The Power of Synergy, September 22, 2022
The Power of Synergy
September 22, 2022 theme:
The Power of Love
Introduction
Definition of Synergy; relationships
Dynamics of Relationships; there is no neutral
Knowledge is Power; power is accountable
My background of “If he loves you, he’ll wait”
My father preparing me to find one
My religion encouraging me to wait and be worthy
Philosophy foundation of “If you love something, set it free”
The dynamics of surrender (vulnerability is not powerless)
The responsibilities of trust (there is no neutral energy)
3 kinds of love: Agape, philia, eros
Principles for behavior = Agape overview
Affection in the heart = Philia overview
Sexuality of the body = Eros overview
1 Corinthians 13 description of Agape
Even for enemies (constant)
Our personal sacrifices (generous)
Unconditional (humble)
Without any expectations (unselfish)
What’s harder for you: Doing good? Or NOT doing bad?
The Opposite of Love
Apathy definition and examples
Indifference definition and examples
Hatred definition and examples
Which is the most harmful?
Conquering evil with good
I love pizza
Flaws of language and potential misunderstandings
The inconsistency of emotions
The human variable element
Closing
Your synergy with others is based entirely on the quality of your heart
How much of your life is about love—any kind? Which kind(s)?
How pure is your love—in any form?
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