Speaker 2 – Dr. James Houck / Host:
Okay. Good evening, everybody, wherever you are in the world at this time. Welcome once again to Reclaiming Authenticity, helping you find your courage to reclaim that which has always been in you. In fact, helping you reclaim that which you have always been and are.

I am very happy to be with you here tonight and every other Wednesday evening at 9:00 p.m. Eastern Standard Time, 6:00 p.m. Pacific Standard Time.

If you have been following me for some time, you know that each and every one of these broadcasts is certainly dedicated to integrating spirituality with our mental health. I place all of this within the context of the relationships we have with ourselves, the relationships we have with others, and the relationship we have with God or the divine.

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Just a reminder, I am now closing in on, and soon wrapping up, my sixth year with BBS Radio. These broadcasts have always focused on the integration of spirituality and mental health.

I find this very essential because quite often our minds interpret what we take in through our senses. Based on previous experiences, education levels, upbringing, and so forth, our minds interpret. They often fail to capture a more accurate understanding of deeper lessons, realities, and greater truths because our egos, which truth be told are very self-centered and limited, want to come in and take over. The ego keeps us from knowing ourselves as vast and eternal souls and from learning how to live in forgiveness, gratitude, bliss, and love.

This is something I am going to be talking more about tonight, namely in terms of illusion. What is it about illusion that keeps us stuck, keeps us where we are, and keeps us from growing? People can get quite comfortable living with illusion.

Admittedly, circling back to our egos, our egos certainly lead us astray with all kinds of thoughts, selfish pursuits, and a lower-level consciousness, if you will, which is always bound by time, space, and causation.

Yet how often are we guilty of not paying attention to our egos and our mind’s distorted templates, which are teaching us something more about ourselves and showing us where healing and transformation are still needed? These are places or states in our lives where we struggle with unforgiveness, hold grudges or bitterness, lack gratitude, or come across harsh at times, even mean-spirited. Taken to an extreme, that can become an overall hatred for others and perhaps even self-hatred.

There is a huge difference between worldly love, which is most familiar to us, and godly or divine love. According to one of my great teachers and dear friends, we often use the term “I love you,” but such love is conditional because it is temporary. It changes and goes back and forth between conflicting emotions of the mind, such as envy, jealousy, and hatred.

On the other hand, godly or divine love is a love that is not entangled in the human emotions of the mind. Divine love is eternal. It is not conditional, and it helps us and others purify our hearts and minds by realizing our oneness in relation to all people and all things.

This is certainly what Reclaiming Authenticity is all about. It can be summed up in that one word I love, which is “namaste.” Roughly translated, it means that because I see myself as a soul of light, this allows me to greet your lighted soul of who you are, even if you do not see it in yourself.

The integration of spirituality and mental health begins here, because when we examine and implement a oneness integration, let us say, we certainly come face to face with our deepest physical, emotional, psychological, and even spiritual wounds in our relationships.

In addition, we may believe that we will find happiness, joy, and contentment, yet we also might discover that the larger our ego becomes, the greater the sorrows that are sown.

Eventually, our ego brings us back to coming to terms with the relationships in our lives, especially our woundedness within families, coworkers, friends, and other relationships. But it is godly or divine love that heals and transforms those wounds into something more life-giving, something certainly more tangible, and definitely eternal.

This transformation is especially needed for the people whom society deems unlovable, unreachable, and untouchable. When we do the work of integrating healthier ways of transforming this ego of ours by embracing our own and others’ value, dignity, and worth as souls, we transform. We also transform others through our presence, grace, understanding, forgiveness, gratitude, and love.

Or to put it another way, the Dutch priest, author, and professor Henri Nouwen puts it this way. He says that just by paying attention to what is going on around us, we discover that there are people who heal each other’s wounds, forgive each other’s offenses, share their possessions, foster the spirit of community, celebrate the gifts they have received, and live in constant anticipation of the full manifestation of God’s glory.

So do not get trapped in this illusion that you have to go in search of something you already have. In fact, do not go in search of something that you already are. Discover who you are and be that soulful presence in this world.

As I stated, if you would like to call in and be part of the show, again, that number is 888-627-6008. I will be taking your calls after the break because I really want to hear what is on your heart regarding tonight’s show. It is entitled “The Sun, Its Reflection, and Illusion.”

Welcome to the month of June. Here we are, at the unofficial official start of summer for parents, teachers, and school-age kids alike. Of course, summer vacations are underway, or at least they are being planned. Many people hit the beaches or do other outdoor activities.

Just because I am feeling nosy tonight, whenever you go away on vacation, what is the one thing you make sure you take with you? You can forget everything else, but what is the one thing you have to have with you? Is it your meds? Is it underwear? Is it your toiletries? Do you make sure you have enough sunscreen protection? What is your SPF rating? Is it 15, 40, 75, 100? Or maybe you are like me and need 150 minimum so you do not burn. Yes, everybody seems to have an exact SPF number to keep them from burning.

At any rate, people love the sun and getting their vitamin D naturally. One thing is for sure: at the beginning of June, people really start to focus on the sun and its warmth. At least it is that way here on the East Coast.

Have you ever noticed just how many cultural references there are to the sun? It seems like, ever since the dawn of time, no pun intended, humanity has been fascinated by the sun. The sun is something every culture and religion appears to have some sort of emphasis on. People have been drawn to the sun for its brightness and warmth, and they have been inspired to reflect on it, write about it, and even sing about it.

For instance, poets have used the sun to express emotions, such as John Donne’s “The Sun Rising,” in which he writes about love as more powerful than the sun. What about Thomas Traherne’s “Ode to the Sun,” in which he writes that the sun is a gift from God and connects its light to humanity’s spiritual enlightenment? Of course, there is William Wordsworth’s “I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud,” which highlights the sun’s warmth captured in the beauty of nature.

But that is not all, because in the world of music and song, who could forget these timeless classics from the Beatles, such as “Here Comes the Sun” and “Good Day Sunshine”? All right, do not make fun of my singing now. What about back in the 1980s, when the group Katrina and the Waves sang about “Walking on Sunshine,” or Natasha Bedingfield, who sang about a “Pocketful of Sunshine”?

I did not forget you Pink Floyd fans out there. How about “Set the Controls for the Heart of the Sun”? It is kind of a psychedelic take on the sun. And yes, let us wrap it up with Annie, as in, “The sun will come out tomorrow.”

Even religion has something to say about the sun and God. For instance, there is Psalm 113, verse 3: “From the rising of the sun to its setting, the name of the Lord is to be praised.” What about Genesis, the very first chapter? “God made two lights, the greater light,” that is the sun, “to rule the day, and the lesser light,” which is the moon, “to rule the night,” as well as the stars. Also, Ecclesiastes, chapter 1, verse 5, says, “The sun rises and the sun goes down, and hastens to the place where it rises.”

Now let us not forget science, because scientifically, the sun has been understood in terms of influencing our circadian rhythms. Our circadian rhythms are kind of like our internal biological clock that regulates our sleep-waking cycle and other behavioral patterns, and they are significantly influenced by sunlight.

For example, research from long ago indicates that exposure to natural light, that is, the sun, positively affects our mood and cognitive function. I am sure you have heard about seasonal affective disorder. It highlights how the absence of sunlight can lead to depressive symptoms, demonstrating the necessity of sunlight for good mental health.

In fact, there is a study published in the journal Environmental Health Perspectives. It found that individuals with greater daytime exposure to natural light experienced improved sleep quality and reduced symptoms of anxiety and depression. The article attributed this finding to melatonin being released and regulated by exposure to light. So get out there and enjoy the sun this summer.

Let us shift gears a little bit and explore an aspect of the sun that you perhaps do not hear much about: how a deeper understanding of the sun and its ever-changing reflection has something to teach us about ourselves as souls. It is true. There is a unique understanding regarding the sun that we can use to further our understanding as a soul.

Follow me on this. There are two kinds of light in this world. We have the light of the sun, and then we have the sun’s reflection. The sun is always there, even on cloudy days. You can set your watch and your calendar by it. It is constant. It never changes.

However, the reflection of the sun is not always there. Sometimes it is there. Sometimes it is not, depending on the angle, such as from a mirror. The reflection of the sun is going to change when we move the mirror. We see this at night in the various phases of the moon. Sometimes it is a crescent moon. Sometimes it is a half moon. Sometimes it is a new moon. Sometimes it is a full moon. The sun is the sun, but the moon reflects that sunlight.

Now let us take this metaphor of the sun and its reflection into the realm of our consciousness as a soul. I have been saying for a long time that in our original, eternal, and limitless state, we are souls. We are ultimate consciousness, very much like the analogy of a wave that has always been part of the ocean. The ocean can exist without the wave, but the wave comes from the ocean. The wave does its thing, and then the wave dissolves back into the ocean.

Being the ultimate consciousness is something I believe we have definitely forgotten about ourselves. We just do not know ourselves as souls. We are like, “How can this be? All I can see is my physical self. I know my mental self,” and so on and so forth.

Reclaiming Authenticity is all about helping people remember who they are and who they have always been as souls connected to God, connected to one another, and connected to all things. There was, and is, no time when we were not souls.

Remember that passage in the Bible? It is in the book of Jeremiah, the very first chapter, I think verse 5. God and Jeremiah are having this conversation, and Jeremiah is like, “Why are You picking me?” God speaks to Jeremiah and says, “Look, before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I set you apart. I already appointed you as a prophet to the nations,” and so on.

This passage really emphasizes God’s intimate knowledge and purpose for us, even before our birth. In other words, God is telling Jeremiah, “Look, do not worry about what you think you can and cannot do. Remember who you are.” That is the main lesson there. Every life has a divine purpose.

This is what God wants us to remember: ourselves as vast souls that are constant, eternal, and never changing like the sun. Yet within humanity, we often want to focus only on the temporary, such as the sun’s reflection. We are changing because of our biological makeup, just like the sun’s reflection changes.

Imagine this as the soul’s reflection. For instance, this reflection is made up of our mind, which takes in information through our five senses. It is also made up of our intellect, which knows and has the ability to decide, judge, and discern. It is also made up of our memories, and it is also made up of our ego.

Staying with this metaphor, many people assume that the reflection, so to speak, is our true nature. It is not, because those things—our intellect, memory, ego, and so forth—are always changing. Yet our soul, or ultimate consciousness, does not change. Remember, the sun is constant. It does not change, but the reflection does.

My Hindi friends share this metaphor of the sun and its reflection as a way of understanding ourselves as souls that do not change, even though our individuality undergoes many changes as we age and die. This is not understood in some morbid sense, but rather as an understanding that we do change mentally, emotionally, and physically, which should lead us to realize that there is something greater, unchanging, and eternal. That is the soul.

Yet how often do we believe, and there is no shame or guilt in this, that we are nothing more than the mind and the body? The mind and the body are not going to live forever. Only the soul does, because that is who we ultimately are.

When we identify ourselves with the body and the mind, we get caught up in the illusion that we are separated from everything and everyone, which leads us to believe that these things are permanent when they are not. However, when we identify with the soul and understand, “I am a soul,” we understand our connectedness to everyone and all things, because we have always been, even if we have not realized it yet. We learn to walk in this world as a soul.

So many times we limit ourselves in so many ways, believing we are helpless, that we are victims, that we will never amount to anything, or that God is just waiting for us to step out of line so God can whack us good. On the contrary, God’s heart is for us to realize who we are, who we have always been, to embrace the fullness of unconditional love in all areas, and to walk this earth as an eternal soul who is able to see others as souls, even if they have yet to see it in themselves.

One of my favorite quotes is from author Marianne Williamson. I shared this a couple of weeks ago in one of the last broadcasts, and I will share it again because it definitely fits what we are talking about here. She writes that our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, well, who am I to be brilliant or gorgeous or talented or fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
Because you are a child of God.
You're playing small does not serve this world and there is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We're all meant to shine as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Fear.
This has to be one of the themes that keeps coming up for people who continue to struggle
and who struggle with coming to terms with any underlying fears.
See, most of the time people deal with their fears by not facing them.
You know, they avoid them.
They want to escape them.
You know, for example, a person who fears flying will probably never get on a plane.
You know, a person who fears drowning will probably never get in the ocean and so forth.
But what if what a person fears turns out to be something that's actually good for them?
You know, that is their fears can actually be understood as a means of seeing things
for what they are.
That is an illusion.
You know, false evidence appearing real.
If we can recognize what is false, if we can recognize what is an illusion, that's a good
thing.
Now, Brian Weiner once wrote that if you're afraid that books might change someone's thinking,
you're not afraid of the books.
You're afraid of thinking.
Yeah, good point.
You know, what does fear teach us not only about ourselves, but also about something
deeper in our lives that needs to be healed and overcome?
After all, we are a lot stronger than we have perhaps been told about ourselves.
Well, I would really, really love to hear what's on your heart about this subject.
So again, if you want to call in, that number is 888-627-6008 and I'll be taking your calls
after this break.
Again, you are listening to Reclaiming Authenticity and I'm your host, Dr. James Hauck.
And I'm going to be back with you in one minute.
Okay, everybody.
Welcome back.
I am Dr. James Hauck and you are listening to Reclaiming Authenticity.
Well, I got to tell you, earlier in the show, I was talking about the many, many benefits
of the sun, you know, as you went, especially in our understanding, you know, with our ultimate
selves as souls beyond our individual human selves, which change much like the changes
we see in reflected sunlight.
So as I said, you know, in the first half of the show, you know, there's two kinds of
light in this world.
You know, the light of the sun and then there's the sun's reflection.
You know, the sun is always there.
It's constant, even on cloudy days.
It just does not change.
Okay.
And that's a powerful metaphor to understand ourselves as a soul.
That is who we truly are.
We are eternal.
We are constant.
And yet in this other understanding of the reflection of the sun, it's not always there.
Sometimes it's there.
Sometimes it's not.
It changes.
And depending on an angle, like say, if we hold up a mirror and kind of catch the reflection
of the sun, it's going to change, not because the sun moves, but because the Earth is moving.
You know what I mean?
You know, when we move the mirror, the reflection will change.
And you know, we can see this, you know, pretty much any time of the night in various
phases of the moon, which reflect the sun at different times each month.
You know, and so this reflection of the sun, which changes, is kind of, you know, our
physical sense, you know, and our mental sense and our emotional sense.
You know, we go through changes all the time.
You know, our bodies age, our bodies get sick, our bodies get tired, our bodies get hungry,
so on and so forth.
You know, the mind of the body is always changing.
But our souls, who we truly are, that's eternal, doesn't go through those changes of
aging and so forth.
Okay?
And so, you know, it's my Hindi friends share with me, you know, this is important in understanding,
you know, trying to get people to understand that who they truly are is a soul, you know,
and not get caught up in the illusion that, you know, well, I'm nothing more than the
mind and the body.
Okay?
And as I've been saying for a long, long time that in our original, eternal, and limitless
state, we are souls.
Okay?
And I also use the analogy, you know, of a wave.
That's always being part of the ocean.
You know, the ocean can exist without the wave, but the wave comes from the ocean.
The wave does its thing, gains some strength, and then it dissolves back into the ocean.
So the wave changes, the ocean is constant, just like our souls are constant, but our
minds and bodies change.
Anyway, being the ultimate consciousness is something I think we believe what we have
forgotten about ourselves.
And this is why, you know, I really emphasize this show, this reclaiming authenticity.
It's all about helping people remember who they are and who they have always been as
souls connected to God.
There's a oneness there, a oneness with all things and with all people.
And there was and is no time when we were not souls.
Okay?
And you know, how often do we believe that we're nothing more than to mind and to body?
Okay?
The mind and the body are, you know, you know, this is well as I do.
It's not going to live forever.
Only the soul does because that is who we ultimately are.
So when we identify ourselves with the body and the mind, we're going to get caught up
in this illusion that we are separated from everything and everyone, which leads us to
believe, you know, we're not really permanent.
Okay?
But yet when we identify as a soul that we understand that, you know, we have this connectedness
to everyone and all things because we have always been, but maybe we haven't realized
it or learned to walk in it yet.
And so many times we really do limit ourselves in many different ways, you know, just simply
by believing or thinking that we're helpless, we're victims, you know, or any other negative
message that people have shared with us growing up or even maybe it even was today.
Okay?
And that God is somehow displeased with us and we better watch out or else, you know,
but I'm convinced of this that God's heart is for us to realize who we are.
Who you are.
Remember who you always have been and embrace the fullness of unconditional love in all
areas and walk as that eternal soul in a body and mind that's always changing.
Okay?
And, you know, taking this a little bit deeper here, you know, one of the things I hear a
lot from people is that they question how everything then is an illusion.
You know, the world is an illusion, our lives are an illusion and so forth.
And if everything is an illusion, what then can we believe to be real?
After all, you know, when we drop a brick on our foot, that pain is real to us.
The tears we cry are real to us and the joys and celebrations we experience, well,
they're real to us.
So why does illusion make us cry or scream or hurt?
Well, quite honestly, pain is not an illusion.
Suffering is not an illusion and the world is not an illusion.
What is illusion then or us is in our interpretation of those things.
You know, in other words, we really don't see and understand what is.
We see and understand only what our minds project as versions of our desires, our fears,
our beliefs, our memories and so forth.
See, the illusion is not outside of us.
It's internal.
Suffering is in our mind because the mind creates this illusion.
Consciousness is real.
The soul is real because it never changes.
It's eternal.
It continues on after the mind and the body have changed and aged and died.
See what we see is an illusion.
Why?
Because again, anything that changes or can be destroyed, that's the illusion.
You know, we think it's always going to be there.
If we can destroy it or we can change it, it's not permanent.
It's the illusion that we think it's going to be.
You know, for instance, let's just use just a very familiar analogy here.
Imagine that you have a house made of bricks, okay?
The house looks real, but it can be demolished, leaving us with, let's just say, the bricks.
But the bricks are also part of the illusion because they too can be destroyed, which
leaves us with, let's say, mud from which the bricks were made.
You know, and as a result, the house is temporary.
It's not consistent like the sun, like the soul.
And similarly, we too believe our physical state is also an illusion of the mind, believing
that, well, we'll live forever.
We'll never change and we're never going to die.
But that's just not true.
So again, let's bring all of this into a very practical application and address what most
people struggle with day in and day out, fear, shame, and guilt.
All three of these issues have the potential to create changes in our lives, which in turn
create an illusion that we perceive is real and permanent.
However, let's also understand, let's also keep in mind that these issues created their
own negative energy, you know, fear, shame, and guilt.
Because what we know about physics, you know, energy cannot be destroyed.
But once we are aware of an illusion, we can transform that energy into truth of what
is real.
So what is it about change that people fear the most?
Is it a state of being comfortable with an illusion that makes letting go of something
that no longer serves them, you know, difficult to take on something better?
You know, maybe in other words, perhaps it's more about the fact that the majority of people
would rather stay comfortable living in an illusion of being a victim or hopelessness
than take responsibility for their lives.
Granted, what a person has gone through is real and it's painful to them.
That's not the illusion.
But when a person believes that what has happened to them is the end all be all to who they
are, that's the illusion.
However, illusion is not based on externals, but rather illusion is created in our minds
projection or interpretation of these things.
But exactly what is it about being a victim that could be very appealing to another person
that they will fight to the nail to hang on to that woundedness?
Could it be that living in an illusion is more comfortable than healing from the illusion
and beginning to live with the truth?
You know, again, you know, here are the words of Marianne Williamson.
It is our light, not our darkness that we fear the most.
You know, I tend to agree with her that people fear their greatest potential that is fearing
the light and staying helpless or vulnerable.
And I hear this all the time into people I cancel, you know, namely that, well, you know,
there are a lot of other people out there that are just worse off than me.
You know, and that really comes across as, you know, self-pity, you know, that's clothed
in some sort of false humility.
Either way, as Marianne Williamson says, you're playing small, does not serve the world and
that there is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people around you won't feel
insecure.
Okay?
You know, most of the time people deal with their fears, not by facing them, but they just,
they avoid them.
That's part of human nature.
I'm convinced of it.
Okay?
Certainly a person who doesn't like flying and fears flying, they're not going to get
on a plane.
Okay?
And a person, you know, who doesn't want to get out in the ocean, okay, don't put them
on a sailboat.
Don't put them on a cruise.
Don't put anything that's going to sink.
They just have that avoidant type behavior.
But again, let's circle back to something I said in the first half of the show.
What if, what if, what a person fears turns out to be something that's actually good for
them in terms of once they understand where their fears come from, maybe they can heal
beyond their mind's self-imposed illusion.
Okay?
So what do fear, shame, and guilt teach us not only about ourselves, but also something
deeper in our lives that needs to be healed and overcome?
And like I said before, we are a lot stronger than perhaps what we've been told about ourselves.
When we recognize the illusion, we can transform that negative energy into something that empowers
us to live as souls, even while we are on this earth.
On the other hand, what if your fear involves something that's related to your potential?
You know, I, I shared this story again in the last broadcast, but it bears repeating.
One of my favorite psychoanalysis, an ally that's like, psychiatrist as well, Alfred Adler,
you know, he was a contemporary of Freud until they didn't get along and then Freud
took his toys and went home.
My opinion, okay?
But Alfred Adler faced his own sense of vulnerability.
You know, he faced it personally and professionally and overstood and understood overcoming inferiority
as a means of just finding one's potential, you know, and he used this as one of the major
accomplishments of living an authentic life.
You know, because back in the day, Adler was born 1870-ish and he was a very sickly
child.
He developed rickets, you know, which kept him from walking for about, you know, until
about four years old.
And then at the age of four, he developed pneumonia and that he heard a doctor say to
his father, forget it, your boy is lost.
And to make matters worse, he was run over twice and he witnessed his younger brother's
death and his sickness contributed to his overall fear of death, okay?
But he didn't realize he was living in an illusion.
And well, from these and other experiences throughout his life, young Alfred rallied back
from the grave, so to speak, and proposed that every person experiences a feeling of inferiority,
you know, and eventually, you know, if you're familiar with the inferiority complex, that
comes from Alfred Adler, which originated, you know, this inferiority originates in early
childhood when we are naturally dependent on others for everything.
So basically, just real quick here, and inferiority complex is rooted in feelings of inadequacy
and it does affect our self-worth and it does affect our relationships.
And this condition can arise from a combination of real or imagined weaknesses.
There's the illusion, often leading to distress and a distorted self-image in both whether
it's relational or other social context.
Now science of an inferiority complex include displaying signs of like low self-esteem,
you know, feelings of perhaps not being able to meet the expectations from parents and caregivers
as a child, or maybe struggling with unresolved trauma or internalized shame, just to name
a few.
And then the inferiority complex can also come out in terms of a tendency to overanalyze
compliments and criticisms.
Why are you saying that to me?
Who are you to say that to me?
I don't feel that way about me.
Don't know, no, don't say that.
And it also comes out in terms of persistently looking for validation and praise from others.
How am I doing?
Am I okay?
Do you like what I did?
Do you know, did you have fun with that?
And being a people pleaser, instead of being your authentic self and pursuing what brings
you joy and pleasure.
And certainly, you know, the inferiority complex also shows up in, you know, times when we
attempt to make others feel insecure, to make up for feelings of inadequacy.
Okay, like we want to put them down so that we feel better.
Okay, all stemming from this inferiority complex.
Now, ironically, these feelings of inferiority can really motivate children to develop skills
or overcome challenges and attain their own goals.
Again, remember, it's not where you begin in life.
It's where you end.
However, you do not need, you know, you do need, I'm sorry, you do need at least one person
in your life who believes in you and will not let you settle for less.
Perhaps that one person recognizes themselves as a soul and recognizes you as a soul, even
though you have yet to see it in yourself.
So circling back to Alfred Adler, you know, another story goes, you know, that young
Alfred was not particularly a good student in school.
You know, at one point, young Alfred came home from school with a note from his teacher,
and it was addressed to his father and has said that, well, Alfred should not set his
sights too high, and perhaps he would be better suited to become a cobbler.
Now there's nothing wrong with being a maker or a repair or a seller of shoes, but in his
father's eyes, his son was not going to settle for failing to live up to his potential.
I mean, I can almost hear the conversation, you know, Alfred, you will not live in the
illusion that that's all you can ever be.
And as a result, his father basically kicked his son's butt to do better in school, and
he eventually went on to become a psychiatrist and a developer of a theory that really empowered
people to heal from their feelings of inferiority and to be their best in life.
So in other words, overcome the illusion that you can't do something, that there's
more to you than just your mind and your body.
And why this isn't an important distinction to make is that as my Indian friends tell
explain it to me, you know, people are already in a relationship with all things and all
people, including God, but they just don't know it yet.
They're not aware that they are souls.
They're living in this illusion.
You know, we all walk in ignorance or the illusion of who we truly are.
That may be at one point in our lives.
And therefore, it is a matter of realizing that we are souls, souls that are vast and
formless souls that are eternal.
And I've had some great conversations with my friends from India.
And we have a lot of great conversations about sin and ignorance, you know, because
in Western spirituality, this concept of sin tells people that they're wrong, that they
have done something wrong.
And therefore, they need to eliminate sin to be in a right relationship with God and
others.
Okay, I was raised on that.
I get it.
But whereas others see sin as bad or evil, my Indian friends believe that people act
out of ignorance of who they are.
And therefore, they're going to commit evil acts because they have not realized themselves
and others as souls.
And I get that too.
I really do because once they have fully realized this grip of illusion and are transformed
by it.
They clearly see the dynamic between wounding and healing because every thought, every word,
every action has the potential to heal or hurt to nurture or wound.
And let's not forget about the echo metaphor, one of my favorite metaphors that, you know,
we live in an echo that whatever we send out is going to come back to us in one form or
another.
It's like we say, hello in a cave and it's going to echo back to us.
Same principle at work.
And for us, regardless of religion, it is a matter of understanding how we live our lives,
you know, with superimposed notions and distorted templates that, you know, we are all bodies
and minds.
I mean, yes, we have bodies and minds, but we may believe that that's all there is to
us and that maybe someday we'll get to go to heaven.
Okay, but there is certainly more to us, you know, but the illusion wants us to, you know,
stay there with, well, that's all it is because if you see it, then it must be true.
If you hear it, it must be true.
But when we transform the illusion and we realize that we are eternal souls, that makes all
the difference in the world, what makes all the difference in us.
And I've even seen this in Christianity and other major religions that people are afraid
to walk in this newness of life as eternal souls because they still believe that they're
tied to this illusion, so to speak.
I mean, didn't Jesus once say that the kingdom of God is in you?
We just haven't realized it yet.
Sometimes we just don't know how to embrace it, let alone walk in this newness of life
and relationships in which we are connected to God and others and all things.
Well, the truth is that the greatest strength of who we are as souls lies in our ability
to transform and transcend the physical, emotional and psychological illusions in our lives.
And for as much as history has shown us the horrific crimes humanity commits against
itself, there are just as many stories of humanity rising above such tragedies and they
find their healing and they reclaim themselves as souls.
And perhaps your life could be one of those stories yet to be told.
I'm Dr. James Hauck and you've been listening to Reclaiming Authenticity.
Again, as I say at the end of all these broadcasts, thank you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you for spending this hour with me.
I really appreciate it.
And do drop me a line.
Let me know what you think.
And if you have any further questions, I'd be glad to talk further with you about this.
But until we talk again in two weeks, you know, everybody out there, just be safe.
Be out there, behave yourselves.
And everybody just recognize illusion for what it is and claim yourself as that soul.
Good night.
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