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Today, we have a special distinguished, decorated and celebrated gift.
Ms. Victoria Gallagher, she is a worldwide leader in hypnotherapy, a best-selling author,
international speaker, life success coach and renowned authority on the law of attraction.
She has dedicated her life to empowering people all over the world to successfully live a
life of liberty, aligned with their dreams through her effective, meditative recordings
and online courses.
Victoria hosts the popular law of attraction show, The Power of Your Mind podcast featuring
industry experts.
The Victoria Gallagher has shared over 20 years of wisdom and technique in hypnotherapy, law
of attraction, visualization, NLP, meditation, personal growth, positive affirmations, and
other modalities.
With no further ado, we bring to the stage, Ms. Victoria Gallagher, how are you doing?
I am great.
Thank you so much for that wonderful introduction to White.
I am excited to be on your show.
I love all of the topics that you just went through, taking responsibility, having integrity,
good, good stuff.
I am delighted to be a part of this show.
Hey, I'm so excited to have you.
Please tell everybody a little bit about yourself.
I know I gave you an introduction, but tell them a little bit about your story and then
definitely give them your websites and how they can get in touch with you and how they
can get your product and things of that nature before we get started.
Absolutely.
I got started about 1999 as a hypnotherapist about 22 years ago.
Prior to that, I was a stockbroker making really a great living.
I was married, had a house, had all the things that a person would strive for in my late
20s, had it all figured out and making a six figure income.
Everything was just going great, but I couldn't get out of bed.
I started really feeling depressed and anxious and just like, what the heck is wrong with
me?
I should be happy and look at all the success and everything that I have.
I've been able to achieve all of my goals.
It seemed like it would be great on the outside, but on the inside, I was just kind of dying
and listless and lost my passion for what I was working on.
I found myself seated in the first row of a personal development seminar called Sci
Seminars.
This was in actually 1998.
During that four days, I completely changed my whole entire perspective of life and created
a new awareness.
I just wanted everyone to experience this new awareness that I had.
I really felt like I had just seen Disneyland for the first time.
Maybe the way that some people feel when they first experienced God for the first time,
that's what it was like.
It was just this very profound experience.
I wanted to share that with people.
I had a really hard time though getting people to become and experience this day as they thought
it was a cult.
I said, okay, well, what is it that I most enjoyed about this?
The thing that I most enjoyed was doing the meditation, doing the closed eye techniques,
doing the visualizations.
That's really where the transformation was taking place.
One day I just said, I've got it.
I'm going to make recordings and I'm going to create a website and I'm going to sell
these recordings for very little investment.
You're not going to have to go and invest four days of your life.
You're not going to have to go and I'll make the financial investment that I made.
You can just buy these online and download them.
At the time they were cassette all admit.
It was a lot that long ago.
You could order one through the mail and you could change your life.
That's what I decided that I wanted to do.
I didn't know at the time that that was going to be hypnotherapy.
I didn't know exactly how that was going to look.
I was just calling them visualizations.
I wanted to get some credentials.
I just began a search to figure out what would validate this process that I'm doing.
What does this call, what do I need to become, what would make this valid.
I stumbled upon a hypnotherapy certification course and I took it and that was immediately
like a change of career for me.
I got my intention so clear that this is what I was doing.
I had this epiphany in January.
By February I was taking the class and by July I quit my six figure year job and started
my full time practice and started selling these amazing programs online.
That was July 1999 and I've never looked back.
Wow.
Where can they get your product or how do they get your product?
By now I've developed over 600 hypnotherapy recordings.
There are multiple ways that they can get them.
They can get them on my original website that I've created way back then called hiptalk.com.
More recently what I've done, rather than having people to get my whole catalog, you'd have
to invest probably $20,000 to get access to everything.
What I've done is I've created an app which people can download from the app stores and
it's just a monthly subscription app and they can access my entire library for a very low
monthly investment and that app is called HypnoCloud.
It's available.
If they go to my website, Victoria M. Gallagher, you'll find the app there.
You'll find books that I've written courses that I've developed pretty much everything
is accessible through that website, Victoria M. Gallagher.
Nicely stated.
Would you give us a brief lesson on law of attraction?
Oh yeah, I'd love to.
I'd love to.
Very different teachers, they teach law of attraction so differently.
Many people that are listening, maybe they've heard about law of attraction through the
movie The Secret, which really gave the law of attraction its popularity in a much bigger
way than ever before.
The way I describe law of attraction is a lot different.
In the most simple term, the law of attraction is that you get whatever you put your attention,
energy, and focus on whether that be positive or negative.
In a nutshell, that's what it is.
To really break it down into terms that people can really understand, I came up with the eight
manifesting conditions.
The law of attraction is occurring all the time, but it's occurring intentionally when
you are in alignment with these eight manifesting conditions.
Those manifesting conditions being that you have a specific desire that you're very clear
on that you're in alignment with your thoughts, what you're continuing to think.
We think about 50 to 70,000 thoughts in any given day.
It's going to be completely impossible to ever get all of those 50 to 70,000 thoughts
in alignment because most of those thoughts we're not even conscious of.
But if you can get the thoughts that you are aware of and start bringing some awareness
to what am I thinking that's creating my reality?
When you notice yourself starting to think about what you don't want, it's about switching
that over to thinking about what you do want instead.
So many people are in the habit of thinking about what they don't want.
Oh, the traffic or oh, I've got to lose weight.
They state things in ways that is moving away from something that they don't want.
But that's still giving focus and energy and attention to that.
So it's super important to get aligned with starting to change the things that we're
complaining about to what is it that we prefer instead.
So that's the second manifesting condition is our thoughts.
The first is desire.
The second is our thoughts.
The third manifesting condition has to do with our imagination.
Albert Einstein even said that the imagination is so important.
It's more important than the knowledge.
And it's true.
And so many law of attraction features do talk about imagination.
And imagination, you can really tap into the imagination through visualizing, through
visualizing what's feeling.
And so what is it that is going through that visualization?
What are you visualizing throughout the day?
And that also needs to be in alignment.
Next, we come to the all important beliefs.
If you tell yourself, you know, I want this, but you just don't have the belief that it's
going to happen, chances are you're going to sabotage your ability to bring that into
fruition.
So the beliefs, what you believe, not only at a conscious level, but at the subconscious
level.
Where most of the beliefs are stored is at the subconscious level.
So getting those beliefs in alignment is the fourth manifesting condition.
The fifth manifesting condition is about the emotion, your vibration.
Those are two things that are very synonymous.
A lot of times people hear about this word vibration, and that kind of throws people off.
They don't really understand what that exactly means.
Like, is that casting some kind of energy out to a genie in the universe somewhere that's
going to come back and grant our wishes because our vibration is in alignment.
And that's not necessarily what it means at all.
What it really means is it's your energy in motion and your emotion.
And so if you wake up and you're feeling sad, depressed, and unmotivated, guess what?
You're probably going to avoid taking the actions or come off in a certain way that
isn't conducive to getting and attracting what you want.
So the vibration is really all about feeling as if your manifestation is happening.
That's the manifesting condition.
The sixth one is about really creative attraction.
And what that is, it's really about when you have all these other manifesting conditions
in alignment, you actually will start to receive intuitive guidance and insights from
your intuition.
And where is that intuition connected to?
I believe that intuition is connected to the super conscious, the infinite intelligence,
the God, the universe, the intelligence that really connects all of our thinking.
So it's really the ability that's happened to that.
And from that, like really listening and taking what is the seventh manifesting condition,
the inspired action, the inspired action, not the forced actions, not the thing that you
see David out there doing this.
So maybe that means I need to do that.
That's coming from your logic and reason.
Inspired action comes from your heart.
It comes from your being completely in alignment and going with that flow of what is it that
this infinite intelligence is asking me to act on.
And so that, and it's action that feels good.
You know, not action that you think you should be doing, but action that you feel like doing.
Because I believe that, you know, I mean, even though people might work hard, that hard
work shouldn't feel like heavy and horrible and like a drudgery.
It should feel like something you really, really enjoy doing.
I believe everybody is meant to do, put on this earth, to do what they enjoy and what
they love doing.
So then that brings me to the eighth manifesting condition, which is the manifestation itself
and how you respond to what you've manifested.
And the manifestation is either on the positive side or the negative side.
It's taking responsibility and taking ownership of everything that you have in your life and
realizing that all of these manifesting conditions, whether you act, you know, whether these created
a positive result or they created a negative result, owning that, taking responsibility
for that and realizing that we are creative beings, we are creators and being grateful
for what we have manifested.
And knowing that, hey, if I manifested some things that I'm not really happy about, then
guess what?
If I take ownership over the things that I've manifested, I'm not happy about, that
means I can go through these steps in a way that's going to create a result that I do
want.
And then also just being grateful and acknowledging and celebrating what you have manifested because
the universe, you know, or even your subconscious mind tends to give you more of what you're
focused on.
So if you're focused on what you have created by being grateful for it, guess what?
You're going to create more of that.
So that is my, that's my lesson for law of attraction for today.
That is phenomenal.
Will you talk to us and be dive into what consciousness and awareness is and how it
relates to law of attraction, please?
Absolutely.
Well, so I consider consciousness and awareness, you know, really being aware of yourself and
noticing how you're being, how you're feeling and, you know, and really like listening to
the various different voices that are coming through you.
It's about really taking that time to listen, but not just with your ears, but listen with
your heart and tuning in to the guidance that's always there, always letting you know which
direction to go next.
And you know, and just being present in each moment, as you're more present in each moment,
you're allowing yourself to receive the gift of each moment because every moment is a gift.
And so as we are present and we're really tuned into our minds, sorry, I'm getting
a little bit of an echo, so it's throwing me off a little bit right now.
You're fine.
That's okay.
So it's about being present, being aware of your thoughts, your feelings, your emotions,
your behaviors, and just, you know, really bringing the best view forth as you become
more aligned and in touch with awareness and consciousness.
Nicely stated.
Victoria, please talk to us about the subconscious and how we can, I guess, flip the belief that's
not serving us and unlock our greatness.
Absolutely.
So first, it's important to understand that there are three levels of mind.
And you have the two levels of your mind are personal and one level of the mind is impersonal.
The two levels of your mind that are personal belong to you, that are, you know, part of
your own energy system is your conscious and your subconscious.
And the part that the third part that's impersonal but that we are all plugged into is the super
conscious.
That's the third part.
And it's impersonal.
And when I say it's impersonal, what I mean by that is that it's a reflection.
It's ultimately just giving you whatever you are.
And so however you are is ultimately what's attracting to you the people, the situations,
the circumstances.
So diving into our own subconscious mind, our subconscious mind is driving all of our
behaviors.
It's really driving us to be more and receive more of what its major thought processes.
So from the time that we are like zero to six years old, we are, we have zero conscious
mind, the conscious mind that I told you about that's part of us.
We have no conscious mind.
We have no and the conscious mind is the logical reasoning part of our mind that's, you know,
is making on a spot decision is our willpower.
It's the part that we're very consciously aware of at all times.
The deeper, more powerful part of us is our subconscious mind.
That's like 90, 95, maybe even 99% of our mind.
It is driving everything that you do.
It's driving how you predominantly think.
And it's where the belief system is contained.
It's where all your programs are contained.
So where do you get these programs from?
And most of these programs understand most of these programs came from childhood.
By the time you're six years old, about 80% of your programs, how you're going to show
up in the world are already in place.
They're in your subconscious mind.
And you didn't have any choice over what programs got put there between zero and six
years old.
You had zero choice.
You had zero ability to filter out any of the conversations that were happening in and
around you by your family members, by your friends around you, by neighbors, by clergy,
by whoever influenced you.
You had no choice.
So if you grew up in a family and you heard things like, you know, you're never going
to amount to anything or money is the root of all evils or, you know, and you hear these
things on a constant daily basis, guess what?
This is going to be your predominant belief system.
And so that's what's going on in the subconscious mind is typically all this negative programming.
Now, the subconscious mind also has, you know, I mean, it's responsible for everything.
It's responsible for your heart beating, your breathing, all of your bodily functions,
all of your involuntary, all of your voluntary bodily functions, everything.
So because there's so much sophisticated stuff happening at the subconscious level of mind,
you know, the brain is like really set up where it's hard to get in there to change
that wiring around because if we were just able to instantly say something to change
or subconscious mind, we could literally tell our heart to stop beating and it would, right?
So we can't really influence the subconscious mind readily with our, you know, just conscious
words.
We have to, you know, we have to sneak these new suggestions in there and kind of put ourselves
into the state of hypnosis, which we go in and out of many times during the day, people
just aren't aware of it.
But we have to talk to the subconscious mind in a very specific way to get new programming
to take place.
And that new programming takes place through habit and repetition through, you know, auto
suggestion through heightened emotional experiences.
And, you know, and through that process, you know, we can rewire what that subconscious
mind is telling us that we are capable of doing in our lives.
And so that's ultimately, that's a little bit of an understanding of how the subconscious
mind works.
Wow.
Will you talk to us about the IM power?
And can you, sorry, getting a feedback.
Is there any way to get rid of that feedback?
I'll hear clean it up.
I'm not sure what's going on.
Okay.
It's just, you know, when you hear your voice back echoing, it's a little hard day.
Yeah.
It's just, I'm cleaning up.
Yeah.
Okay.
Ask your question again, please.
Yeah.
Will you talk to us about the IM power or?
I am.
Yes.
Okay.
So the I am ultimately is that anything that we say after the word I am.
Goes into the subconscious mind a little easier.
It has it's.
Sorry.
It's so hard to do this with the feedback coming into my ear.
So the, so the I am, you know, it has to do with, you know, anything that, you know, you say after I am the subconscious mind.
Typically believe that.
I mean, it's really pretty simple.
We say these suggestions to ourselves all the time.
You know, I am stupid or I am ugly or I am.
Poor or any of that.
We say these things and they just slip in so easily that, you know, and, and they're extremely powerful to, you know, it's extremely powerful.
Anything that's that's get stated after I am.
So the key to working with this power of I am is to, number one, just be very aware of any of your I am.
When you notice yourself saying something negative that comes after I am, you want to flip that into what is it that I am?
You want to flip that into what is it that I want to be?
Who do I want to be in this moment and then just begin to flip that into something that is believable.
I like to.
I like to use softer suggestions and when I say softer suggestions, what I mean by that is like if you just said I am wealthy, right?
You're you have a tendency to reject that if you don't have that as part of your predominant belief system.
Because, you know, you'll literally hear yourself.
If you say like I am a millionaire, right, and you just keep saying that.
You know, it's just getting rejected.
So what I like to what I like to suggest to people is that you soften up that suggestion with something with some what I call statement helpers or statement starters that help those I am to become more believable.
So an example of that might be I am taking actions each day toward becoming a millionaire.
You know, and see now what you're doing is you're giving yourself that I am instruction and you're giving it in a way that is even more powerful because you can actually believe yourself when you're saying that.
So that to me, kicks up the power of the I am when you use these these statement extensions and you add something between the I am and what it is that you're wanting to instruct yourself to do.
Make it more believable. I am in the process of is another really great example of a way that you could, you know, that that you can make that statement more believable.
Nicely stated. Talk to us about self image or self concept.
So your self image.
And these are really great questions by the way.
I mean, you're so powerful. I just want to get off the audience.
Yes, absolutely.
So, you know, your self image is ultimately it's just simply the way that you see yourself, the way that you present yourself to be able to do that.
And you're going to be able to attract or accomplish what is in alignment and at the same level as your self image.
So it is the image inside of your mind when you think about going for something, when you think about going for a job, you know, like how do you see yourself as your self image.
So it is the image inside of your mind when you think about going for something, when you think about going for a job, you know, like how do you see yourself?
Do you see yourself as a powerful being? Do you see yourself as intelligent?
Do you see yourself as somebody who's capable of, you know, do you see yourself as a goal achiever?
You know, so what is the image that you have of yourself, your thoughts?
How do you, you know, do you believe in yourself?
Do you believe that you are the kind of person who's able to create results?
And, you know, and if, you know, your self image is not in alignment with what it is that you're going for, that's, you know, that's self image.
It's in the subconscious mind. So it is something that you want to become aware of.
You want to think about, you know, am I holding myself back through what I believe I am worthy of achieving based on, you know, my image of myself?
And, and just, and you begin to ask yourself, well, what, what I need to, who would I need to be?
Who would I need to bring forth in order to create this reality for myself?
Who do I, how do I change the way I feel about myself?
How do I change the way that I'm thinking about myself?
What are the words that I'm thinking about myself?
You know, so it's all, it's everything.
You know, the self image is the, the thoughts that you're thinking, the image that you have of yourself, what you believe about yourself.
And you have the power to change that self image and you have to change that self image in order for anything ultimately to change.
And it really begins changing the self image really begins by changing what you tell yourself and catching yourself when you start to tell yourself things that aren't in alignment with who you want to be.
Well stated, talk to us about a fixed mindset and growth mindset.
Okay, so a fixed mindset is somebody who ultimately has, you know, very specific, inflexible way of, you know, of seeing the world and seeing themselves.
You know, this is a kind of mindset that wakes up and says, you know, this is going to be another one of those days, you know, and they get into a fixed way of thinking about things, they get into a fixed way of believing.
They're not in a growth mindset at all. You know, they're not flexible. They're not open to any new information. They're not reading books.
They just pretty much just decided and made a decision at some point at some level that this is just how I am.
This is just the way the world works. Oh, that's just what happens when you get old. This is just the way women are. This is the way men are.
You know, they have a very definite definition of how things are and they're not looking at a change.
And they're afraid. I think, you know, people that have a fixed mindset, you know, there's an underlying fear of that change and that growth because there's that fear of the unknown.
The growth mindset is somebody who is open to all possibilities. They're open to new information. They're open to change. They're open and flexible.
And, you know, they're constantly learning new things. They're constantly wanting to just devour information.
They're the kind of person who you can talk to. And maybe even if they don't necessarily agree, they're open to listening to another opinion because this is the type of person that's just
you know, the more information, the more you're learning, the more you're growing, they're willing to get uncomfortable.
You know, they're willing to stretch themselves and do different things, try different things, meet different people.
Again, the key to this growth mindset is the willingness and the ability to get uncomfortable because here's the thing. Change is uncomfortable.
But you have to get uncomfortable. If you are not growing, you're dying.
So comfort ultimately means decay. So a fixed mindset is somebody who's just pretty much not willing to do the uncomfortable things to really live.
And to really be alive, you know, being alive does mean taking some risks and being uncomfortable and being willing to grow and change and to evolve. That's what we're here to do.
Wow. Amazing. Victoria, talk to us about attitude. What does that word mean to you? What theme is it comes into your head when you hear that word?
So when I think of attitude, you know, it really falls again in willingness to take a look at yourself and take a look at the possibilities that are available.
It's really about your perception of what is happening. You know, in attitude, that's another thing I think Einstein talked about was how your attitude was actually, I don't know if it was an Einstein thing or if it was, I think it was a Harvard study.
There was a Harvard study done. That's right. Where they, they, they discussed three different components that are crucial to a person's success.
The first one was information. The second one is, no, the first one was, yeah, information.
Let's see. The second one was, oh, a skill. No, it's a skill, knowledge, and attitude. Okay. So if, you know, if you can, if you have a skill,
that is one component that's going to help you to become successful. If you have knowledge, that's another component that's going to help you to become successful.
But here's the thing. The most important out of these three components of success was attitude. Because if you don't have an attitude to even like get more knowledge or to even get the skills,
because with the right attitude, you can get the skills. You can acquire the skills. With the right attitude, you can acquire the knowledge that you need.
So I always just felt like anybody who I ever looked to hiring for a job, you know, it really comes down to that, that attitude. Like, do they, are they willing to keep getting back up?
When they get knocked down, are they willing to try different things? Because with the right attitude, ultimately, you can do anything.
You can accomplish anything with the right attitude. It's the attitude that's just ultimately just going to keep you going until, until, until it happens.
Wow, you're brilliant, Victoria.
That's not about your process in making like, what's your decision making process?
Like, tell the audience, you know, give them steps on how to make sound decisions. Talk to us about your process in making important decisions.
So, when it comes to making important decisions, you know, I would say, like, let's just say I'm making a decision for my business, for example.
You know, I really think about like, what is, you know, what is the, what is the result? What is the benefit that I'm ultimately looking to create?
Do I have enough information in order to make this decision? Is this, you know, how is this decision going to benefit the whole?
Is it going to benefit me? Is it going to benefit the business? Is it going to benefit the customers?
You know, what is the sustainability of this decision? I really, really take sustainability into account, like, can I systemize this?
Is this something that when I make this decision, you know, is this going to be just something that I'm going to be able to do just this one time?
Or am I going to, like, actually be able to follow through on this decision? And, you know, is it, like, really important?
You know, and so, you know, I gather as much information as I possibly can from all of those different sources.
And, you know, I do find sometimes, so, you know, having said that, you know, gathering as much information, sometimes when it comes to making decisions,
you can dwell on it a little too long and try to find too much information and that has a tendency to kind of put off the decision making.
So, occasionally, you know, especially with some of the more important decisions, as I look back on my decision making process, I do find sometimes it's just a hunch.
It's just something that you feel. It's just something that, like, I can't even necessarily explain why I'm making this decision.
I just know that this is going to work out. And so many times when I've just trusted my debt on making a decision, those have been the best decisions that I've ever made,
the ones that I made without too much dwelling on it, because you can talk yourself into or talk yourself out of anything.
And sometimes when it comes to making decisions, I think, you know, it's better to make a quick decision because ultimately you can't fail when, you know, even if you don't get the results that you're looking for,
the quicker you find that out, the quicker you're going to be able to turn around and make a new decision.
Because making a decision isn't the last time you're going to make that decision. You know, you're going to make decisions about that decision again and again and again.
So it's really, you know, just making a decision in the first place, I think it's so important for people.
I think a lot of times people have a really hard time trusting themselves to make the right decision and they agonize over that.
And so I just say, you know, get into the habit of just making even small decisions and noticing how those decisions turned out for you.
And as you get into the habit of making more and more decisions, you're just going to find it just that you're able to trust yourself and make decisions that much more quickly as time goes on.
Wow, thank you. Can I ask a question? Like, did you come from a great financial background? And the reason I'm asking that is tell the audience, how did you know that you could go make six tickets?
I did not come from, I came from a mixed financial background. So my, my father, who, you know, my mom split from when I was like six, seven years old.
And, you know, we went to go live with my mom. So my dad made a fairly decent living.
And, but it was interesting, you know, because like I saw him, I saw that, you know, I had a, you know, fairly wealthy father, but I did not benefit from that whatsoever.
My mom, on the other hand, I just saw her work really hard and, and fight over getting the, you know, child support check.
So that's the person I grew up with. That's the house that I grew up with. So I learned some very odd things about, about money growing up that I know, you know, work against me.
And, you know, and it was, it was just very, it was just very awkward. I mean, we're constantly wanting for, you know, for, for more.
And, you know, we always had, you know, food and clothing and shelter and all the basic necessities taken care of.
But, you know, it was just like, I, you know, didn't get to do that. Some of the things that I wanted to do that took more money and it couldn't go on the ski trips with the kids and stuff like that.
And so I just always knew for myself once I broke away from that, the environment that I was living in, that I was going to make something out of myself.
And I just, I don't even know really where I got the ideas that I had that I could be wealthy one day. I just like, it was really so much in my own imagination.
I mean, I just, I thought that I was going to be a big famous singer one day. That was my original goal and that I was going to be a big famous singer.
And, you know, that, that changed when I got a little older and started making my own money.
But I just, I just knew somewhere deep inside of me that I had it in me to be successful. And, and I know that it wasn't from watching my mom.
And I know that it wasn't necessarily from watching my dad. However, I did get a little appetizer of what that was like, you know, when I'd go and visit him for summer vacations and things like that.
But interestingly enough, my father died broke. We buried him in a pine box because he was, you know, he was very foolish with his money.
You know, he had his little prime where he made some good money, but he just was very foolish with it.
And so there was, there was just that whole concept that I, that I became aware of as well and, and learned early on, you know, to be very frugal.
So I've just always been extremely frugal. I mean, take to the point that, you know, I mean, I just, I don't, I don't go and, and, you know, I'm not the kind of girl that goes and buys, you know, red bottom.
Shoes or, you know, have lavish days at the spa or things like that. Sometimes I probably should treat myself a little bit better.
But yeah, learn, learned a lot of interesting things about money growing up in a very mixed, you know, mixed money situation between the mom and the dad.
Wow, Paul, well, sure. Thank you for sharing that. So maybe there's someone in the audience and they're making like, let's say $40,000 below the average.
And, you know, they're living in a apartment and, you know, they have the ambition and drive and they want to make maybe 70 or $80,000.
So that they can buy them a basic single family home. Would you walk us through what you would do to bring that into fruition?
Yes. So the very first thing that I would do is, you know, I would really make a very clear statement that I would write down about exactly how much money I wanted to make.
Okay. And I would write that down. And the second thing is I would write down all of the reasons why, you know, I wanted to make that all the emotional reasons why I wanted to make that amount of money.
Okay. Then I would also check out, you know, any belief that would possibly be getting in my way of earning that money.
Any of the things that I've learned about money and begin to question some of those beliefs that might be silly, might be the type of thing that is going to, you know, stop me and really begin to question those.
And create new empowering beliefs around that. Literally when I say and create new empowering beliefs, just what is the offset of believing that way?
What is the new belief? What do I need to believe in order to create that, you know, that amount of money?
Because it really, really does come down 100% to mindset. It's once a person learns, you know, and there are people that are not privileged that have never even heard of becoming aware of their subconscious beliefs and the living beliefs
and learning how to properly think in ways that are going to lead them to success. And but once you have learned that you have the power to change your mindset,
then it's 100% your responsibility to work on these things that you know to do, which are ultimately, you know, to figure out what do I need to be believing and then getting that belief installed into the subconscious mind.
And that's the work because see, the subconscious mind is so powerful that it will seek out validation. It will seek out how to make what you believe real.
And the way that you make that real is through the process of all of these manifesting conditions that I went over earlier.
And that is to, you know, visualize every single day. When you visualize, you're speaking to the subconscious mind in the language that the subconscious mind speaks.
The language of the subconscious mind is images. And so by visualizing yourself, making that money moving into that house and all of your other wives as to what making that money is going to allow to be possible for you all of your wives,
visualizing that, you know, every day with feeling is going to what what it's going to do is, you know, it's going to set up the subconscious mind with a problem that it has to figure out.
And it has and it's going to bring you ideas. Oh, maybe I need to set up a YouTube channel. Maybe I need to start this business. Maybe I need to call this person.
You don't know why necessarily. But you begin to get like these little tips. You know, these little ideas.
And you act on those ideas and you just take one step in front of the other. And, you know, I mean, if you want to make $80,000 to, it's like, okay, how do I make $80,000?
Like, you know, literally like sit down and write down. Like, do I want to do this through? Do I want to work for somebody else? Do I want to work for myself? Okay. If I want to work for myself, what do I want to do? Do I want to create a service? Do I want to create a product?
You know, okay, if I want to create a product, what's the product that I want to create? How many of these do I need to sell in order to generate $80,000?
And, you know, you can do it that way as well and understand like this is the plan for creating $80,000. This is the plan.
Now, help me to figure out who do I need to become to carry this plan out? What are, you know, what's getting in my way of carrying this plan out?
And, you know, so that's ultimately, you know, the step that I would take if I were in that situation of wanting to grow.
I'm always in that situation, not in those particular dollars, but, you know, I'm working on my own plan right now on moving myself from point A to point B.
And so, really understanding what is that point A? What is that point B? Why do you want to get there?
Programming that into the subconscious mind and sitting down and creating a plan of action and allowing yourself to take action when the ideas present themselves.
Wow, nicely stated. This has been phenomenal interview. The last question I'm going to ask you is to tell us about success.
When you think about success, what does that mean to you? How does that make you feel? Describe it in deep detail to us?
I will. Okay, so success is ultimately your ability to have an idea about something that you want, whether, you know, because everybody defines what they want or what would be a success for them differently.
You know, if they be success in the area of love, it may be success in the area of having balance that may be success in the area of wealth that may be, you know, success in your career.
And, you know, success is really your ability to create an idea and bring that to fruition. And, you know, it's really your ability to accomplish anything that you set out to accomplish or achieve.
It's really your ability to make yourself happy. And, you know, happiness doesn't always mean that you have achieved a certain, you know, success level.
You know, but it is the ability to be accepting of who you are in this moment and your ability to, you know, to create that state of mind, of happiness, of success in any moment.
And, you know, so I just, I think, you know, success ultimately just kind of comes down to your ability to feel happy with yourself.
And, you know, because ultimately it's your happiness, it's your state of mind, it's your state of emotion.
It's your ability to direct your thoughts and the direction that you want to be thinking, to direct your emotions in the direction that you want to be feeling.
And, you know, to have that power over your own self, to get yourself from point A, whatever that is, whether it's a thought, a feeling, a state of mind,
a state, a thing that you want your ability to bring that for your power, your personal power, to be, do, or have anything that you desire.
Nicely stated. It's been a phenomenal interview. In drawing to a close, I'm going to leave you out with a few quotes.
And the first one is, a dream doesn't become reality through magic. It takes sweat determination and hard work, four-star general, Colin Powell.
If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams and the deepest of life was to have a magic, they will meet with success, unexpected and common hours.
Here we go, this is the time we do.
Be the change you want to see. Be an agent of change. Be an ambassador of change. Mahatma Gandhi.
First, you will change you. Then your world and everything in it will change.
This has been a great, sudden-night impact show. And to the next show, keep walking by faith.
Thank you so much, Victoria. Amazing show you put on.
Thank you so much to White. I really appreciate it.
Oh, man, you were amazing.
Thank you.
Enjoy the rest of your day.
Thanks. You do the same.
Okay. Bye-bye.