Well hello everybody, welcome to Lucky Charm
I'm your host, Charm
And so happy to be here with you, thank you for joining me
Just take a deep breath, if you're having a long day
Just sit back and relax and listen to me ramble for the next hour
But just want to kind of start off with
If no one has told you today, and this is for anyone listening
And anyone who will be listening later
If no one has told you today yet
Know that you are amazing
You are wonderful, you are beautiful
You are talented, you are prosperous
You are wealthy
Everything always works out for you
The universe is showing you the way all the time
Great things are happening for you, to you and through you
I hope that resonates, welcome to the show
Today I want to kind of touch on
Alright, we're back, everybody, can you hear me okay?
Alright, so it's been an interesting day
I barely made it to the show today, but I'm so excited that I made it
Because I almost didn't, and wouldn't you have it?
Something happened right before the show that's in complete synchronicity
With what I was going to talk about today, and of course there are no accidents
What I want to reiterate, you know, anyway, as I was saying, I've listened to, I've read books, I've listened to people, I've had amazing mentors, I've had amazing coaches
I've had some, I have the knowledge, but what I didn't have was the experience
So I guess you could say my whole life, just like anyone else listening, I'm no different
But specifically for the past few years, I really put things to the test
You know, let's do nothing and see what happens
Or let's take a leap of faith and see what happens
Let's jump and see what happens
I'm pretty sure I tested everything there was to test
Let's follow my heart and let's see what happens
Let's listen to my brain and see what happens
And because I want to talk from experience, I don't want to quote anyone else, I don't want to repeat a book that's been written, I needed to see this and experience this for myself
So before I get into what I was going to talk about, something that happened right before the show, something broke down with my car and it's kind of not in the middle of nowhere almost
And just happened to run across someone and I'm going to make the story kind of short
And asked them if they could help me and they said yes
And some of the parts that I needed were he just so happened to have him in his car, I was just blown away completely blown away
Like how do you have this part? There's a certain specific fuse and certain tool I needed never in a million years that I think this person would have it, but they did
And they fixed it, making a long story short, they fixed it just in time for me to get on the show
And you know, obviously they weren't doing it for money, but I did offer them and so that was nice
But my point is, this is exactly what I wanted to talk about today is when you surrender and when you let things happen instead of worry or freak out, everything shows up just in time
I know many of you have experienced this and I'm not the only one, I'm just kind of reminding because sometimes I'll talk to certain people and they don't understand why things aren't happening or why they're not creating this and that and you know, whatever it may be
I have to check myself sometimes, but it's really honestly when you let go of worry and just trust that you're always taking care of, it just happens
I mean, it's happened so many times and I still find myself worrying about stuff
So, you know, I'm not different, I'm human
But yeah, that was really cool and just in time to get on the show, so that was really cool
So again, thank you for joining me
And you know, I've been traveling a lot and I'm just obsessed with waterfalls
I love waterfalls, I love water, I love nature
And one of the things I noticed about waterfalls is they wouldn't sound so great if there weren't rocks in the way
Without those rocks and what we call obstacles in our lives
It would just kind of be a quiet stream, which is fine too
I love quiet streams too, sometimes I just want to hang out by a quiet stream
But sometimes I want to be next to a waterfall
And it's just, you know, the waterfall would not have such a powerful energy and sight if it weren't for the resistance
of the rocks
And if you're experiencing any resistance in your life or whatever it may look like for you
Just know that that's what's giving its strength, that's what gives you the power
And, you know, most of our, again, I know I'm not saying anything, no one's heard before
But I just wanted to kind of be here and give examples of my own personal experience
Instead of just, you know, quoting someone
And what I'm realizing is when I use my heart to make decisions
Things go pretty really smoothly
It's when I get in my head
And I've tried this many times by default without knowing it
And that's how it's been for me, I'm not saying that's how it's going to be for you
But it's honestly, the thoughts can really get in the way
And, you know, a lot of people will say, well, how do you stop it? How do you, how do you, you can't not think?
And I couldn't agree with you more, but there is a way
And, but I have a joke about that, by the way, they finally found out what was wrong with my brain
On the left side, there was nothing right
And on the right side, there was nothing left
So, if you resonate with that, some of you may have heard that joke before, but I thought that was funny
But, by the way, it'll be just me today, Mary had something come up due to her writing commitments
So she had to take care of that, which we understand and hopefully should be with us next week
So, anyway, back to, you know, the battle between the heart and the brain is just amazing
The people I talk to, I love asking people about their experiences and what they're dealing with
Because it does help me
And, there's some people who are still, like they feel stuck almost, it's like a stuck feeling and, but they know the answers
They know how to get out, but they're still stuck
And, my passion has always been to understand how life works here
You know, how do we, what is the manual, how do we do, how do we not feel stuck
And, as we know, we are our own forced enemies and we stand in our own way all the time
And, you know, by that I mean our thoughts
And, it's, it's, it's, they, and these are beautiful people
Beautiful, beautiful people, very intelligent people that I'm speaking of
Love talking to them, love collaborating with them, but they're stuck
They don't, they're not able to get out of their situation
They don't understand why what they're asking for or what they're running or what they're dreaming about
Is not coming into fruition
And, all I can say is based on my own experiences when either you don't want it, you think you want it
Or, your way of being is not in alignment with what you're asking for
And, I know this is not something new that anyone is hearing
But, just as a reminder, it's not, you know, people think creation
I have a problem with that word creation because it almost makes it sound like
You're trying to create something from new and bring something into existence
Well, you are bringing something into existence
But, you're, it already exists in another parallel reality
You're just trying to bring it into your reality
You're just trying to have it exist in your reality
And the only way that I know how to do that is by aligning with that which you're asking for
It's just never worked, you know, so I could sit here and, I don't know, say
I want to attract or bring into my reality
I castle to live in
You know, if that were my desire
But, if I walk around all day long saying, I don't have it, I don't have it, I don't have it
You're not going to have it
And that's what I see people do, that's what I see myself do
And so just as a reminder
You're not creating your aligning
You're aligning with that frequency
And so in order to
And so people are like, well, how do I align because it's not here?
I don't have it, I'm broke
I don't have the money, I don't have the castle, I don't have the dream job
I don't have it
How can I feel or
Yeah, it's a feeling, it's a feeling, it's not even a fake it to make it, you can't fake it
You have to get to a point of it already exists
Is the alignment
And again, I know I'm preaching to the choir, but there's a reason for this
So the stress itself, the worrying, the lack of, that's blocking the answer
That's why they say, let go and let God, which you are God
It's a letting go, it's a not controlling
It's being at peace
And when you start trusting that, life starts moving for you
The right timing aligns without effort
When you stop stressing, reality starts bending to match your state of being
So if you walk around saying, I'm in pain, I'm in pain, I'm in pain
You are going to have more pain
And I know I'm pretty certain everyone listening already knows this
I know this and I still fall for it
It's really realizing the door has always been open
The answers are always there
The opportunity is always there
Your dream husband, boyfriend, soulmate is there
You just have to match your state of being with that desire
If that makes sense
And I'm not telling anyone what they have to do, I'm talking to myself actually
So, you know, it's not, you know, you just
And you can't go somewhere new
Unless you leave where you were
I'm going to repeat that
You can't go somewhere new unless you leave where you were
So a lot of people are afraid to take that leap of faith or jump
Because they can't see what's going to catch them, they can't see the net, they can't see where they're going to land
And so then they don't jump, they don't trust
And then they wonder why they don't have, of course, this construction somehow right next to me right now, it's amazing
And so that's why they feel stuck, because they're not willing to move
They're not willing to do something different
Why, many reasons, fear, judgment, criticism, fear of failure, what if it's a mistake, what if it doesn't go well, doubt
All of these things that we are all aware of
And the only reason I am sharing this with you is because I did jump
Without knowing where I was going to land
And it has actually been one of the most amazing
journeys of my life
And it's still continuing, so
Was it all amazing experience?
You know, there's a lot of surprises
There was some unpleasant, some not pleasant, but even the unpleasant
Had its purpose
Because I grew, I learned something
It had a purpose
So even the negative things or the bad things that sometimes people are afraid to encounter
You've got to be willing to go through that, you've got to be willing to pay the price
So it's not going to be a smooth ride, it has not been a smooth ride for me
And it's still not, and I don't ever expect it to be, because that's not how this works
So that's what it takes
But you do, in order, I'm going to repeat, you cannot
You can't go somewhere new unless
You leave where you were
To get to your purpose, you're going to have to walk to better things
You're going to have to leave where you are, you have to
You can't stay in the same place and say I want something else
You have to take action
No one's going to come and drag you out of your situation
It doesn't work that way
As we've heard it before, no one's coming to save you
You have to make that decision
Only, always, you're always one decision away from making a drastic change in your life
So yeah, you're going to have to leave where you are, that's just not out of the way
You can't have both
People don't do it because they don't want to grieve
I find that's the main reason
They don't want to deal with the pain, they don't want to, I don't know what it is, you know, a job, a relationship
A marriage that's not working, whatever it may be
You're the country, you want to leave the country, you want to leave the city, you want to leave the environment you live in
Whatever that may be
The number one reason I'm seeing people don't take that leap is because they don't want to deal with the grief
But there is no way around it
I'm so sorry to break this to you, there's no way around it
And when you do, when you do take that leap
Make sure you don't take that grief with you
If you move on, then move on
But yeah, because we don't want to grieve
And the hardest part of life is to know when to turn the page
Because, you know, life, your life is a book
At what point do you turn the page?
At what point do you start reading another chapter?
If you don't like the chapter you're reading, read another chapter
Move on, because it's not the end of the book
How can you get to the end of the book if you don't go to the next chapter?
And as we've all heard before, you know, you're creating this whole movie
So how can you get to the movie if you don't go to the next scene?
And
And so, yeah, most people don't want to start a new chapter
And that's fine, and that's totally fine, there's nothing wrong with it
But be okay with it, love it, love where you're at
If you're not willing or wanting or desiring to turn the page, that's okay
But be in love where you're at, and really be there
That's all I have to say about that for now, but
And you know, just because you're
Decide to leave that job or
You know leave the place you live out, whatever it may be
Whatever chapter you're thinking about
Turning, it doesn't mean it was a good chapter or a bad chapter
It just means you're ready to move forward and you're ready to move and walk by faith, not by sight
And yeah, and so
I would have a cool quote and I'd like to share that
You cannot suffer the past
Or the future
Because they do not exist
What you're suffering is your memory and imagination
The moment you realize this
You'll gain your superpower
Because the same imagination
That created your suffering
Can also create
Miracles
I feel I need to repeat the last part
The same imagination
That created your suffering
Can also create
Miracles
Everything your experience you imagined it into experiencing
You first imagined it thought about it imagined it felt it saw it visualize it and then it came to life
You are
Manifesting this everything
You're creating everything because you're aligning with that energy your state of being is attracting it
And so this is great news
Because that same imagination
That same visualization you used to bring about the thing you didn't like
You can also use that to create miracles
How do you do that?
How do you do that when you keep looking at it and it's not there
It sounds a little tricky but it's actually not
And as some of us have heard before you just got to stop thinking
And it's easier than done for some but it really is that easy actually
And
If you don't know where you're going any road will take you there
I'm sure you've heard that one before
The the compass was invented
Before the clock
Because direction is more important than time
You've got to know where you're going
You know, it's interesting a lot of people are asking what do you want?
They actually don't know what they want but yeah, that's kind of that's probably
Most of the work is knowing what you want
And I will say
I was talking to a friend of mine and
I
She might be listening
I asked her, you know, when's the last time you remember being happy?
And
It kind of took a while to answer and I I agreed with her and I said, you know, and I I'm asking this of a lot of people
And I'm
With the people that I asked
And most people are not happy
I've talked to people with a lot of money. I've talked to people with a lot of education
I've talked to people who are in great romantic relationships. They found the love of their life
I've talked to
People who have great jobs dream jobs or whatnot
But they're still
Not
Happy they're
They're constantly looking for the next thing which is fine. There's nothing wrong with that
But
What I'm noticing and
This includes myself what I'm noticing
Because I've pretty much done everything I said I was gonna do at this point and
Am I like the happiest person ever? No?
I'm also like looking for the oh, what's the next thing I can do? What's the next thing I can do?
Which is fine again. There's nothing wrong with that. However, I
I'm noticing that it really is a choice
Being happy is a choice
And it's an inside job
No one no one and I mean no one
Has that much should have that don't give anyone the power
To disturb your peace or your joy or your happiness
Nothing and I mean nothing not the lack of money not the lack of education not the lack of
Resources whatever you're dealing with
Whatever you feel is an upset for you at this time in your life
You have a choice
It really is a choice
Well charm, how do we do this? It's it's you just choose
You just choose your reaction to
What's happening and I know it's it can be challenging sometimes
But it really honestly is a choice I
Will be cutting a little bit
Who will see we're still good on time if anyone wants to call in by the way the direct number
Just I mean you might want to just call me to just say enough stop talking or you have a question or you can ask me
Anything you want you can call
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I'd love to talk to anyone if you want to call and ask a question or
contribute or add to I
Hope this show does not end up being about me
Because that is not my intention. I would eventually
What I'm visualizing is
collaborating with
others who are
Going through kind of what I'm talking about and they have actually, you know, maybe done it and
I would love to hear success stories if you are someone who
has taken a leap and
maybe you were scared and
You just set the heck with it. I'm just gonna jump and see what happens. I
Want to hear from you because not only I want to hear from you
I promise you there's a lot of people who want to hear from you
And I personally happen to know a few people that have done that and they're
They've succeeded I would I would call that Ascension. I
Would absolutely call that Ascension. Was it hard? Yes, I
Watched certain people
Have a really hard time when and what I mean by that when I say jump. I mean
Leave leave the brain behind and use your heart to make a decision. They did that and
They're
Enjoying
What they've manifested now, it's so beautiful to watch
But it wasn't easy. It wasn't easy, but worth it
Absolutely worth it. They had no idea how it was gonna turn out, but they took a leap of faith
they kept
Making decision with their heart there and when I say heart, I'm not talking about
Love or lust or someone, you know, you fell in love with it. That's not what I'm talking about
It could be anything. It could be relationship. It could be job related. It could be whatever it is for you
But I know relationships are usually a hot topic. So whatever you can relate it to
They jumped they jumped and I will say this they didn't do it alone. They had a good
Support system. This is something, you know, people think they have to do this alone
You don't if you even have one or two
even one person who's standing with you and supporting you and
What you're doing. That's all you need and if you don't
then
Then you don't then if you're gonna do this by yourself do it by yourself
You know, I like to say don't let loneliness make you connect with toxic people or people who are gonna hold you back
It's like
Drinking poison just because you're thirsty. So if you really want to do something and
No one's backing you up. I hope you still do it
So
It's from my own personal experience
I've found that when I surrender and let go
It leads me to answers it leads me to more clarity. I
Know it sounds it can sound counterintuitive sometimes
Well, I mean if I just stop everything's gonna fall apart or or if I let go I'm gonna
I don't know lose this job. I'm gonna lose this house. I'm gonna lose this apartment
I'm gonna lose my boyfriend whatever and
So people hold on and control I
Being one of them. I've tested both
But it really does lead to answers it really really does so
and
The more you try it
Just try it try it out and if it doesn't work calm me up and you know, you can
Tell me to stop talking, but just try it
But take something in your life that you're really struggling with and it's it's just like a
Like a like you feel stuck in
Whatever whatever that may be maybe it's your you hate your job, but
Whatever
Do what you're gonna do?
take a leap and then surrender and
Let things happen the way they're supposed to so for example today
This gentleman that helps absolute angel who helped me
You know, I ended up paying him. He absolutely was not doing it to get paid for at all. He was just
100% wanting to help me
But he ended up getting paid for it
so
Had I not
Had this not had happened
the the breakdown whatever with my car I
Would not have met this gentleman. I wouldn't and he wouldn't have
gotten the extra money that he didn't he wasn't expecting to get today and
You know, whatever maybe he needed it
so if I didn't
Take that action. I'm not sure I'm explaining this correctly
but if I didn't trust myself and
Allow the universe to provide and send me the right person at the right time
then he wouldn't have
Got and what he was asking for he probably was
asking for some extra money today. Maybe he didn't know where it was gonna come from and
This happened so
Trust and
So
Sorry, give me one second. I wasn't expecting to ramble a fool a full hour today, but
Another quote I heard that was that resonated with me was you can't think
Your way into a new living
You can't think your way into a new living you have to live
Yourself into a new thinking. I know there's a book out there called thinking Grow Rich. That's fine
It works. I'm not saying it doesn't work
You have to align
Your energy your state of being
Has to be in alignment if you
Don't feel worthy if you don't feel deserving if you don't feel
If you don't I don't know love yourself already if you're not loved if you're not in
the energy of love or
If you're not whatever fill in the blank
It's it's just it's not gonna show up. It's not gonna show up
And it may show up temporarily, but it won't last
and
So I am looking at my cheat notes here because
Sometimes I forget what I was gonna talk about I
I have to admit I
I saw I saw this someone was saying the pathway to your greatest
potential is
straight through your greatest fear the
Pathway to your greatest potential is straight through your greatest fear my biggest fear
Was doing this radio. Oh, believe it or not. I
Yeah, this this I have been
resisting this for a very long time and
Sometimes I still I'm still not quite certain why I'm doing it because I feel like I'm not really saying anything new
I'm not saying anything no one's heard before I'm just
Kind of sharing what I've experienced maybe that might be new but
I'm happy that I was I'm doing this show and I
Was able to break through that. So I still get nervous every single time. I
still I
don't think there's a
week or day that goes by that I I
Say I don't want to do it or I want to do this. Why am I doing this? You know the brain?
but
And I was very fortunate to have had
people come in my path to
guide me to this and
to support me with with doing this they will never be forgotten and
So here I am do I really
100% no I'm doing this no, I what I guess we'll find out I guess we'll find out
so
Let me see here
when
Yeah, that's I think that that could be a
wrapped
for now and
I
Unless let me see here. Let me check something here
Yeah, I think I'm going to wrap it up I could talk forever
however
I
Feel that's that that should do it for now so
I
With that if anyone wants to call in I'm not sure but I think we'll wrap it up for now. I so so appreciate
anyone listening and
I will be here with you again in two weeks if you want to
Come and join me and co-host with me. I'm open to that. I believe Mary will be back next time
But for now
Thank you, and this is charm signing off have a beautiful beautiful day everyone. Thank you