E10 - Compassionate Communication, September 20, 2017

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E10 - Compassionate Communication
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Guest: Laura Jack

Were you ever told to "be nice" or to "play nicely?"

Any chance that turned into negating what you wanted in order to make other people happy? Today's show focuses on what you may be losing in life if you're still following that early "Be nice!" admonition.

Guest, Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code, joins in to discuss the distinctions between compassionate and living up to the expectations of others. Big difference!

Headlined, Relationship Help Show, September 20, 2017

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September 20, 2017

On today's show we discuss compassion and kindness, and how even the difficult people need to be treated as well as you can muster. 

My guest, Laura Jack, talks about why compassionate communication is essential... especially in the difficult situations that life is prone to handing each of us. 

 

Guest, Laura Jack

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Laura Jack
Laura Jack
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Certified Grief Recovery Specialist
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Laura Jack teaches compassionate communication and how we can relate to one another more effectively during the challenging moments in life. Her mission is to cultivate a culture of compassion, starting with self, and to create a better understanding of loss and its accompanying grief.

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