritual life-coach/ trainer, motivational speaker, co-author and minister.
Special qualifications:
- Graduate of Long Beach College of Business
- Stress & Trauma Care Certification, Light University
- Corporate Trainer
- Certified Life Coach, Franklin Covey
- Certified Advanced Hypnotist
- Certified NLP Trainer
- Certified Bill Gove Speech Workshop
- Facilitator – Speak Like a Pro in a Day Workshop
- Advanced Honors – Toastmasters International
- “Live Your Greatness” Internet Radio Talk Show Host
- Ordained Minister
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for the better and to change their life for the best. Excuse me. Today we have a special guest,
a distinguished guest and y'all are in for a treat following this introduction, the next voice
that you will hear will be coach the Carlo Estridge. My distinguished guest today, the Carlo Estridge
has served phenomenally for a Fortune 500 giant in the capacity of the computer information
systems tech and engineering for more than 20 years. Coach the Carlo Estridge is a coach's
coach, a coach to the stars. Coach the Carlo Estridge is a healing transformation thought leader,
certified master life coach or dame minister, certified stress and care facilitator and he's
highly sought after motivational keynote speakers, certified hypnotherapist, well established after
several independently published books through his entity New Day Enterprises where he serves
as president and CEO. Coach the Carlo Estridge has an amazing show called the Metaphys called
Art Theatre. Coach the Carlo Estridge teaches with great simplicity and is a master in character.
He reads more than 50 books annually and has an incredible and emaculate book collection of more
than 2000 books where no further ado we bring to the platform, Coach the Carlo Estridge. How
you doing the Carlo? I'm doing outstanding. So how are you doing? Wonderful man. It's a blessing
to have me on the show man. The whole globe needs to hear you. I mean if they don't know you after
today they will know you. Outstanding. I look forward to speaking with you and I look forward
for this moment of us breaking spiritual breading through conversation. Absolutely. So let's dive
right into the leader of matter. They themselves are makers of themselves. Talk to me.
Each person whether they understand it or not they're creating their world. We think that our
thoughts advance to the past but we're always thinking ahead of our evidence and once we begin
to understand that we're thinking ahead of our evidence and we become more mindful of our thinking
we begin to transform our world. Wow. Did y'all hear that folks? Wow. So talk to us about thought
and the reason why I'm asking you this is because no one has clearly explained what thought is.
You know kind of on the surface they'll say something like oh it's a mental action that causes
things to happen and we know it exists because we can see the ramifications around us all around
just like the ramifications of the wind. You know what I mean? Absolutely. The thing that
people need to understand about thought is a vibrational energy and vibration always
manifests according to its kind. For example someone wonders why everything bad seems to happen
to them and they say well if I start doing positive thinking for example that my life will change
if you don't change at the feeling thought level then your life is going to be
remain the same. For example if you say well you know every day and everywhere I'm
beginning I'm becoming better and better but in your thoughts and in your feeling nature
you feel that nothing ever works out for me. The only thing that you can reproduce is more
of nothing ever works out for me. Business owners need to understand why is business not coming their
way and they wonder and they think that it's something that they're doing and thinking that you know
maybe it's an employee. A lot of that is energy that's being sent out just like a person going in
for an interview. They think they say well why am I not getting these jobs? You know I go I got
the qualifications I look good I dress I feel good but in their core of course they don't believe
that they are deserving or worthy of that job. So of course even though that's not been communicated
verbally thought energy is being transmitted and so they're telling the interviewee I'm not
worthy. Now the interviewee he or she doesn't pick up I'm not worthy. They just say you know there's
something about that candidate that did not I didn't feel it you know something it just didn't make
it for me and so I'm going to look to the next candidate. Now the person is wondering why they
go from job interview to job interview for example and why they're not getting the job.
First and foremost they're not feeling worthy of having that job so until they change their
feeling state they can only reproduce more of the same. Wow wow wow talk to us about belief systems.
Belief systems the thing about many of us about beliefs they've been given to us as early as child
birth you know our family our loved ones our community our schooling begins to integrate to us
what it is that we believe and many of us go through our whole lives and we never shift from the
belief of our parents and so you got people 90 years old and they're still being raised by
their parents because they're still operating from that belief system that was taught to them
as a taught so until we begin to challenge the things that we say that we believe
then we're going to continue to stay in a perpetual cycle of lack loss and limitation
even though we seek wisdom wellness and wealth we can't get there what our current belief system
it's important that we change our belief system but we have to take in something new we have to
see a different possibility we have to take on a different paradigm in order to change that belief
system as long as we're operating out of our parents belief system of religion of indoctrination
of you know how we spend money then we will remain the same even though our circumstances appear to
change we'll find a way back to our current belief systems until that belief system has changed
fittingly stated talk to me about consciousness what is consciousness
most people going back to belief systems and habits most of this is founded on the foundation
of consciousness and much of it not at the consciousness but we're not even aware of some
of the things that we believe but at a subconscious level at a heart level scripture calls it the
heart you know with what a man believes in his heart her heart so is he so is she
many of us have at the conscious level things that we think that we believe but at the subconscious
level things that we truly believe and when i say the subconscious level i'm speaking really of
the feeling nature sometimes for example we say well i feel wealthy and abundant but at that feeling
subconscious level at the imaginal level where we begin scripting our world we still see a mind
a world of lack loss and limitation not enough to go around a world of competition so we can't see
building other people up because we think that if there's not enough to go around why am i going
to build them up because if i build them up and again we're not even aware that we believe this
because most of this is operating at a subconscious level if i build them up then there's not going
to be enough for me and so we keep wondering why our businesses are not prosper why our
relationships are not prospering why those ventures that we take on seem to go but so far and a lot
of it is because of our subconscious modality and until we begin to be mindful now i want to give
you a little tidbit into that when you start imagining envisioning make believing you're in
the process of changing that subconscious modality subconscious is changed at that lower level at
what we call the alpha letter alpha level or the theta level when you start going see most of us
are operating at the beta level that's basic mind thought you know what we had a conscious level
and we're operating there and we think that we can make transformation there you can't most
transformation comes when we start imagining meditating thinking about dreaming about it says
without a dream without a dream or vision people perish when we begin to dream or imagine something
different we begin to reprogram the subconscious mind because what happens when we begin to
meditate dream we bypass the conscious level and so when we're able to bypass the circuit or the
programming or the conscious level then we can make change take place but many of us are operating
from that programming that's within us that we're not even aware that's there only thing that we
know is that we keep getting the same results so sometimes if you want to know what you're
thinking look at your life your life will always mirror your dominant thoughts so if you're in
one bad relationship after another you got to know that your subconscious programming
is bringing that about and then until you change that subconscious programming you're going to
keep reproducing the same but again the key to changing subconscious programming
is begin to envision imagine dream a different dream wow wow so is there a difference between
consciousness and awareness or is it the same consciousness and awareness you know a lot of
times when we talk about being aware most of our awareness is at a conscious level
a lot of things that we're unaware of the little tidbits that we get the insights the eureka moments
they come at a deeper level of awareness and this is when you start tapping into subconscious
when spirit god source whatever you call that into infinite being begins to speak through you
so most of us are operating at our awareness level at the conscious level and it's because
of we're operating out of what it is that we know and so we're operating out of reason
but if you want to transit if you want to break through in your business if you want to break
through in your relationships then you have to begin going into what we call the silence
you have to get silent and begin to listen to what many of us call the still small boys
and that voice of awareness transcends what it is that we know we come into insight
things that we come into a problem we say well how can i solve that problem now initially we start
trying to solve that problem at a conscious level and that conscious level is based off of all the
information that we know but if you want to go deeper into understanding and discovering who it is
that you are then it's important that you go deeper into like i said we talked about the alpha
theta you know gamma you have to go deeper but you can't do that at a you got to bypass consciousness
and the only way you can do that is getting into like a sort of meditative state
sometimes we can do that asleep state but the but it's like when you're driving and you've had a
challenge that you were thinking about and you get on the road and you got like a less than an hour
drive now in that hour drive you're focusing on the road but you go into a playing a state
almost like autopilot and you get to your destination without even being aware but something happens
when you bypass the conscious level of awareness what happens is you open up to subconscious mind
and that idea that you were seeking that song that that verse that you know whatever it is that you
were looking for that thing that that challenge that you were facing the answer to that challenge
you were facing comes to you when you're not focused on the answer again it's given to you by the
subconscious level so we're always aware the best thing that we can do at a conscious level of
awareness is be mindful of what it is that we're giving our attention to see most of us give our
attention to lack loss limitation but we want to reproduce wisdom wellness and wealth
if we can be at a conscious level getting again again going back to the conscious level we can
just be mindful of what it is that we're giving our attention to if we're thinking thoughts other
than lovely and of of a good report or we're thinking thoughts less than what it is that we
want to manifest in our lives then it's nothing else at a conscious of being aware
that's not the thought I want to think so that you can begin to think about what it is that you
want to create in your world we're always creating the question is what
that Wow so that brings me to talk to you it's about the power of expectation what is the
expectation to you and teach us about the power of expectation expectation if understood can
change your world and what I mean by that sometimes we call it expectation sometimes we just say
intention some people call it the law of intention when I decided years ago that I was going to make
a move from California at that time and relocate to Atlanta Georgia because I kept hearing about
all the hype about Atlanta now when I was in California I had just come out of the military
not too long you know after you're arriving there I was I'm originally from Ohio but a friend of mine
if you need a place to stay come down to California you got a place to stay and so I took him up on
his offer now being there you know I had a roommate situation life was good you know but
I was barely scraping by and I knew that I needed to be in a different environment so
when I looked at my environment in my current situation at that time I saw no means from making
the transition from California to Atlanta but I set the intention in place I said I'm moving
to Atlanta Georgia now how that was going to take place I did not know but because of my
expectation and setting the intention in place things started to orchestrate as they will with
all of us once we give mine we have within us a particular activating system I like to call it a
global GPS within us when we set our intention on whatever the item is a new car a new relationship
a new house a relocation what happens is the particular activating system our internal GPS
begins to set in motion events that will allow us to manifest the thing that we're trying to
manifest so in this case I wanted to move from California to Atlanta Georgia now one day I'm
driving home from work and I see this big old Nova probably like a 1990 Nova at that time and
those things were made out of straight steel now me myself I was driving in this box of a car
called a Toyota Torcel and literally it was a metal box and this guy was plowing behind me and
I said to myself this guy is not going to be able to stop he plowed in to me I plowed into the person
in front of me and they plowed into the person in front of them me was to say you know long story
short there was a insurance claim filed and that was the money or the seed money that allowed me to
move from California to Atlanta Georgia and I drove that car that was totaled
to Atlanta Georgia now my whole point is when you set the intention the expectation in place
your particular activating system is going to move heaven and hell out of your way to make the
thing that you desire or determine to manifest the expectation to be brought about now that's a
good thing but it can also be a bad thing now you say well to call how can that be a bad thing
what if your expectation is nothing good ever works out for me all men or dogs I can't get a
good job I can't get ahead there's no opportunities out there what if that's your expectation
the particular activated system works the exact same way it moves heaven and hell
out of your way so that it can bring about the thing that you've been claiming to be your reality
wow so in the proverb 18 21 it says the power life and death is in the town
part of 6 to say by your words you're snared Matthew 12 and 34 says by your words you're
justified the words that you are condemned so talk to us a lot of people don't know about the
powered words and it's in my introduction talk to us about that I am are two of the most powerful
words in the universe now many people would say well dikarla why is I am the most powerful words
in the universe in the beginning God said this is what we've been told but you have to understand
you've been created in the image and the likeness of God so in your beginning the beginning of your
day we're always having new beginnings so I want the listeners to understand that when they wake
when they put place their feet on the floor and they say this is going to be a terrible day
they're setting in motion events that have to coincide with what it is that they say
because we've been created in the image in the likeness of God now what that means mostly
let's not get into physical attributes or anything like that it means that we're spiritual beings
having a human experience these bodies we wear are nothing more than earth suits vehicles of travel
for the spirit the soul whatever you want to call it
because spirit has been created in God's spirit and we've been called sons and daughters children
of God when we speak when we decree a thing even if we think to ourselves I really didn't mean to say
that thing it says in scripture that we will give an account to even the idol words not just
the positive words or the negative words but even the words we say idly are creative if you look
in the environment around you everything that you see started off with a word or an ideal as a concept
when God speaks he's not speaking words as we have to he vibrates the thought we vibrate the thought
now many of us use of course our vocal systems but words really start in the mindset in the thoughts
you can think of thought never say it come out of your mouth and see the manifestation of that thought
so the verbal manifestation of thought comes out in the form of words and words are the
implementation as it were of thought and thoughts are words in reverse so when we understand that
we are creators by design I am whatever you link to I am must be manifested in your reality for
example I'm stupid universe is be it unto you according to your faith I am smart universe says
be it unto you according to your faith now let me add a caveat there
it's the thing that you say with feeling the things that you believe in your heart apart
in your subconscious mind see many of us are saying I'm prosperous and it's still manifesting
broke busted and disgusted many of them say I'm in a loving relationship and they keep running
across knuckleheads jerks or people that take advantage of them it's what you say in your
feeling nature I'll never get ahead I'll never amount to anything and many of those things we
didn't even originate those thoughts someone else originated them for us a parent a loved one a
sibling a teacher an educator someone inside our community a leader or even someone you've ever
overheard a police officer say you know these guys will never amount to anything and we've
purchased what it is that someone else said as our reality words are powerful because words are
vibration up who it is that you are in essence and if you want to change who it is that you are
you have to change who you are in your belief system or in your core belief system now many
people say well dikarlo how do I do that I said it earlier you begin to imagine yourself differently
when I started looking at the transition from California to Atlanta I had no means of making
that happen the only thing that I had to make that happen was the intention or the as you stated
earlier the expectation see what you expect you bring about and the only way to begin changing that
is to expect something differently now initially when you begin to expect something different you
say this is just make believe this is for ten
Jesus says unless you become a little child you will no wise enter the kingdom of heaven you have
to enter into this thought process as a child and you have to begin playing mental games with yourself
of pretend of expectation of make believe that's why children who make believe that they're doctors
and lawyers and professionals of every sort or Olympic gymnast or an athlete or a tiger would
that first and foremost is envisioned by his father oral would once you begin to own that new thought
all the world will begin to acquiesce and make way for the new person that you've seen yourself to be
you
wow
phenomenally stated I want to talk to you about a subject and I don't understand it because based
off of what you said today if it works anywhere it works everywhere why is this thing with money
such a hard deal and I know people have these beliefs in that subconscious you know money is
a root of all evil even though that's not what the scripture says or they think it's filthy
lukere or they think people that have it did something illegal or they took something from
somebody help us out teach us about what why why is money such a hard deal to deal with I mean
universally you know the masses absolutely absolutely the problem with money is our perception of money
see from an early stage and when I say an early stage I'm going back even further in time
a thousand years two thousand years the church had to decide how it was that they could get
poor impoverished people to part with their money and give it to them so we begin to indoctrinate
people early on so the programming that we're dealing with is not something that we've been
dealing with for a hundred years 200 years it's for thousands of years for millenniums and it was
always the goal of those who are in power to separate those who had little power from the
resources that they had now the best way that you could do that is by storytelling or indoctrination
and if you can indoctrinate a child early on and make a child believe that money is evil for example
then of course you're going to do everything possible to flee money make sure that you don't
have enough money and anybody that approaches you about money is going to bring a certain feeling
a certain mindset about money now as we grew wiser as we became more educated we still had the
programming of the indoctrination of money being evil for example that there's not enough money
to go around but we failed to understand the origin of money and the origin of money as you
know was a medium of exchange now the exchange was the exchange of service so money in its essence
represents the individual and the service that the individual provides you provide a service for me
and I say thank you for that service and what I do is compensate you by something that we agreed
upon a note that we called money now of course money used to be based off of the gold standard
and pretty soon we exceeded the gold standing so what we did was created this paper stuff called
money or notes or what they are so these notes are nothing more than promissory so it's an agreement
between you and I that I'm going to pay you for the services that you've given me the energy that
you give me the life force that you've given me and I'm going to exchange it for the life force that
I have and we're going to do it by something that we call money so if we understand money in its essence
it's an exchange of life force you're exchanging your efforts your time your energy into what it
is that I've requested of you and I say I'm taking change but I'm going to compensate you with the
effort the energy that I have we call money a medium of exchange for the services that you provide
the truth of the matter what we're truly understanding if we understand this at all is that we're
exchanging energy not money we're exchanging agreements between spiritual beings and we
says what we're going to do is we're going to use this monetary note that we call money as that means
of exchange because you're in one part of the world and I'm in another part of the world and so since
I can't physically give you my labor I give you this exchange now money's changing now it used to
be that we focused on a note money will soon become digital solely digital we go to our bank account
and we say listen I need a hundred dollars so they look at your digital account and they say they
look at these binary notes and these numbers and so forth and they say okay yeah he has the appropriate
binary notes inside his account so we're going to give him right now this currency we're going to
move away from paper money soon and we can see that with credit cards and digital coin currency
like bitcoin and other digital currencies and so forth but it's still the same principle it used to
be way back when did I used to exchange a rock for your cattle or I would exchange rice or beans
or something else in exchange but what we ended up doing was coming to a common place of agreement
and we said in this part of the country we're going to honor this thing this note here as a
representation of that salt as those beans as those linels for exchange for my cow for example
the biggest thing that people need to understand about money is that money is an exchange of energy
it's not good bad it's not evil it's life force being exchanged between people and
inscriptions said that the laborer is worthy of his higher it's funny to me that when you're
offering spiritual service the people don't think that they need to pay for spiritual service for
example if I'm telling you how to use these spiritual principles to change your life or to
transform your life and all of a sudden you've used the principles and transform your life
and now because you've used the principles you've created a new relationship you've created more
money in the bank you've created better help you say well those are spiritual principles to call
it you shouldn't charge me for them but somebody can go into a corporation let's say Bill Gates
and he'll take a product uh such as Microsoft and again we're still talking about digital software
that you can make one digital software copy and multiply that infinite you know to infinity
but when we look at spiritual principles we say well Bill Gates should be compensated
but even though the Carlo Escrowist changed my life he shouldn't be composite because he's teaching
spiritual principles I want them to understand that everything spiritual Bill Gates Microsoft
is spiritual these principles that we're talking about right now are spiritual when somebody impacts
your life and they speak into your life and your life is transformed then you say thank you by the
exchange of energy often we call money but we've been so indoctrinated by the early church that many
of us say well I'm going to get mine in the hereafter the kingdom of heaven is now
you begin experiencing the more abundant life now he says that I come not that you just have life
but but but that you have life more abundantly but how many of us are living the more abundant life
very few and the people that understand these principles most who who understand how money works
the most are the wealthiest people in the world and we say well they're not spiritual but they
understand how the spirit of money works money in itself is no respect of person but if you believe
or have the mindset that money is bad that money is filthy that you don't understand that money is
an extension of yourself and that it is an experience to exchange more so than a monetary exchange
you'll always be operating from lack loss and limitation until that mindset has changed
man thank you what prompted me to ask that question is I was on a training last night
and the thing went over and there was a lady on there and I actually direct messages because I
want to help her and no cost to her she's she's about to get her PhD and she's balling crying
about finances and so in my mind I couldn't make the connection I'm like she's about to get her
doctor degree at some school I don't want to answer this and um she said something and then
one guy got on there he just sold his business for 150 million so he he lit her up then another
guy got on there he said he's worth like 350 million and then by November or December when
they're going through the legal ramifications or whatever on the acquisition and all that he's
gonna be worth 2.6 billion and then another guy got on there I think he was worth over 100 million
and these guys they're giving her input but it wasn't with love so she broke down crying
and then the moderator said you know make sure you're doing self care make sure that you're
getting water to get hydrated because we're hitting some some deep points and so I instantly
direct messenger because she had I know she had some different beliefs in her subconscious that
she's gonna have to purge out and just got to replace with more healthier things but I listened
to what she said she said that in her household her mother always got rid of the money
um they had to wear hand me down clothing and I think like she's working on her PhD
and so in your mind and natural mind you're thinking like man she should be beyond that
and then I'm thinking like man look at how these guys would major major major money how they treated
her and so that's what prompted me to to to even ask you that question that I asked you
we have to understand that there's a lot of highly educated derelicts and there's a
lot of people who hadn't finished high school for billionaires money is not the byproduct solely
of education if the education or the indoctrination that you have about money
is that money's a bad thing or that there's not enough to go around with the young lady the guys
it's like my son for example even heating in air he does a great job but sometimes he's perplexed
that his customers don't understand the dynamics of heating in air and he's like they should
understand this but see what he fails to understand he's been doing this for 10-15 years so he has
the benefit of application those multi-millionaires billionaires have the mindset and the benefit
of application she's going to school and it's fostered her to get her PhD but it's what most of us are
operating off of it's head knowledge but head knowledge will not give you what practical
application will give you so her practical application says there's not enough money to go around
that she's struggling even now to pursue the PhD and not that she had to but she believed
that she had to I used to believe that in order to drive a luxury car that you know maintenance
was going to be higher and you know that you know this and that and that I saw myself at that moment
as always being where I was at that moment that's nonsense but when you don't know you think that
it's your reality now I only bring that up when my mind shift changed and I started driving a
higher caliber car I found that I paid less money in maintenance in the higher caliber car
this idea when I was driving the Saturn and the Twiliter sale you know and the cars like that as
such when you make the shift what's going to happen is that things around you are going to also shift
so you'll find even with the lady with the PhD when she begins to understand how money works
and that there is no limit in the universe you god is a lavish wasteer now people are going to say
you shouldn't see that but hear me out god makes a seed and that one seed produces
affinity you look at a tree you don't go to most trees unless it's a day tree
and see one leaf you see hundreds of thousands millions perhaps depending upon the size of
the tree even billions of leaves on that tree you find the same thing when you're looking at a
pedal or a stock of corn god is a lavish wasteer he gives overly abundant
god's only problem is us and it's our thinking see we believe that no I shouldn't ask god for
this god sees no difference between one cent in a trillion dollars it's no different to god
it says when they went into the wilderness some gathered much and some gathered little
but each person according to their need their needs were met when you begin coming to god with
a bigger vision what you're going to find happens is universe world environment is going to open up
to feel the larger void but likewise if you come to god with a small vision and say god you know
I only can trust you to just give me a potato you know you know remember years ago if you ever
watched uh new jack city chris rock was going there and he says you know uh now it was um
I'm going to get your sucker and he's like just give me a rib give me one rib so god says
here's a rib because see that's all you ask for but for the person says no I want to hold cattle
I want to count a register matter of fact I want multiples then expectation begins to set in motion
this person beginning to get educated in the pathway being open to manifest what it is he or
she acts for wow why we on this subject to actually I was going to ask you about two miracles but
this brought me up because I went out across the world you know probably from 2005 to 2011
to hear the best of the best ministers so the first question I'm going to ask you about is
over there where it says that aperham was very rich like is that a story or or is that really real
or or what let me say this you know as people that will take you on both sides of the album
I like saying this if you understand scripture are right from genesis to revelation it's your
story now what do I mean we're allowed to enter into states many of us thank those states
attitudes dispositions are who we are but when we change our states our attitudes our dispositions
our thoughts our feelings we shift from one state to the other if you're looking through
scripture everything's covered from homosexuality to murder to great abundance to wisdom to visions
and dreams the final state of consciousness when you're looking at scripture is Christ when we come
into the fullness of who we truly are we understand it I and father are one now we use the tools
of infinite intelligence every day when we say I am when we say I am we're linking ourselves to
to the father the creator of the universe he said to aperham aperham said who should I say sent me
he said tell them I am that I am aperham understood at that day the biggest thing that we need to
understand that aperham discovered was who he was when you look at scripture from genesis
to revelation and you begin clothing yourself in these personas aperham dated Moses Noah Jesus Paul
you can close yourself with the attitude of any of these personas and you'll begin manifesting
it says that aperham believes God and it was accounted to him for righteousness when you begin to
believe God the creator divine within you not the one floating around in the sky Jesus Christ
says do you not know that I am the father one when you see me you see the father many of us call
ourselves by the name Christian but we don't understand what it is that we're saying so we're only
Christians and creed and indoctrination of what the church has told us that we are
but when we truly understand who we are we clowed ourselves into the body of God we come into the
realization that I and father are one and as we move through these states of consciousness the
final state of consciousness is understanding that I am one with the father that me and the father
one and when you begin to understand that you are creator we talk about this stuff all the time
but we truly had not come into the realization of who it is that we are now we talk about it
people preach about it but then we go out and we live lives of quiet desperation we live lack
loss and limitation broke busted and disgusted and we say why isn't this thing working out for me
it's working out exactly how it's supposed to work out be it unto you according to you as you
think as you think you are when you change your mindset when you change your thoughts see many
people want to get caught up on the characters of the Bible many of us we're still where we were
two thousand years ago when Jesus gave the go out and made disciples throughout all the world
when Paul was doing these great miracles we stopped at Jesus he says but greater works
should you do the worst that I've done even greater worst you should do so why are we doing
them because we don't believe that we can we look at Jesus and Paul as the exception
they weren't the exception they were the examples from Genesis the revelation is your story but
until you begin clothing yourself into these persons and you begin saying as they said and
begin living as they live you'll continue to experience what you've experienced
wow this like being at Piccadilly's first movie Golden Corral now got the buffet after before y'all
buddy okay so the other two miracles I wanted to ask you about over there and I think it was
second Kings might have been three I'm not sure but basically it was a drought and it needed to rain
and he told him to start that prophet I think it was Elijah he said uh
dig dishes and I guess the guy was looking crazy or whatever what happened on that deal
we're always thinking ahead of our evidence Jesus says you know
don't say that the harvest is coming for months the harvest is white ripe now
many of us won't rain we want a downpour but we're not prepping our lives to receive it so even when
the rain comes because we were ill-prepared we can't receive it we'll find ourselves receiving
so much of the blessing you know somebody wins a lottery ticket but see they have not prepped
their mindset to receive a lottery ticket a win they haven't become billionaires in their mind
they haven't become wise stewards of the thing that they're trying to draw into their
they haven't prepped themselves they haven't dig the ditch for the relationship so they still
got the bad attitude the new person comes in their life and I said why didn't it last
whoever it is that you want to be symbolizes the rain the rain is the downpour of what it is
you're seeking to manifest into your life we call that salvation dr. Joseph Murphy said to my mentor
he says if the thing that you desire is a hamburger the hamburger becomes your salvation
rain is symbolic of the answered prayer when you're seeking to bring about the answer of the prayer
you have to prep yourself it he acts to whittle within your house again go get in the jars
you prep yourself for the thing that you want to manifest see the problem is many people are
trying to get ready when the manifestation takes place but at that point it's too late
you can't be a master talk show host and you've not practiced you can't be this CEO of this great
company and you've not learned how to manage your own affairs you can't be a loving husband
and a loving relationship if you've got problems with anger and you haven't addressed those issues
prep in the ground is getting oneself ready for the thing that they say that they want to manifest
in their life wow y'all getting some great teaching today talk to us about what happened with the
little last five lows and two fish what happened from your perspective life meets us at the expectation
you spoke about expectation earlier now jesus says you know get all these people ready to
have some food and they said you know lord either we had to work a year
the salaries that we would make over a year wouldn't be enough to feed all these people
it goes back to prep in the ground jesus and half the people ready to sit down
now manifestation in itself is a spiritual thing now we see manifestation in the physical output
we see the lows in the bread but what we have to understand is that everything that's manifested
on the physical level starts fourth first and foremost at a spiritual level so mine is the master
manifested when you look at i stated it earlier look at anything in the room around you
all of that started off as a thought now the person that had the thought
everybody told him that he was insane how does he think that he's going to be able to create that
how is he going to get the finances there's a hundred different stories there's thousands of
stories just like that represented in many of the things that are sitting right in front of you
right now you know something as simple as a copy machine when the founder of zerox decided that
he was going to make this copy machine a national brand and have it into the offices of companies
and globally people thought he was crazy but he had a vision an intention an expectation
with the five lows in the fish people looked at what was present when you're talking about
five anyway it stands for grace many of you are trying to manifest things in your life
and you're trying to figure out how it's going to happen your words is not to figure out
the five lows in the three fishes your words is to decide what it is that you want to manifest
in this case it was food for the multitude they started off what what it was that they had
and god brought about the manifestation let me say that again they started off what it what what
they had the idea of the concept and god brought about the manifestation your job is
see the end what is it that you want to manifest in your life who is it that you want to be
you set the intention the expectation god or brain about the implementation you can't know
the people that are going to come into your life you can't know the opportunities or
sometimes even what appears to be the failures at the moment that are going to act as a catalyst
to bring a lot brain about the five lows in three fishes and feed a multitude of four or five
thousand this is just a man we haven't even got into the woman and the children
yours is to set the expectation of what it is who it is that you want to be Abraham as far as
your eye can see and gods if in its spirit the spirit in each one of us go and purpose will
brain about the manifestation wow y'all getting some teaching today folks
talk to us about attitude everything is about attitude some of you going to hear what's being
said and you're going to say man that's a bunch of hogwash you know i don't believe it and
because of that attitude the way that universe the way the guys designed who you are as a person
i don't even want to get super spiritual but the way the guy just designs you as a person
life is going to say to you being unto you according to your faith somebody else we want to say you
know what i'm going to begin watching what it is that i think about i'm going to be mindful of my
thoughts i'm going to start listening to more of this and less of that i'm going to start watching
more of this and less of that and what they're going to see if their life is going to be radically
transformed and see people will be apt to think that i'm just speaking off the top of my head and
that i have no personal evidence i had siblings who were incarcerated once one back and got her
master's degree and she's a counselor a brother of mine who was in and out of incarceration until
he became a man of wisdom he began to attract to himself other men who had came from the same
background that he was in and he began transforming their lives now when i first started speaking
into their lives at the age of 14 i was the crazy one in the house i was the christian
the one that he didn't notice talking about i quit talking and i started living and they started
seeing one miracle one transformation after the other pretty soon they said you know i want what
you want and i gave them an introduction to themselves in the way of a person by the name of Jesus
now don't get caught up in the religion yours may be buddha yours may be more hamid
god is not bound to our names when we step into eternity we're going to be surprised
at who's there don't get caught up in the name get caught up in the essence of who god is
see god answered the prayer when we're praying believe in league of an atheist
when the apists believe that he or she can have what it is that they say
that's how universe works that's how god works god is no respecter a person
we've created titles and we've given names to the supreme but in eternity there's just god
and the name god is in isn't isn't sufficient enough to identify but for lack of
another name to calling i'll stick with that for now the whole point is when you understand
that your attitude you know in the secular with that your attitude makes a break you
it's so true a good attitude because of my father in the introduction to my father at the age of
14 opportunities have always come to me because of attitude and if you got a sour attitude and
you're wondering why doors are closing on you and so forth check your attitude now sometimes
the hardest person to look at is ourselves you know sometimes it takes my wife to
act as the mirror in my own life so i don't always get this thing right understand i don't
want y'all to think that all he's got it i don't have all the answers i know what i know so what
i'm communicating to you is what it is that i know and what i've experienced i'm not just talking
some theory that i formulated that said this is a workable theory i'm speaking to you from a place
of life experience and i know this stuff works but the other side of it is you got to work it
but the first place you start is with the attitude
wow talk to us about self-concept or self-image
when we're talking about self-image as i stated earlier
most of
who we identify as our self-concept or our self-image has been given to us from others
we've never decided who it is that we will be so when life happens we say this is just who i am
but who told you that's just who you were
your parents your educators your pastor
the politicians a person on the street your employer who told you that's who you were
because the god says
you are gods but you should die like men and we die like men because we don't understand that we're
gods now some of you want to say oh he's talking crazy now i didn't say that that wasn't what i said
but god can only give birth god can only create god he said that he created man and woman
and his image and his likeness if god creates a person in his image and likeness by name we have
to call that person a god now we say would decarled what's the qualifications of god
god said it was good and creation was finished then what god did was give his given dominion
over to us and you say with decarled how do we exercise this dominion
he says choose this day you're given to choose and whatever you say about this day we talked about
earlier but what are you naming today we talked about genesis of revelation
Adam was given first man was given to name the animals what are you naming the conditions
in your world good bad indifferent happy sad be it unto you according to your faith
choose you this day as you look at what it is that you're doing
you're giving names to it you're giving names to situations you're giving names to leaders and
politicians and so forth god has given you dominion so as you've given the name as i am has given the
name to his world her world of experience so must it be
wow share a little bit of insight with us on mindset and focus mastery
when you're looking at your mindset most of us are operating off of autopilot
so because we're operating off of because we're operating off of autopilot we say
this stuff couldn't work because i keep experiencing the same thing over and over again
but the thing is actually working perfectly based off of your mindset it wasn't until i changed
my mindset and said that i could be in a better relationship that i could have that car
that i could own that house that i could have that type of job that i could make this kind of money
that didn't happen until i had a mind shift change it can't happen god has given himself a decree
not to interfere unless we've invited him in so he's not going to just purposely change your life
first of all even if he did you wouldn't realize that he did so you would still be operating from
the same mindset and everything would appear to be the same everything that you need to
succeed in life that ideal that concept that desire that you have that's god putting that ideal
in you but there's something even more powerful if you got the desire to do
you have within you the faculties to be but if you don't understand that ego
love comfort it loves but familiar so anytime you try to stretch to become more
than what you currently are mindset ego is going to say you it don't require all that
you don't have to do that why are you doing this you don't even want to get up
but when you begin to understand from a place of vision when you get a picture of who it is
that you are and who it is that you ultimately want to be cut on and you plant that mental picture
before you there's nothing that's going to stop the manifestation of that go once it's set in motion
except you shifting your mindset now scripture says this about mindset that a double-minded person
is unstable in all of his ways her ways and let them not believe that they shall receive anything
from god the reason why it's not that god's withholding the god that the god that's withholding
is you and what i mean by that is if you're vacillating between i want to go to california
and i want to go to new york
you can't go either way so you can't receive the good that you would receive by taking action
because you've not made a decision it's only once you've just made a decision or cut off any
other possibility at that moment whatever the decision is decision means to cut off
to sever any other possibilities than the one that you're making at the moment then you open
up the pathway to the next thing and then it's like going to the store when you go to the store
you make a decision of the items that you want to pick up you can't get this if i don't know what
i want you know and you all day in the store saying you don't know what you want you make a decision
once that decision has been made you purchase the items you take them home and then you benefit
from the decision that was made this is life we're always manifesting we tried to make it this
mysterious magical thing but this is who you are as creators this is who you've been designed to be
what i'm saying is make a decision decide who it is that you want to be
and mindset life surroundings will all acquiesce and make way for the thing that you've decided
wow it's been amazing show tell the crowd and audience about all your different social media
and email your product tell them everything about you the whole globe need no about you
absolutely if you want to hear more of what it is that we talk about on our programming and so
forth you can first of all go to youtube if you go to youtube and you type in decalo esco
you're going to see a lot of talks out there based off of some of the things that we talked about
today about mindset about changing your mindset beginning to think purposely so that you can create
the life that you desire you can also look at our facebook group now it's a private facebook
group but if you're interested again the goal is is to help the people with in that group to become
self-sufficient many people teach these principles and so forth what they want you to do is ultimately
depend upon them my goal my mentors goal is not that you depend upon us but that you learn to
thank and manifest for yourself so if you go to the metaphysical art theated that's the facebook
group the metaphysical art theater uh and request to subscriber to become a part of that group
uh will welcome you in there you can also go out to amazon i got many books on amazon uh the latest
book that i've got out there is called the seven second prayer the seven second prayers the goal
of the seven second prayer is not praying as a sort not like you think prayer is begging god
and saying god please help me but realizing that you are the prayer and understand that whatever it
is that you give your attention to ultimately it's a prayer so many people are praying for healing
for example but they give their attention to illness illness becomes the prayer you have to change the
way that you're looking at your life and begin giving thanks for what it is that you want to
manifest in your life so that's the essence of the seven second prayer upcoming workshop is called
the manifestation course and the point of the four-week manifestation course early on is to
help people begin to purposely think in order to manifest the life that they want and that's coming
up soon if you're interested in that you can reach out to me by going to uh decarlo esgrids
and then at outlook.com so again decarlo is at outlook.com um we got a number of products out
there uh like i said to go to the metaphysical art theator.com you'll see a package out there and
that package is uh one of my teacher talking about thinking right and it's a very affordable
package it's a four cd set uh that will give you tools to begin getting your thoughts in line so
that you can create the life that you desire again that's the metaphysical art theator that
package comes in a physical uh cd package but there's also a downloadable package that will have pretty
much what the physical package we have but you just have uh it's an access to it and like i said
we've made it very affordable purposely because we're in the business of life change uh but the
biggest thing is coming up in the near future like i said is the manifestation course and uh my people
are working on getting the website up on that so you go to manifestationcourse.com uh that website
to be up shortly but in the interim if you just want to reach out to me and you won't get more
information about that uh go to decarlo s-grich uh at gmail.com or i would suggest it's going to
hotmail.com so again decarlo s-grich out outlook.com and that'll get you to me i got so many addresses
out that but i want to direct you to the ones that you're going to get the uh most benefit from so
again decarlo s-grich at outlook.com and if you add any questions if you want to reach out if you
just got something you want to bounce off uh or you're looking at personal coaching whatever
reach out to me and if all else of you can't remember anything just go to decarlo s-grich.com
and there's a page on this is contacting uh from that link uh you'll be able to reach out to me
and i'll make it happen so uh either saying to do all the stuff i just said if you just go to decarlo
s-grich.com, decarlo s-grich, esk, ridge.com reach out to me and i'll point you to whatever it is
that you want if you type in decarlo s-grich in google you'll see most of my stuff out there you
know the stuff that's active at this point so that's also a starting point uh i know i'm rambling
on but there's just so much that i'm doing and i want to make sure that i point you in the right
direction uh so that you can get the most benefit and listen i have a lot of like my brother was
saying earlier i have if you just want to just listen and find out what it is that i talk about
you can go out to youtube and other channels like that there's a lot of free out there i often
suggest to people start with free and find out if it's a fit for you and then once you move beyond
free and you say man i listen to all of this stuff and i'm so excited and i'm not i want to work with
directly then we can do that but it is funny that somebody would tell you to start with free and
try to take money out of the park but see i know it's not about me it's about you and i know that if
i'm giving you service and you're benefiting from it you're going to do what's right for you and
whatever that looks like you know i'm here for you so start with free go to youtube.com listen to
some of the talks and i know that you'll be blessed thank you dukkala i'm going to leave
this show with several quotes uh there's been an action packed powerful show but don't let this
fall on the ground you know there's seeds of greatness expressed today seeds of abundance
seeds of love and relationships seeds of intelligence i mean like i said he was at first he was at the
golden corral you was at louvie's you was at pickle dillies i mean you had a buffet in front of you
you might be overwhelmed you can listen to the broadcast over and over again for free
he gave you many different channels or outlets that you can go look at i mean
the people that are succeeding on a medium scale on a large scale and beyond they're actually
applying the principles that was discussed and talked today the gentlemen's teachers with such
great simplicity and such humbleness that i mean i don't understand how you wouldn't be able to
receive this so Ralph Walter him to said a man is what he thinks about all day long
Buddha said we are the sum total of our thoughts dr kim and parland said two percent of the world
thinks three percent of the world think that they think and 95 percent of the world would rather
dive and think here we gave it thought we said it's one advances confidently in the direction
of his or her dreams and indeed is the lives of life which they have imagined they will meet with
success unexpected in common hours colin powell said a dream doesn't become reality through magic
it takes sweat determination and hard work michael jordan said i can accept failure but i cannot
accept not trying until the next time i'm gonna change it up i'm gonna ask a question because
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