It is not so much what we put out that creates so much enmity among us, but rather what we withhold that strangles the love and undermines rapport, respect, caring, trust, understanding, support, and compassion, which, in turn, greatly retards progress.
This realization has profound implications for any system or relationship attempting to mitigate hostility. Most of us react to what others put out and rarely see or understand what is being withheld.
In fact, it is fear that causes all withholds.
