Real World Manifesting ©2015 Joan M. Newcomb
Think about all the things, people, and situations that you've created in your life. Some you can validate that you created - you graduated from high school, you got into college, you chose that (even if it wasn't the college of your choice, you made it happen). If you got married, you chose that (even if you chose to get divorced later - and you chose that, too).
It's harder to validate that you chose being born, and you chose the family that you were born into.