The Power of Synergy, October 6, 2022
The Art of Synergy
Introduction:
What is Synergy? It’s an art! It’s what you create when you come together with people.
Overview:
The 2 things that people have become in the world today:
Disconnected: They are unaware of themselves; internally and externally. You’ll only be able to attach to others in the way that you are connected with yourself.
Detached: When people come together, they are not truly with each other. You will only be able to relate to others based on your master of the 3 elements. It’s an ART.
A.R.T.
Appreciation:
What value do you place on people, in general?
Do you understand behavior—in the context of personality?
Are you willing to get personal, about them? About yourself?
Respect:
What is respect to you, personally?
The actual definition, rarely agreed upon:
Is it something inherent that comes with the territory?
Or demanded from a person?
Trust:
The challenge of surrender, giving people power over you.
Knowledge is power.
Vulnerability is scary because you can truly be hurt.
It’s absolutely vital for a relationship to be good. It’s intimacy.
Technology undermines relationships:
The communication is very handicapped compared to personal:
The amount expressed is significantly less than thought/felt
The “human” factor is gone compared to direct contact
Quality over quantity = success:
People don’t need as much when it’s the “good stuff”.
And they’re willing to invest and sacrifice if they know it’s going to be “worth it” in the end.
*Quality defined: Being in a good mood and spreading the good mood. Effort is sincere. Sacrifice is genuine and voluntary.
Conclusion:
*There is no neutral energy.
*What do you bring to the relationship?
The Power of Synergy
"Is relationship coaching right for me?"
Unlike conventional counseling, relationship coaching is about insightful education and listening more than talking.
Connection, communication, and accountability are the 3 elements to a successful relationship. All 3 are vital and perpetual. Relationships are about knowing yourself and understanding others so that what you share is healthy and beneficial--to you both.
Some questions to ask yourself:
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- Can you handle homework?
- How honest are you with yourself?
- How much support do you provide to others?
- Are you qualified for a relationship?
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