Every Day Peace with Dr Dravon James, March 16, 2021

Every Day Peace with Dr Dravon James
  
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Every Day Peace with Dr Dravon James
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Millennials and Society with Avantika Dixit and Finding Balance with Gabrielle Ortega

Every Day Peace with Dr Dravon James

Millennials and Society with Avantika Dixit and Finding Balance with Gabrielle Ortega

Avantika Dixit, founder and CEO of Woke Hero, discusses how her work with millennials gives them the tools to have a lasting impact on the world. And holistic life coach Gabrielle Ortega discusses finding your life balance and becoming centered.

Every Day Peace with Dr Dravon James

Every Day Peace with Dr Dravon James
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Dr Dravon James

In today’s busy world it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and disconnected. Dr Dravon James helps to inspire, empower, and educate people to live the life of their dreams. Focusing on health, wealth, and relationships, Dr. James offers strategies that work for everyday life.

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are you feeling like a spiritual Castaway marooned on an island surrounded by a sea of religious Dogma spiritual life through the transformative teachings of unity speakers that resonates with you come to UD virtua.org and explore online spiritual communities we are ready to welcome you wherever you live while you're there get your free book Joy A Simple Choice go to Unity virtua.org<br>thanks for joining us<br> this is Unity online radio<br> the voice of an Awakening world<br> Empower yourself and get inspired to build the life of your dreams<br> welcome to Everyday peas with dr. Dre Bond James Bond James and this is everyday peace and I am super excited to be here with you today as we explore the concept of living a life of Peace everyday peace defined as wholeness completeness nothing missing nothing broken totality my goodness if you can just close your eyes and let those words is roll around in your mind you place whatever else is rolling around in your mind with those words peace wholeness completeness nothing missing nothing broken totality<br> it's you that's your life really that in through your nostrils complete exhale pursed lips but then out to the universe<br> I want to tell you that yes it is possible for you yes you to have peace every day you deserve every day peace and yes you can have every day piece we work together on this show to bring you the topics and the guests to partner with you as you create your life of everyday piece every week We Gather here to continue our journey to Everyday piece we are joined by guess who had wisdom and perspective to our journey and I am grateful for this time we spent together our anthem for 2021 is what are we waiting for and the answer is nothing we don't need to wait for anything or anyone to begin our own personal Journey the everyday piece Journey we have everything that we need right here and right now and speaking of starting a journey<br> right now I want to tell you this Thursday night great way to join and learn more about introducing the principles the foundational principles of everyday peace into your life I will be teaching an introductory class on the everyday piece principals at 7 p.m. central Time on March 18th on the Infiniti foundation.org platform this will be an incredible to our interactive session design to build a foundation for True Balance and acceptance of your journey understanding how to use everything that showed up in your life The Good the Bad and the in-between to create your next level of greatness so this is such a great opportunity for you to jump on in start your own journey toward your everyday peace and I know I just know from my own personal experience if I'm working with people that you know someone who could really benefit from a<br> start right now March 18th for a jump start on to their Journey for the next level of greatness using the foundational principles of everyday peace in your life so do them a huge favor and invite them to go on to Infinity Foundation. Org find out more about the course does being taught by Dr.Dre Bond James on everyday piece on March 18th so that's how you going to get more information about that I look forward to spending some time with you two hours with you on March 18th so do not hesitate go on over there and to Infinity. Org and sign up today for that course also excited to announce that we have launched we've been talking about it and it done the new dr. Dre by James. Com website it is completely revamp so those of you who were on the old website go on over there and check out our new website I am in love with the look at that in some feedback on it already and it's in the hole<br> look and you will find prior shows on their words of wisdom and encouragement contact information to the free course the passion course on creating Clarity and creating a path to your dream your passion life is on there that's a visit the website dr. Dre pain james.com and check out our new view and in our new laid out and of course you can continue as always to email me to request a fee passion course at drayvon James at gmail.com and put the word free in the subject line so last week I enjoyed our show so much we had such great conversation with Debbie Johnson who learn how to do understand this those are you were there if you weren't there to take her to go back to listen to that show because this incredible Debbie Johnson learn how to listen to her heart to listen to her into intuition and she listen so well and so completely<br> do you know that voice inside of her taught her how to become an award-winning filmmaker no special training nothing just intuition that's what our intuition can do for us we also had the amazing Adriana Gentile who advocated for holistic approach to Healthy Living and she reminded us that including mind body and soul in our wellness program to remember that Wellness is not a destination but it's a journey simply Fantastic Beasts guess we're amazing if you missed last week's show her any TV shows I strongly encourage you to go back and listen to these two amazing women at our other guests you can listen to past shows by subscribing to dr. Dre Devon James everyday piece podcast on Apple Spotify Google play Stitcher or you can listen to them on the unity online radio. Org website<br> that brings us to our everyday peace moment and I was having a conversation with a client this past week about the everyday piece journey and he was asking about using the stepping-stones to create everyday peace now in reality the stepping-stones do not create everyday piece you understand that piece is there it's it's here it's it is available to us in this moment the rabbit it is a pathway that we can use to discover the piece that exist right now it no matter what your situation is no matter how chaotic it may appear<br> peace resides in this moment it is every every day ever present right where you are so everyday piece is the natural state of being it is a journey to understanding and accepting our full self we live in a chaotic World which often moves us away from this natural state of being which we call everyday peace it's the place of wholeness completeness nothing missing nothing broken totality everyday peace is living in the moment with complete acceptance of self without judgment shame or condemnation that's where we give our best and I can hear somebody's mind going right now they're saying all I've done so many things I can't accept myself that thought right there that I can't accept myself because I've done so many things that part of you is not really there to continue is letting you know that you've arrived at a place where you're getting your<br> I need to give in to serve the and it work to do that we've got to step out of this shame and guilt and condemnation we've got to step into our everyday piece Journey Michelangelo's want said every block of stone has a statue inside it and it is the task of the sculpture to discover that statue everyday pieces the same way peace reside inside each and everyone of us and it is our journey to chip away the outer pieces all of that stuff that would have us believe that we are separate from piece to chip away those pieces that keep us from seeing everyday peace everyday that work is what we are committed to that's some of the work that I'll be teaching on March 18th want you to be there for that<br> so with that that is our everyday peace moment and we are here with our first guest today on Tika Dixit and she is the founder and CEO of woke hero she is an award-winning International leader in the area of millennial technology and Workforce Welcome to our show a batik thank you for being here with us<br> thank you so much for having me great to be here because I woke hero what is a woke hero<br> I'm so glad you like the title so when I was naming this program I wanted to connect with my target audience and that was just the time that the word you know in 2017 is when the word woke was was being adopted so much by Metallica. Jen's and if he's everywhere he's everywhere in the positive sensor to go to everywhere because some people will like you don't people like us to walk and things like that so it was that everywhere but regardless of that I just started had beautiful conversations with this whole existential crisis that is currently being seen in the woods like now globally another pic picture person that's what I so regardless of which human geography I was dealing with that the time<br> and it also has its connotations of something that is a weakening you know I'm the smart Awakening that I was going to sing with more than more people be initiated in joke questions about wanting to live with more practice with more meaning than just like you have to hold back for him for everything he's so I took the words and the reason why I took the word hero is because when I was in like with the corporate world I retired in my thirties way back in 2015 and I did that with the Baptist has creating something that's good cuz I had a mission I had a cool name. You know those the blood of Jesus lead us there to be healers and teachers and therapist and get in bed with a solution for the existential crisis and research models from spirituality you from some healing signs<br> from entertainment even from lifestyle from Leadership Model I look at everything and I found that the best container but that's because life is not an event at the journey it's a store New Jersey and we live in a world where of Tourism to connect with each other so does this beautiful interplay between the journey that everyone has and everybody needs evils and I thought that that's really the most Global and Thyme TV off looking at the protagonist of the story with the tablet of the journey as we stand today so that's how I came up with the first name the walk hero it's time for the individual it stands for the individual as Heroes of their own Journey thanks for the collective world going through a collective Universal phenomenon that the universe is also the journey and adults<br> vocal Journey how that I don't think it does the name basically came from that and what book you stand for is a support system which helps people on the Smoky dimensional Journey that we call life and it support systems for the destructive heroes in areas of their relationships in a glass of ink interior impact for the Elders of the wellness and mental health and give everything in between<br> wow so this is beautiful and I woke I got to tell you I resonate with that face cuz you're right it was it was a big German it still has a big term to be to be aware to be present in this one moment I love that the purpose and the hero as you were talking I could see that as the person who's offering assistance and also the person who is requesting the assistance both being hero it takes a whole bunch of courage to do both so your organization is supplying a support system for this multi-dimensional journey lovely way if they like I love that too too bad so why do you focus why do I need to work Focus<br> mostly all Millennial of the millennial generation why you decide to focus their<br> yeah but then at reason for that the first one is of course my area of expertise I spent 15 years as a leader in technology where I was working primarily with the millennial and so that's jelly you know that the subset of humanity that I have the most expertise in the behavior of I literally spent the maximum time of my adult life working with them and I know a lot about this this Dynamic of people is demographic of people you know in an international context the second reason is because<br> this is a critical mass of people so we talkin about the story of the century every country has a story and that occasion relations that play the pivotal he will roll in that story and everyone else if they don't have a solid gold solid supporting roles but there's always like this one generation that we sent me which kind of place that he was all for that century and in shaping the way the world if they looking to do something with that century and so this Century it is the largest living generation in history and I will study years ago they kind of showed up and I just now they are pivotal to the next 70 years or so of where the world is going to be and this is also that has be researched and studied more than any other generation on the climate in history<br> but they have usually been studied and research from the perspective of things are the horses or being you know good employees or good you know customers are consumers and you sleep with a prophet agenda you know. Don't do that so one of my missions as you know I said someone who's just hear the teacher as a leader the healer is to set them up for Success without a thought in in in basic life support system that has any president of time so a lot of self-actualization and transformation and healing and therapy support has a bias to read everything that has happened in the Familia was the Wii the world was set up for maybe you know even 10 years ago<br> and what do you know about this age of Destruction in this age of confirmation is that what what iPhone 6s model for then does not work for anyone not just some stuff you love for anyone because relationships are involved and being constructed so much when this has evolved and then the shop to so much I mean just think about it Wellness you know what just a hundred years of gold the average life span was 35 and the snow start 2 years ago when the Millennials scandals they're looking at they have unlocked for the first time in human history the ability to be as an opportunity that they can lift us if you have to and Beyond 151st and Racine to do that but there's also a huge challenge because they also facing the highest risks in recorded history for lifestyle disease to 80% of your W-2s 80% of all of the the disease.<br> all the generations of face for being a lifetime stress and Dachshund deleted so different style and different in doesn't happen in evolution in somatotypes Steven Daniels and designers and everyone they have a completely different dynamic because he lives in and eat right now we're 40% Millennials choose to remain single let you know that they did to Jews do not get married right into their forties or do you have 43% of these which identify as nonbinary so which is good for gender fluidity but it doesn't want identity crisis and relationships and that's a huge rise in Virtual relationships in tables relationships in Blended relationships antonito Co<br> has been the most impactful of the generations and I have to believe that our technology has made that song I I do feel that we know more about this generation that was not about any other generation I'm sure that social media has a lot to do with that because my goodness gracious it doesn't seem like they can't you know any secrets can be kept and what are you staying at and I want to get to this lifestyle disease cuz I think that is probably the first time I've really heard that term and I love it but<br> what are you seeing you know we're running this organization woke Heroes and you're dealing with this segment of the population which is the largest that you mentioned but what are you seeing that Millennials need help with in in who who comes to the aid of these Millennials is it the season people who are aged out of this generation where they are or are they getting more peer-to-peer help how is that working so two questions and what does it what what do you see as the most problematic for this age group for this generation<br> yeah but you know it's like a massive opportunity that disguised as a massive challenge so the biggest problem journey is also their biggest key to unlocking the door so let us look at the challenge and defeat the challenge is that this is the generation like it or not that's cool Too Faced more destruction than any other generation that we know history because they are kind of Dipping involved in the breakdown by the time and they are setting out of the new Paladin's haven't been setup that is going to be and when I speak about the millennial generation by the way I speak about the XYZ Spectrum Spectrum I don't go by the pure you know focus of a generation that often yours that would just be ridiculous so the scope is Stanley Lord it is everybody's exact same guy or XYZ generation and<br> anybody who believes are they going to be relevant for the next 30 to 35 years or more on this planet if I believe somebody that would really benefit from some stroke and the biggest challenge for them is to be able to<br> handle all of the destruction that is going on because I see that you know it's one thing to tear the wall down but it's quite another to try to construct something there that's going to be useful and be able to stand the test of time and will inevitably have its own issues with it as well because this is a journey if you talk about so often and there is a the pursuit of perfection but that is all there is to Perfection is this the pursuit to these lifestyle diseases and I think that's all we have about 5 minutes left but I do want to spend a little bit of time talking about what are some of the lifestyle diseases that we are seeing that we will see more of in this millennial generation that we have ever seen before<br> the big five I get a cancer type 2 diabetes and diabetes is when cancel the other heart disease dementia Aging in early onset dementia because of all the stress and everything and autoimmune diseases which are going to win one's own immune system basically start recognizing a normal was just like a logical these are the last one is a mental health crisis and you know I didn't know that but I can tell you that the rise and autoimmune diseases is phenomenal it is insane and it is directly correlated with stress right so and I can remember years and years ago when we get our first home computer and it was it was going to be so great I thought I had just introduced stress and chaos to the home<br> of course now we can't live without it but in my mind somewhere I see this inability to disconnect and to re-engage in a life that is not being driven hasn't given us the the the extra time we thought it would give us or the peace of mind that we thought it would give us has given us the ability to do more faster but the amount that we have to do has also increased Uso and I think that directly correlates to this autoimmune that you mention which is so very important that these numbers are really On The Rise he's diseases are really On The Rise so how can people if they want to work with work that you're doing is phenomenal it blows my mind that<br> the idea is to create an organ woke Heroes that serves as a mentorship if you will that's how I see it was is you speaking tours this millennial generation to to Aid them and doing the work that they have come to do which is so important that you redo need to tear down some of these old constructs and get some new ideas out there how can people work with your organization to bring out there that they're in a greatness<br> thank you we are launching or spring equinox Equinox programs on the 20th of March that is how people get engaged with us as they do keep an eye out the back on Loki weather.com and all the social media this is intended to let me connect with people where they are so this program to be going out on all social media Instagram or YouTube and Facebook and Twitter has ever hit that possibly you guys are hanging out so I just keep keep your eye out for the spring forward series that starts on 20th with sting and the first thing we'll do is help everyone just learn how to be a move on with enough blood from K20 an invite into 21 it looks like you're doing a lot of the same stuff so I think it's<br> we just a minute to go let's see if I can get him here<br> hello thank you for calling everyday peace in her bad list yesterday with woke Heroes if you have a question or comment a real quick because I know that they and I'm generalizing because of course is it for every Millennial but and I've worked with some of them and the<br> the knock is that they lacked interpersonal communication skills and then that could be the belief is that it's because they spend so much time and gave me and technology for example texting instead of I'm having an actual conversation with someone or talking to somebody on the phone is so an egg and I know it's an overgeneralization but I have seen that to a certain extent with Millennials that I work with and also to the sense of entitlement and so I just wanted you to speak to that and if that if you found that how are you working with Millennials to sort of eradicate that gift if you decided that strip<br> and we have just just about a minute for that answer response<br> sure you're busy. These are generalizations disagree with them they obviously have some sounding in them I just think it's a child in The Emperor's New Clothes Story the one that can see that you looked in prison wearing any clothes at the whole world if they do if you know you're not stupid you know I think that's that's a little bit of a kind of cat is a billionaire sensors disengagement and a generation gap which kind of leads to some of these as well but they did the king of the solution is just like working with a sensitive or a special needs or hiding diligent<br> young adult would be the kind of sign different ways to motivate them and to bring them engage because once they engaged in the journey I want they become the hero of the story that's really the wave at a time and that's good for you on a lot of Philadelphia thanks so much for sharing your perspective in your journey with woke Heroes after the break we have the incredible Gabby Ortega who will join us to talk about finding your life balance I'll be right back after the break I'm super excited for the work that we woke Heroes is doing and a hundred percent agree that a way to getting to where we want to be in a Nintendo help that we want to see is engaging each other as was it becomes an engaging can you put your phone down or you either you become part of the discussion right<br> all are welcome<br> we're glad you found us<br> Unity online radio<br> the voice of an Awakening world<br> create and build a life of your dreams welcome back to Everyday Beast with Doctor dravon James<br> welcome back I'm dr. Dre Bond James and this is everyday piece I'm so excited to introduce you to our next guest Gabby Ortega is a holistic life coach her focus is in the areas of conscious leadership Soulful entrepreneurship spirituality and Trauma healing Gabby thanks for being with us today I got to hear you got some of my favorite topics here. How are you today I'm so good thank you for having me and I just and loving it this whole episode wonderful thank you for enjoying it so what inspired you to work in this the space that you working at because I got to tell you when you talk about conscious leadership and soul for entrepreneurship we could talk we can stay right there for just ours is amazing in the spirituality in the trauma healing and everyone can relate to those topics as well so what inspired you to to pick this is a line of work your expertise<br> yeah absolutely well I'd like to say that I planned it but I got my BA in acting so that was not on my radar to be true I kind of fell into it actually I'm kind of started with my own healing Journey after kind of recognizing that I was dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder recovery from things in childhood and that my mental health wasn't really great going on my own Journey really signing myself out of my purpose and then going back to school to become a therapist and a Healer and eventually moving into Unity online space become a coach because I felt like the mental health system as it is it's just really broken and I wanted to help more people and have more of an impact and so as I said online face and I kind of jumped onto Instagram like okay here we go I realize that there are a lot of people out there who don't really understand or see leadership or business the way I do necessarily and if there is a group<br> plus you kind of see how we can transform the way we lead and the way we treat money and abundance and you know business and we can actually create movement that are going to change the world and and revamp the systems that we have or actually break them in crate brand new ones that are going to really serve the highest good<br> so yeah I kind of started out by being a therapist working in that space and becoming a coach and then realizing that I really just enjoyed uplifting and working with healers who were out there doing the healing work and leaders out there you know really trying to change the world this is beautiful hearing the beginning of your story that you evolve to this place through your own journey and I just got to point out for our listeners that that is so crucial and it's not mr. my ears and I don't want to listen to hear something showed up in your child that are in your journey that look like trauma in the world to find the one he was at work now but it had a larger cause it was showed up really to bow down and serve you as you went on to do your great service in the world which is what you're doing now to through this pathway of killing yourself of finding yourself up becoming aware of you<br> Bradenton you developed this process mislove oven Discovery up hey I chipped away at that stuff and I found and discovered this is part of my life's work to be able to give in this way to the universe and serve so amazing by around 1 because it is work to get there but it's so worthy so where they so what indications do you have the that mental well-being is the key to life like you know people will tell you well once I'm a coach at work at people and it's really challenging some time to get people to dig deeper o just when I get married everything will be fine or just when I get divorce everything will be fine or when I get this promotion or when I get this degree what are the indications that you really meant to well-being is the key to life that this is where it goes. How did you get to that point<br> I think it's not even just mental well-being it's like whole well-being and I'm cleaning your mind body and spirit and I think just come like honestly getting my rock bottom of my own mental health and oh my gosh everything in my life honestly otherwise was fine I had a job I had like a great partner I had friends I have family who cared for me but I was so broken and lost and just struggling and I recognized I was like you can have all of these things around you I mean I I I had everything I could really want in terms of support and guidance to get where I needed to be eventually but like I was at a loss and because of that I couldn't actually function in the real world and so when we're thinking about everything from our thoughts to our feelings to the way we perceive things to how our body interprets things and how we feel in our body and our physical health all of that<br> Mike determines your entire experience of light and if we're focusing you simply just like right now on the mend your brain controls everything hang it is like the motherboard of the computer of the you can actually harness it and make it work for you and when that happens you can actually use chemical reactions to happen in your body that will promote healing you can actually use your mind to create new neural Pathways that actually heal Pathways I have been traumatized and this is actually neuroscience and has a lot of research around this but our brain has tremendous capability so much freaking really good care of our mental illness and incorporated into a holistic view of how to take care of our mind body and spirit we will be on like trap for<br> bath light upper you know I cannot deny it yes and I can hear your voice so I want I wanted to spend a few minutes here cuz I know there's a listener out there today on who I'm someone who's going to be listening to this and we play somewhere that is going to resonate with everything that you just said from the external world looking and you appear to be a woman who has it all you've got the degree you got the lifestyle you got the significant other and yet inside you would write a ride to place a tie in knowing that you're broken like something is not as it should be what what's what's a girl to do<br> we still have to have to get along like what do we do right stop in and of course you got to keep going with all of the ipde process but what's your first step Whitney what do you turn to say I need to deal with this and how was your first step in dealing with it<br> I'm honestly it's just first things first acknowledge that things are not okay I think that we are the kind of society in the world ever run very fast and without really asking how are you and without you actually thinking I don't know how am I let me think before I respond and it's kind of like checking in with yourself and being honest and it in your body you feel icky which is our bodies are really in information Highway if your body feels itchy and things go out of alignment in your side and you're feeling lost and lonely that's like such an indication that things are off but sometimes we can explain it away and say oh well is because I don't have the house or because I don't have this physical thing are because I don't have this relationship and maybe that's true but if we can learn how to give ourselves everything we need to feel nourished and whole we don't need any of those things externally and that were real strength and power comes from and real sense of self you know<br> rootedness so I think you know the first things it's just a be okay with things are not okay and that there needs to be a change it's okay not to know what that change is I take time but just to open up that conversation with yourself without any judgments and allow it to to breathe I love it I love it so what you just described for me is what I call the light of a weirdness right it's you asked the question and I loved it then I called the water cooler question to Nina sent someone says to you how are you today and you let you go to your can't answer I'm fine thank you for asking how are your rights and that's usually not the truth but but what has happened is you haven't haven't given time and sufficient space for a true response to come up and when I was encouraged my clients to do is to ask himself that question frequently and just wait don't force an answer wait just wait and then it'll come to you at some point maybe later on today cuz I'm not okay and then why what's going on<br> and wait and wait and it'll tell you who have nothing to do with the car you're driving to the job that you have it's what that triggers deep within that space there and so I love I love this I love the so we got this step take knowledge what you are stealing knowledge become aware of it acknowledged it on yourself for doing that so what were some of the let's talk a little bit about a light leader what is a light meter<br> this gets me excited so I came up with this because I really was trying to avoid people who are the people that are really try to speak to me is like a lighthouse it's someone who stands so firm in their integrity in their ethics in their service someone who has acknowledged Their Own no pain has gone through their own deep you-know-what what Young Carl Jung the famous psychologists like to call The Dark Night of the soul and kind of really done their own work to become fully conscious today step into leadership that is a lightly or someone who wants to bring service and good to see man be to be a part of this up a leveling into the next to the next kind of chapter or season I think I'm you know we have as a human race are going you know he took his place of conscious awareness and healing and integrity and growth and so we have leaders and then we have light leaders and those are<br> you are there to spread the light from a place of integrity and authenticity in and smoke place of knowing and doing their own work constantly so here getting we have that example this lightly to understand it properly this light leader has had some form of pain or trauma their life is well and that pain and Trauma at the time may have looked like it came to ruin them but really it didn't it came for such a time as this where they would be able to harness the learning from that in the empathy that comes from that to be able to reach back and help someone else up that ladder with their over their life experience I absolutely love it it speaks to this philosophy I believe it in one anothering right so this is what this is about the next next girl a guy a girl and the pathway so help us understand how you utilize a holistic approach to Little Italy to business success<br> yeah oh my goodness I love this so I think they're really long time we were approached business my very specific lens a very masculine energy and what I'm really talking about gender identity I'm talking about like yin and yang and there's just way of identifying different forms of energy we call it masculine or feminine in ancient Traditions Traditions excuse me. Because men have been in positions of power and leadership in business we really operated from their energetics which is the saying and you know marketing from a place of disempowerment just like you need this thing to solve this problem anymore get how instead how come you actually flip it from a nurturing nursing on feminine energy of like how can I create something that is going to fill a gap and solve the problem and and really Step Up 4<br> community that I really want to be a supporting you know how do I see where there's no place I can help and use my gifts that come naturally to my truth an authenticity and create something from a space of empowerment of hi I'm here I have this thing I need from you super helpful and help me and if you're interested it's here not like you need this but it's going to help and it's going to be really nice and you can just feel great afterwards so you know how can we switch into a more feminine energy of glow and working with our natural gifts and how are energy works in alignment with that that goes into scheduling even like from you know being an entrepreneur standpoint I schedule my work schedule around my in Friday in Red Zone which is my monthly residence and up an energy cycle the same as circadian rhythm is so how come we actually approached it so we're at women and I work with mostly women in business approaching it from energy<br> that actually work with our bodies you know so that we're not burnt out and we're not pushing ourselves past the point of exhaustion or not you know standing out of alignment out of Integrity so approaching it from this idea like how can we use business to empower everybody and lift everybody up including ourselves so we can make more of an impact and have more of a change in the world<br> you just said so many lightning things and almost sounds like a futuristic World which I hope to one day live in what you're also saying to me to have self-awareness right so we've got to get there we are okay with accepting ourselves right because there's so much of the time that we are lying to ourselves about our likes and dislikes so we can fit into the culture of the norm of the Massillon world or you know whatever it is it again not using magic words to mean gender just and I agree this is sort of push and pull world right and instead of in the floor right and you can't live in the flow of of your world if you don't know who you are because I have a weirdness on it you know we casting me in the shadows and we can really see yourself in this about being able to accept<br> honor what we see without judgment shame and condemnation I talked about that the beginning of the show so this is just so this is hitting all the points is a spot on here so it looks about some of the clients that you worked with and some of the best outcomes they've had with with this type of energetic work oh my God I get to do this so a lot of like a combination of just tremendous inner healing because really truly your business is a directing mirror reflection of your of you and where you are on your journey and called you to heal a lot and so there's the Transformations that happened in that sense and in the financial sense I mean taking mostly I work with therapist coaches and women in the wellness field usually the clinical area to stay social workers and those with the therapeutic background and they're working 80 plus hours<br> the week I'm seeing 40 clients a week which I can't even oh my God that's funnier voice working maybe 15 to 20 hours a week making multiple six-figure creating communities where they actually got to do a lot of things for free to give back because you sliding-scale payment plans because they are so abundant and people are demanding their work and it's just magical to watch I had a client who just left the veterans association was working there and really really burnt out and mental health was not good she found her voice she dug into her purpose she discovered she was here to help how she wanted to do it and I helped her create that and we just had our first launch in Ober almost $60,000 for her first round of clients and she worked maybe 20 hours a week we had break so we took naps<br> it was like I was like she was very relaxing and flow and works of really aligned with what she needed and what she was looking for and so when I love is just helping people find their alignment and creating their businesses around what they need and what they really thrive on<br> oh my goodness Gabby and I hope that everyone who's in this club a lot of workers listening to you right now because you know I work in healthcare for 31 years and I told people that Healthcare will always be alive and alive and thriving because it's created next have set of sick patients from the character and believe me and your mental health your physical health your emotional health starts to suffer and so it's I'm delighted that you've been able to work with clients and take them where they can work can you even imagine the quality of care you get as a client when your practitioner only has 15 of you as opposed to 40 and not that you're not doing a top-notch job at 40 but it's 15 they come fresh they come with a vessel that's full and ready to give their not scraping at the bottom of your soul trying to you know and it's so it's so beautiful<br> yes be yes and I truly think that this is like the first step in really revamping how do you have the mental health system in the healthcare system as it is like we need to empower clinicians and those in the healing spaces to really start date you got we all know better we've been in these clinics we've been in the hospital we worked in these settings we know how it go to give better client care and open up the door so that we can actually do what we went to school to do which is heel and support and Empower but really done we get so burned out and and drained and then really am now we don't feel great about you know working in the traditional political system in that way so so here you are you coming to provide a service and you're so broken when you come to provide it we've got to know that affects the outcome that has an impact on the type of service at your rent<br> it is not to say that you're not still giving top knot service but wouldn't it be great to get it from top to Top Notch you for you to come completely full and ready to serve you be arrested and I love the idea of it down to 20 hours a week and there is still launching a $60,000 and and that that's amazing that this is hands-down that is amazing so we were thinking about me to working in the space of Might and what is what if you had to point to one and I know there's no magic bullet there's no you know one-size-fit-all but 11 chipper or piece of advice that you would give to a practitioner who can't see their way through right now is sitting in a place of struggle you know it's out it's only Monday but they didn't get any rest over the weekend and then they've got this huge caseload and they've got everything else you know the work is just one aspect of your life but it's<br> is encroached into every part of their other life what is one thing that they could do to help rebalance to get some mental space some well being emotionally stable at stabilisation resetting deep breaths throughout your day I was working full-time as a executive assistant while also going to school full-time as a therapist also if you have clients take a deep breath and just remind yourself you're okay even if it feels like not great if it'll help it'll help your brain it'll help your nervous system reset then the other thing is just try to be clear with boundaries around work and give yourself permission to be off when you're off and not to always be checking in it.<br> you think that you're doing<br> I love that learn how to turn off right because one thing we are not going to have is a shortage of things to do that's not going to happen if there's always more to do and we're not meant to get it all done in one day we're not meant to do that this you know this is part of tomorrow's energy and so being able to turn off and say you know what now I'm going to switch gears and I'm going to go in a provider and other areas of my life in every day peace we work in this in a pyramid health wealth and relationships and so you know if you're in the wealth hurt all the time and you turned off of work all of the time then there is this lack that occurs in your other two relationships your health your what your relationships so being able to find that balance in and put those are boundaries there is so important Gabby it has been a pleasure having you on our show today I look forward to hearing more about the work that you do I'm sure we can have listened to<br> I want to connect me with want to know how to follow you how could they do that there's underscore therapy underscore coaching or om therapy coaching.com and I'm all my links are there and you can check it out I don't have a podcast and I've called the conscious leadership podcast so if you'd like to hear more about leadership in entrepreneurship and I'll go check it out it's every Wednesday you have an episode wonderful thank you for being our guest today we look forward to following you and all those and and the dis have you back on the show thank you so much as my pleasure will Gabby was a wonderful guest for us today as we wrap up our time together I want to remind everyone that we will be hosting an introductory class on the principles of everyday piece that Journey this journey embracing the principles of everyday peace will help you to Next Level your life in the categories of a<br> well and relationship everything that you're looking for everything that you desire in life is. 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