E20 - How to See Red Flags and Avoid Wasting Time, Energy, and Emotional Well-being, November 28, 2017

How to see red flags and avoid wasting time, energy, and emotional well-being
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E20 - How to See Red Flags and Avoid Wasting Time, Energy, and Emotional Well-being
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Guest, Lorna Poole

Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD

Guest, Lorna Poole

Going from Dating Disaster to Finding Long-Time Love 

How's Your Dating Radar? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler helps you see why you may be missing red flags

Guest, Dating Coach Lorna Poole, talks candidly how dating disasters woke her up to what she really wanted and how she found long-time love and what it took to get it 

Headlined, Relationship Help Show, November 28, 2017

How to see red flags and avoid wasting time, energy, and emotional well-being
Broadcast Date: 
November 28, 2017

This week, I discuss how to see red flags and avoid wasting time, energy, and emotional well-being, and my guest, Lorna Poole - Dating Coach - shares how her early dating disasters taught her, and what she changed to find Mr. Right.

Guest, Lorna Poole

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Lorna Poole
dating coach who helps smart, savvy successful women who are single find love with a great guy
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Dating Coach
Guest Biography: 

Lorna Poole is dating coach who helps smart, savvy successful, single women find love with a great guy, by showing you how to master the dating phase from getting asked out to I do.

She is the Founder & CEO of Lorna Poole, Magnet For Love Coaching. After her
own love disaster; she decided it was time to get it right. She realized she kept
attracting the wrong guys and knew if she never took her love life seriously, she
would never meet her Mr. Right. Luckily for Lorna, she is now in a loving
relationship with her “great guy”.

Lorna Poole is an associated certified coach (ACC) through the International
Coach Federation (ICG) as well as an Energy Leadership Index Assessment Master
Practitioner (ELI-MP). She is the podcast show host on Magnet For Love Podcast and
a professional speaker passionate about empowering women to move beyond the
fear, pain, and regret that has held them back from attracting the partner they truly
want and deserve.

She has been featured on TheGoodMenProject, YourTango, Thoughtcatalog
Eharmony, TodayFM & Newstalk Ireland, telesummits and podcasts alike.

Relationship Help Show

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Photo of Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, the Relationship Help Doctor

The Relationship Help Show:  Handling Hijackal® Havoc offers the insights, strategies, and skills you need to recognize what's really going on in the crazy-making relationships in your life. Relentlessly difficult people and relationships in can cause you to constantly second-guess yourself and question your sanity.

Get relationship advice directly from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. Learn from her expert guests. Each one has a very unique voice on solving relationship problems with particularly difficult people 

Are these relationship issues on your mind?

  • Are you with a Hijackal?  Free ebook, How To Spot A Hijackal, Hijackals.com 
  • Want to know how your relationship can shift and you can grow closer?
  • Or, need to know if it's time to leave? 
  • Need insights into troubling behavior patterns?
  • Want to deepen your emotional intimacy?
  • Need to distance yourself from toxic people?
  • Can't communicate...or someone won't?
  • Trying to figure out what's your problem and what is theirs? 
  • Does every conversation quickly become an argument?
  • Have you been discarded by a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal?
  • Are you with one? Or, leaving one? 

You will get help with those here!  

What is a Hijackal, exactly? 

A person who hijacks relationships–for their own purposes–while scavenging them for power, status, and control.

They make you question your sanity and second-guess yourself constantly. That’s their game…and, they are very good at it!

Every time you think of being near a Hijackal®, you get anxious. Why? Because the main purpose of Hijackal behavior is to win.

Recognizing chronically difficult people requires admitting that they not only like to win, they have to win. Yes, to win…and in all circumstances and at all times. Yes, they will give you the illusion of agreeing with you…but, only when it suits their purposes, or their longer “game.”

Know one? I’m thinking you must because you’ve found yourself here on this page with me. You’re ready to escape the Hijackal Trap.

It might be your partner, ex,  parent,  co-worker, or someone in any organization–family, workplace, government, court, church, community project, board, or association.

We have all had interaction - at some level, at some time - with a Hijackal... whether we knew it or not. They are unavoidable. AND being in a relationship with a Hijackal - whether at home, work or play - requires some insights and knowledge to navigate and keep yourself safe and sane. 

Those are the things we discuss a lot here. Join us.