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okay can you hear me say thank you so much everyone welcome to project review with you and thank you for if you are listening the last couple hours carrying on with us going to get to it real quick here today I have a very special guest that has helped myself and many other people make tremendous personal advancement and I want to talk about this dark house she did that for me and see if a residents with you all and how she can be of help to protect play and we're getting so many healers and and people reaching out to be of service to humanity this is one person that I feel
we can learn from and so I'll just start that way and I'm going to give you a quick story here forgive me for being long-winded and nauseous nausea please I come in as you feel you would like to participate everyone who follows this material with me knows my story pretty pretty well Dakshin set for dense May were designed to keep my true personality way for me to understand who what where when how I was to navigate this world
in participating with myself so I went looking for what's what's going on with me and of course I went to all the greatest psychics all over the planet and people military-industrial people and we got it we got it solved and you know that story well now I how do I how do I recover from now getting my memories back and the tortures I went through in the relationship I have work for part of part of those torches that I didn't understand how how to find myself how to be my appendix self
and I came across somebody in that person's on the call today. Her name is the chinnock elevens herb I will be a bun on our our our web pages after next couple days
what does but she was able to do for me is to be present and let me be me
and teach me how to do that and be perfectly at peace with myself by the way she'll do a better job of explaining what I want to ask about how she's able to do her work is she allowed me to be
if he's with me however I wanted to be she was and she open the door for me and she just sat there and with not with no judgment no perceived outcome yet the solution became perfect and I feel know that she can do it for anyone even though her passion maybe it is and maybe a gender-specific or otherwise it's always successful
every time is Maya my assessment and with that I would like to talk with you today and miss you would not mind me asking you questions my dearest dearest one
yes I would be happy to answer any questions you have thank you
good I'll show you start
I would like to invite everybody please please really feel the harmonics here this is such a miraculous moment having q and Luchia in a Harmonix is it such a gift so thank you please go ahead
yes the first thing when we look at it pains me to standardize healing but so let's go do it for the use of conversation so the healers serving they come with a lot of them they come with us
let's say a modality
and you you don't have a fixed modality to get people to help the service whatever you like to call it to move forward can you tell me what if we could model how I first start working with you what does it look like from your perspective when I knock on your door
good question so the most important thing I do in the beginning of each session is crazy container
and what I mean by that is it's it's a it's a it's a dropping in
in what focus and a dropping in and into the body into the heart
opening to the senses and the experience of the inner world
that's the first thing I do and what that does the energy from the Mind into the body into the heart what is present here and now
is that make sense
yes. When when you look at let's say an individual says I don't understand the Delta the difference between mind and heart out how do you create an opportunity for Education there is there a is there an exercise you use or how does it work
yeah actually I work the 7 yesterday that was from your show and
does she had mentioned that headache so for me it was like oh all the energy stuck in the head like you don't really have to understand how to do it just do it you just find it and then drop in behind the one that's receiving and you drop back a little bit energetic me and down and then you arrived into your into a different space into a space that it's easier to be inside of you
so is it would we say we're watching thought we're not a participant of thought is that a day
yes and that is also a component of being watching it's also there's the being of one starts it said it's an undoing state
yeah I should contribute to that I feel you licking your chops are so right on unloving is in you
yeah and so when I've had such a beautiful time last couple years work with some people and
it seems one opportunity we have getting back to recognize our our authentic self relaxing better definition
would be a paste in our decisions is that is that a spiritual warfare statement for maybe a tool you use
yeah although it just happens when there's a dropping in and down it there's a slower Pace that happens naturally because you know when the mind is going on meds and it didn't affect Asian with the mind
the everything there is often tension and the nervous system can you know react to them the mind and what the mind is doing but when there's a drop thing back up and down into the body we want two people to be in the body not out the body right in the body that has a different frequency and a different I just a pacing yes slower
yeah and if I'm always looking for ways to explain that in in and I started observing that most of us can do it naturally if we don't have
the distractions of the mind and predominately our past choices of that that comfy shoe we like to use regarding obligations commitments from her past maybe it's being a mother and father would have you in and I don't want to be late for the parade and all of that it seems to me that there's an opportunity to cause we stopped thinking and what participant based on dropping in as you call it because you really excited to do it is that one way to look at it
yes although it's not about stop thinking it's just about
jumping into a different orientation said that thinking kind of ceases because you actually think I'd be in the present moment the same time they can try but it's not going to work very well. So I'm do always doing my best to steal your words Bravo okay so now when you're working with people like okay I got it and it only took one sentence goes in now what are ways you apply it when you start recognizing your life was built around a lot of Mind energy and or that comfy shoe what are ways to start applying situational choices that you may have to deal with and or transition to this
new lifestyle maybe we might say what would be some opportunities there
can you give me an example like maybe what yeah but you would like to connect to Miranda
I'm going to I'm going to do one that I come across every day with clients about it I have to go to work today because that's a really good paycheck and by the way I don't want to get kicked out of my house
yeah so that's a lot right there so I have to go to work in order to make money right now have a paycheck so personal about 2:30 is obligated I'm so you know here's the thing in in this culture
it's like do you want to believe what what you should do or do you want to do what you want to do and the difference between that is yes you know if you do what you want to do that really brings you alive and you'll what you'll call to do rather than what you have to do it shifts the orientation around how you show up in life and so
you know I hold space for a Sacred Space for people because I needed that when I was younger often we do what we most need right that's it from our wounding two to offering what we know our wisdom right is hopefully what happens from no Evolution and grow in a growth and I think that that is if you are happy with having to go to work and making money at work but if you you can actually be a choice you have you each one of you has a choice
and that comes from your inner Authority there's extra No Authority but that's also inner Authority and so it's a matter of what do you want to listen to you what do you want to listen to
sob the inner Authority I noticed
doesn't have fear but the exterior participation does possibly and maybe we called Lima to join us so it is example I would love to go run away to the circus but then the family so I can have the House appear as insulin stalled with the mines but our interests already says I really think I'm going to be okay because I don't mind sleeping with the office or any way that sphere
about losing all in this example and not doing what you want at Circus what you really feel excited about is that self-imposed you feel most of the people you come across with for is it a judgment from are ancillary or intimate relationships
well that's a really good question and so you're getting into interesting territory because in my experience says what we've been taught our conditioning and each person has their own condition cuz they have you know their own upbringing in and what they're told by their parents what's right and wrong and what you should do and then I'm be a good person and a good mother and I. Is ingrained in grains in and then I believe it's about who we think we should be and what we should do as a result like a hater you know how to be a responsible human being and a responsible husband
right so now instantly we have to ask ourselves to the indigenous people of the Amazons they live this way nature deeply listening to their inner guidance and intuition and you know it you know it's over it's actually that we have just forgotten many of us have a particular resonance and if we're not listening to that resonance they're often than blocks and things that happen in our body just eases that arrived when we're not in tune with this highly refined instrument
yes but I don't get this phone call but I don't have my iPad how do we work with these toys. Okay so as much as I put down these tools it seems there's also an opportunity to use them and I feel we are doing it today we're sharing Google Sharon R&R express ourselves with with these tools so I'm not going to give up on him
what is a way you can refine our instrument what it what are what are tools you use to refine your estimate be with my give me a couple examples
well one of them is as my practice and Aikido
I practice Aikido which isn't a martial art learning how to connect with with adversarial energy and not neutralized it and he wants to go so that is my practice the last eight years I've been doing this and it's helped me refine find my balance find my inner stability and find a way to see myself where I'm not weighing to compromise myself to someone else outside of my time so that's one component I think everyone will have their own answer to this because it's a matter of what bresnick what feels good to you and your stolen Your Heart Like I Do you know you know this walking with no shoes on the reconnection and my spacer connecting to my nature
my residents I take deep breaths and try to get what I'm trying to say you know I stopped and really listen and take people in and received them be receptive I mean what that's one of the things we can do in our lives that's how can you be even more receptive and really listened like really listen to somebody that is such an incredibly useful weight of a beautiful instrument
Bravo thank you very much with the what is it that's actually occurring with the spirit by I feel like the spirit isn't kneeling more and more with physicality with where I would describe it how would you describe it
so can you repeat the question
yeah sorry I got lost in translation of accused okay so when I when I'm done I key do I noticed that and other modalities I've noticed that I come more of spirit as a physical being is that is that what's occurring is that what we're doing when we we we we are present with our true self is that how you'd explain it or can you find some better words for me for saying that is an outcome of the training that I have also experienced so I'm also meeting the training helps me beat anything that is not a spirit is from trauma in my in my cells are in my body that can be released
and as that happens a person's of happens of releasing all the stuff that stuck in my body experiences more space or Spirit to existing that make sense
yeah well done 12th and so I'll speak her off at what all she does is she goes to the mall and she buys designer shoes and then she puts her hand straight out on both sides Vern spins 33 * counterclockwise
that's a true story when we talked about spinning in one place one time would it what occurs when you do that for you
what a great question thank you it actually that question reminds me of what you and Luchia the feeling I'm getting when I when I was going to you because what I'm realizing is with you is so healthy and balanced herself
you start to resonate with that beautiful peace in her and she also has such a balance of masculine and feminine so that support in the receptivity and she's also doesn't have any expectation shouldn't have any pressure for two who's listening and there's no doing or just for being so that just being in the very center of your being peaceful that's what the spending this for me and that's what you two are doing for me right now
thank you very much my great honor yes so what I feel is a great opportunity is to find find a safe place and that judgment there is cell phone so where is our safe place it's always going to be in there it's never left so why we made it unsafe places where I kept going for me is okay why is it not well why did I make that choice why am I here now this is not my big comfy house and stalking him to say what
maybe with the situation a situation example I gave what are ways for people to do it in the next moment the chair what is what is something that they're sitting at their dining table right now what what is something they can do and put to practice right now that you might suggest
to make sure that there's enough space between things like just even how you listening or if you're staying something to cause between things and just let things settle I think everyone's often and so much are hurry you know or you know always looking to get the next thing done on my to do list and it's like where is your attention your attention is like so valuable it's so valuable it's golden and where are you placing it and how are you listening like with your attention is it all over the place or are you able to really hold it in and have it be right here I actually did an exercise many many years ago
I use a used it for learning how to train my mom to come back to the present moment
and you know if you're not very good at a great alternative and it's very simple for the candle and a piece of paper and what you do is focus on the candle flame
and you focus on the timer for 10 minutes and anytime you're distracted or anything physical that your bring yourself to your bring your eyes back to the conversation back to the candle flame and what that change our minds do it catches your thoughts and things went whatever you're distracted away from the present moment as possible so you know what I would say is you know that we're learning how to learn how to get along if you need to learn how to listen to understand what's actually happening in this moment and it's so easy it's so quick so quick that we think that all I want to reply I have the answer and and both looking for an offense that connection that's what feels fulfilling your hearts right but what creates better sense of connection
is the space
so much for listening from that being space
yeah well done the
is it okay if I give you some attention
I can never trick you darn it how you doing on time yeah and so that I I don't feel I could have explained that any better that was brilliantly said so I of course of course I remember doing that same exercises decades ago it seems like now and I remember something someone coming up to me and my family saying how come you're sitting here staring at a candle for 4 hours and I realized that you lose time when you become present don't you
yes absolutely and you know it it's more like the consistency then that I was saying if you going to do it do it for maybe like 60 days and 10 minutes a day or twice a day 10 minutes because it's more the actual practice of it than the length of it but that's the training to know what to do I need directions so when we tell when we left them looking for the next thing to do
very well.
I recognized I created a pattern recognition system by not getting on the patterns in any longer with one way I observed it in and I was like okay well I actually don't care that I was sitting in front of the kennel for hours and by the way there was no risk to me because that would be something I would introduce late for something obligation is when I started making decisions based on what we're calling the candle and I'm just observing and expressing myself with my next choice now instead of up a participant in other people's choices for me was one of my great schools participating with someone else's
decisions choices and in which is fine but do I really love
that choice that we would hope they love it gets and gets really fun when you can find someone that you can do it with when you say
in what way
exactly everything
a nice a right on so now this is so fun in every time I play with you it is always been
from a point of neutrality peacefulness and then creativity yet still and a peaceful neutrality observing and expressing our excitement that we might enjoy and share together and so I'm always looking for models or explanation for that because until you do it in in your your informal and formal decision making process relationships formal or informal it's not always recognizable because the speed of our society as you said is that what you observe with your clients as well
yeah I think you know
what I do is the beauty of just allowing the space to be what it is Magic happens it's like you know the uniqueness of each person and I feel that that is the greatest gift we can give one another is too hot to create a space and to be in the listing where we can all be ourselves all be our unique South nuts what makes the beautiful tapestry of life
you know everyone has healing everyone has, everyone has some sort of stuff figures that they're working through their human parts and you know if we can bring the background to the foreground the background meaning of being a more to the foreground I think we'll have a lot more understanding and compassion for people are going through right now and invite each other to share what the thing to clean the space I think that that is one of the most healing things you can teach one another
yeah I agree the promise where are they
right now that you know I think they come up in our relationship do you know they're nowhere and then they arise son. Someone says something right now and then better reaction to happen and if it's a good question. For each person to discover on their own and in their own way like that's partly why I hold space for them to connect with her, and give them to
so when we identify a trauma when you're working with folks you you you dress it right off the bat you you start there A lot of times or how do you how do you usually work with trauma as resistance of fear the sphere
you know I'm so it's a matter of facing it being completely honest being willing to face it Having the courage to feel it whatever is there and moving through it where if you take it out of the play sweat at parties from a ties and bring it back into the present time of reassurance or listening or simple
and no doubt I was
I was am will be always examining you playing with people's relationship and pains me to put titles to a lot of these things I've observed there but pretty common in but it it's it makes it a little easier to acknowledge somebody, that's what I'm calling Cory thanks a lot of marriages broken marriages at cetera they have any issues or opportunities I should say
and I find that really interesting in the way our physical beings or change it and we're getting more of our capabilities which I feel is also why we're getting better recording each other past traumas emotions were able to negatively and positively toward each other because of the way the dolphin and us is going to look at it we're just getting a lot of our skills or tools back and be safe with that exam do you see what I'm calling courting as a common occurrence in in The Departed relationships or friendships would have you do when you see that is a common problem and in your client
what is your definition of cording
in the past he said she said he said she said he said so I'm not calling back cuz I'm not become stone in this I do this is going to happen and if I don't they're going to do this if they don't do that then I'm going to have to do the monkey mind can feel of this thought process from the opposition and try and translate it in try and do something with it in most cases the end up being a physicality that's what I see quite, how about you cuz I think I placed into reactivity and I will call it wounding reactivity around when that one inside that innocent little child inside is not feeling safe to be at self where do the work I'm doing is helping people return to their
and the reaction of the going back and forth as you were saying is really
the inner part of the inner child or the parts of you that I've got their nice back for that that has that is the basic love and unconditional love and attention undivided attention but it's been longing for this party has been longing for
yeah well very good could you spend a few minutes going over what you submitted to me it sent over to me I noticed on your profile you're favoring your use of made a beautiful script for me to identify where you're favoring your services now would you be going over your body a little bit where you're not exclusively focusing but where you where you feel your optimizing your services now
why must you work with women just because I am a woman and I have more into standing although doesn't mean I don't work with men but I do tend to have that old towards women more and I think that
I do small groups online you know events to bring lemon together one thing I am doing that includes both men and women is kind of a fun of our everyday lives and I call it practical Heaven because it's
an exploration kind of a laboratory to explore different topics where it's safe to experience to be yourself everybody has different definitions of different things love is different for everyone has their own experience and what that is but I create that it's kind of a fun thing to do you know just explore like I think that's why we're here on this planet is to learn and play and experience and explore
naked okay yeah that's that's so awesome so we can you do the group work you do it on the computer or do you do it in an office or how do you how do you usually do it now
right now but I do sometimes physical in-person Retreat send things but this one will be on and then I also another one that I'm doing that is cold from wounding two wisdom
and it's this is just for women at it starts on November 5th prettiest prettiest to another and it's inspired by what I've been going through and the wisdom that I want to share and also open the space for for healing for healing and shift the victim mentality into back into the wholeness as well as we are in this moment and a lot of the time you just want love and attention and she'd love this part back the homeless
yes well said the the volume of healing group collaboration group coming through countries is growing and dear ones be patient through all of your publication is it is it a case-by-case would it be fair to take ask you to participate at one of these group sessions so as examples are people are putting together kids camps everyone under the age of 100 is welcome and would you be willing to travel from time to time
yes I'm going to be interested in so that's what I was starting to see the volume of these people are growing
it's not that they need organization so much it's that he'll just enjoy the other perspective everyone has one thing, they they just love playing and collaborating and so that's that's my great person that everybody is says as long as we're all connected is just incredibly valuable tool that will say yes I do I think we just need some specially when this time when we had the pandemic you know we're all like all the ice like crazy and we just so you know that's not helpful
yeah it's it's not my favorite type of ice cream but it's closed trailer music by little better and the services that you do not use you still dream about us greater San Diego or is that correct spelling to show up
do you have any questions for me
I would like to do before I go I love to stare and poems if that would be okay without 6ft okay love can't wait
it's called returning home to innocence
I am presence and Humanity
presence is alive and full
it has its own intelligence
presence is warm and tender
it is love in its purest form
what does by Humanity long for
to be met with presents to be loved exactly the way it is it longs to be received and adored her done cherished Express been seen
acknowledged and appreciate it and it has to be nurtured with curiosity and it's messy Untamed ways
it's the lights when it is touched with a sense of awe and wonder slowing down time so it can feel the magic of what it's like to be loved unconditionally
so it can finally you say to relax
I said returns home again to innocence of being
that's what my Humanity rules for met
with a big bow on top
sprinkles
I love you so much and thank you for for sharing your wisdom with us today it is a privilege to be in your presence and supporting assisting Humanity I'm always in awe of your dance I am always of your dad thank you thank you thank you
thank you so much to you for having me and CBS Radio I really appreciate you have any and you know just continue being yourself can get the world
beautiful beautiful list to you and thank you and we will chat with you soon and I'm going to go ahead and advertise that your bio that's okay I'm pretty appreciate you thank you that you are absolutely wonderful thank you so much
you're welcome
bye-bye bye-bye okay
well now that we save the world
it's a just never never get tired of collaborating with her how about you and everything she said everything both of us that are so poignant but for the healers I would like to point out that she said allowing the space to be what it is just not trying to accomplish anything she's just being that's why I meant she has no agenda so she doesn't really work with the modality now when people when he learned sometimes work with a modality they have an agenda I'm going to do this and this and this so they don't think I passed that allowing the space to be what it is which makes the client nervous
and they feel better than the climb up so one thing about the chair is she just creates the space where you feel so safe you know she's not trying to change you should just see if she was perfect and she is getting herself as a perfect balance perfect love for me is the real healing power of what who she is and what she does how does that feel to you
you're well done
where I where I am excited to go with this material is so all the healers I expect we'll get something out of our conversation today and when I look at the medical industry in all the thousands of people I've worked with over the years
I have found commonality for recognizing ourselves and ailments and I feel that every doctor should start off with for like a better definition of her model of evaluating their clients and their patience and then make assessments discernment of course is a very
powerful tool for you to have snow once we have that open space that allowing space of perceiving the person in Perfect Space of love
and then only then can you determine and or make assessment how they might need help and support when you said it
yes actually what what I'm hearing you say is you have to see their true frequency to allow it to mirror that for them is that what you mean by service providers and they would start off with a lot of proactive
La tremenda proactive love for their patience and and then proceed with providing the service is what I'm suggesting all our healer start potentially utilizing as it does without standard I know I use that word but we obviously need to start from a very very intentional level of care that is not perceived when you have a white jacket on typically in The Stereotype but this is a tremendous opportunity to slow down and do root cause analysis some speaks from our heart that's what I left my suggestion
yes and one thing about you and the chair you're so good at listening and when you're listening I know you're really loving really paying attention really feeling what
the highest isn't that person had to bring them to their true self how do you do that that's maybe something I need to do a better job
explain it and we use the candle meditation example today if you really taken great care if you really are observing if you're really paying attention
why is the inside of a relationship you're not even listen to the other person a lot of people attention so
I feel that the way I do it is showing up in perfect
Space which would be peace and have installed continue to find more and more words but we stay in a place of peace
and then we participate then we play but we're always come back to zero so to speak yet with great anticipation maybe always been peaceful with our next decision to so that's the best I can do hopefully that helps will so perfect thank you and described you and the chief and the mermaid princess Anna thank you so much for sharing that so clearly
yeah I kind of lost but sometime during the week we talk alike I just recognized that make sense we and I've had the privilege and honor of being with me on a beach for a very very long time like an eternity and I recognize the more I was with her the more all of our thoughts emotions are flow
ab ab scar Tides flood of our Tides were synchronistic and that is what I wanted to share with everybody else and that's why I do project promiscuous there's a dance for us here there is a really big dance for us all here and if we just take a little more care with you as well said thank you
well that's passed our time flies you having fun all righty with creating first close it out thank you everyone thank you Kristin and Christopher and Luchia and keep you and all the listeners gone thank you so much even when
thank you everybody for showing up taking great care I just let everybody know though progress report me got through few egg groups last week they tune come for you my great great love for all of this day
it is just an incredible experience to get to do this work thank you thank you thank you good day