Breaking the Pattern: NLP, Subconscious Reprogramming, Money Beliefs, and Radical Self-Responsibility

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Speaker 1 – Prerecorded Theme / Promo Voice
The opening and closing lyrical material is separate from the live discussion and presents recurring themes about changing the mind, purpose, service, self-transformation, abundance, and living by design.

Speaker 2 – Host
The host welcomes listeners to the program, introduces guest Devin Wilson, conducts the interview, and then delivers the long-form teaching on subconscious programming, money beliefs, relationships, personal responsibility, thought patterns, and self-transformation. The host’s personal name is not clearly stated in the transcript, so no identity has been assigned from outside information.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson
The host introduces the guest by name as Devin Wilson. Wilson describes himself as an NLP enthusiast, certified hypnotherapist, and longtime student of personal-development material. He discusses his youth, juvenile detention, prison, reading, Tony Robbins, NLP, hypnosis, subconscious reprogramming, and his contact information.

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Your life counts.
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What lives within you is greater
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I woke up tired of the circle,
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Bring your faith.
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Bring your purpose to the fire.

Sudden I Impact.
Feel the moment when the light breaks through.
Sudden I Impact.
See the greater possibility in you.

Believe it.
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Then rise and do the work.
Turn your passion into purpose.
Put your purpose in the world.

Your life counts.
Your voice matters.
Let the sleeping giant rise.
Sudden I Impact.
Change your mind
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Sudden I Impact.
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See the greater possibility in you.

Believe it, think it, speak it,
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Turn your passion into purpose.
Put your purpose in the world.

Your life counts.
Your gifts matter.
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Until next time, keep walking by faith.
Sudden I Impact.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Welcome to the Sudden I Impact Show.

We’ve got a treat for you today.

We’re going to be continuing down the lane of non-beneficial and non-serving patterns that need to be interrupted.

But for the first portion of the show, I have a treat for you guys.

I have a special guest. His name is Devin Wilson.

He is an NLP enthusiast, and he’s a hypnotist.

Welcome to the show, Devin. How are you doing?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

All right. How are you doing, bro?

Speaker 2 – Host:

Good. Glad to have you.

I want to bring you in front of my audience and give you the opportunity to showcase some of your gifts.

First thing I want to do is ask: how can anyone who hears this get in touch with you if they want to find out more about you, your services, and your products?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

They can reach me first on my website at NLPUnlock.com.

That’s N as in Nancy, L as in Larry, P as in Paul, unlock dot com.

That’s where you can reach me.

Also, my social media is Instagram: upgrade_memory.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Okay. You want to give them a good email address?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Yeah. They can reach me at DevinJohnWilson@gmail.com.

Those are pretty much the ways you can get in contact with me.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Wonderful. Wonderful.

Definitely glad to have you because I always want to pay it forward.

Anyone I run into who has the type of energy and hunger I had when I first started, I definitely want to bless that game.

So tell us a little bit about yourself and what brought you into this work.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

It’s kind of funny because, like most people who are into this type of information, you always kind of had a gift.

You know what I’m saying?

Your whole life, you go through life and start developing it, observing it instead of just deeming it crazy.

You kind of go down the rabbit hole trying to understand it.

If I really get down to the nuts and bolts of my journey, one of the most memorable moments was when I was in juvenile hall and read my first book.

I was 16 years old.

The first book I ever really read outside of school was Gerald’s Game by Stephen King.

I was so excited that I had read a book.

I had been so busy in the streets. I was a very at-risk youth growing up.

To sit down and actually read a book did something to me.

After that, I couldn’t stop reading.

The next book I came in contact with—and I really credit this with changing the rest of my life—was The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

I’m 37 now. I read that book when I was 16, and I’m still seeing how it shifted me.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Hello?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Yeah?

Speaker 2 – Host:

Can you hear me?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Yeah, I can.

That book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, really sent me down a rabbit hole that I believe influenced the trajectory of the rest of my life.

Honestly.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Amazing. Amazing.

Why don’t you go ahead and dive into NLP?

I know you’re really into NLP.

I was too when I first got a hold of this material.

I don’t remember exactly what the manual was, but it was thick, back around ’95.

Go ahead and dive into that a little bit.

This guy is juiced up about NLP, man. He has enthusiasm about it.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

To be honest with you, like I said, the teacher appears when the student is ready.

First, I got a hold of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People when I was 16 years old.

I was headed toward doing time as a juvenile.

Like I said, I was very at risk.

That book, I feel, saved my life because it allowed me to understand myself in a way I would not have been able to be honest with myself at that time.

The honesty in that book was shifting me.

But, like most people in my environment, I still had more learning to do.

Later, after I got out, I got in trouble again.

This time, I went to prison.

When I got to prison, I read Tony Robbins’s Unlimited Power.

I was 21 at the time.

That was the missing piece that allowed me to exit the streets and exit the street mentality.

At that time, my brother had died.

I had lost many of my peers.

A lot of my life, at 21, had hit rock bottom.

I knew a lot based on The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

That book had helped me understand goals, choices, and what I thought of as manifestation.

I had learned that I could get what I wanted.

But it was followed by a crash.

It was followed by the death of my brother.

When I was 21, I really started searching my soul.

I was asking, “Okay, what is this thing? Whatever this is, what is it? I want to understand it, and I want to learn more about it.”

I went through a very confusing period of time.

Then, when I got a hold of Unlimited Power, it was right on time.

The message was that your mind can help create your reality.

Tony Robbins sent me down another long rabbit hole.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Nice. Nice.

The point is that you’ve been grasping concepts that gave you confidence and the wherewithal to navigate the challenges life presented—or the challenges you put in front of yourself, depending on how you view it.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Yeah.

When I first got introduced to it, I just wanted to understand it.

The concept got my attention.

Like I tell people, I’m a Gemini.

You can’t put me next to information because if you put me next to information, I have to decipher it.

If you put rocket science in front of me, after a while I’m going to try to understand it.

So when I was introduced to the concept, I said, “Okay, yeah, this is something I’m probably going to go to the end of the Earth trying to figure out—how it works and how to use it.”

I feel like that’s kind of where I am now.

But then I look back and think, “Damn, that was a deep, deep rabbit hole to go down.”

I can say the tools and techniques worked for me.

They were life-changing in the situations and scenarios I had to navigate.

Does that make sense?

Speaker 2 – Host:

Yes.

That’s pretty funny because you’re not going to believe this.

I’m a Gemini.

What’s your birthday?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

June 6th.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Mine is June 2nd.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Wow. Nice, nice, nice.

Speaker 2 – Host:

So you are also a hypnotist, right?

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Yeah. I’m a certified hypnotherapist.

I took NLP training, and when you take that kind of NLP training, they also certify you in hypnotherapy.

A lot of people have to understand that hypnotherapy and NLP can run hand in hand because hypnosis puts you in a state where you can work with subconscious programming.

Then NLP gives you techniques for changing patterns, changing modalities, and working toward the change you’re looking for.

Speaker 2 – Host:

I’d like you to dive a little deeper into that.

Tell them about the two times when we’re in a state where we may be able to positively or favorably impact the subconscious mind through reprogramming.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

I try to break it down in layman’s terms.

It took me years to understand the complexity.

I try to put it in a way people can understand, use, and get results from.

If I put it in simple terms, it’s like this:

You have to become still enough to pay attention to the things you normally don’t pay attention to.

Does that make sense?

Speaker 2 – Host:

Yes, sir.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Once you’re still enough to pay attention to the things you’re not normally paying attention to, with intention, you can begin to shift those things.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Yes.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

When you shift those things with repetition, it can begin to shift the results you’re getting in your reality.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Exactly.

The two times I’m referring to, audience, are two times when I believe you can make a positive impact on the subconscious.

Like Devin said, it takes repetition, emotionalization, and doing it with intention, on purpose and deliberately.

One time is right before you fall asleep, when you’re in that drowsy state and starting to drift off.

The other, depending on who you listen to, is during the first few minutes after you wake up.

Some people say five minutes. Some say 15 minutes. Some say half an hour.

I don’t think everyone is exactly the same.

But when you first open your eyes, before you go fully into autopilot and your automatic programming, during that time you can suggest things to yourself.

When it comes from yourself, it’s called autosuggestion.

When it comes from outside of you, it can be called heterosuggestion.

The point is that these are two windows where you can speak something to yourself silently or out loud and, through repetition, begin to impress it on the subconscious mind.

Passing it back to you, Devin.

Speaker 3 – Guest, Devin Wilson:

Yeah, no, I’m listening to you.

That’s a good way to express it because that is how I understand it too.

I’m piggybacking off you right now.

Speaker 2 – Host:

Hope everybody’s doing wonderful out there.

We’re continuing down the lane of this title: Non-Beneficial and Non-Serving Patterns to Be Interrupted, Part Two.

I always like to recommend books when I remember while I’m on the show.

When you’re coming into this type of inner work and expression, sometimes you need guidance or reassurance.

These are some books I consider must-reads.

I’ve read more than 2,300 books, and I’ve read Think and Grow Rich more than 400 times.

So I’ve put in quite a bit of time, and I know what I’m talking about from my own study.

These books will help you, especially if you’re a novice coming into this work and you’ve been through some dark nights of the soul.

Maybe you are in a process of awakening, or in another stage of awakening.

I highly recommend these books:

The original Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz.

The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard.

The Heavenly Life and As a Man Thinketh by James Allen.

The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles.

The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy.

And the original Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

I’m calling this part Phase Three, my junior campaign.

Originally, it was the Sudden I Impact Show.

Then it was the sophomore project.

Now I’m calling this my junior campaign because I’m wiser, much more versed, and have even more experience.

I bring roughly 30 years of corporate experience to the table, plus years of doing the work myself and coaching since 2015.

All right.

What I’ve broken it down to is mindset and money mindset.

So I’m talking all things relationship, money, and abundance.

Why?

Because everything is a relationship.

Before I go into the content, I want to give you an example of how we’re often not paying attention to what we’re paying attention to.

Most people are always in a rush.

They need money, so they go to the ATM.

Or they rush inside somewhere to cash a check.

Here’s where “everything is relationship” comes in.

My advice is: don’t always go to the ATM.

Carve out time to go to a representative of the bank.

Why?

Because you can build a relationship with a bank representative.

They may have relationships with people in underwriting.

So when you need a credit card, personal loan, car loan, or mortgage, that person may be able to say, “I know this customer. They come in regularly. I deal with them every Friday, every other payday, or every Monday and Friday.”

You can’t build a relationship with an ATM.

You can build a relationship with a person.

This is where we have to start paying attention to what we’re paying attention to.

We can’t continue to do things haphazardly.

The world has changed.

Everything is about relationships.

To the degree that you can establish relationships, I believe that can influence your success.

You don’t have to believe me.

Test it.

Experiment.

I always tell people: never believe me just because I said it.

Take the information, test it, and experiment with it to see if it’s true or if it can become useful in your life.

Now let’s segue into this.

We’re talking about relationships.

The main relationship I’m pointing to is the relationship with yourself.

We berate ourselves.

We criticize ourselves.

We’re down on ourselves all the time.

We often do more damage to ourselves than anyone else could do to us.

We’ve got to stop this so we can begin to open our eyes and look through the lenses and filters we truly need to use, so we can mold or align our lives.

Everything is malleable.

We can align with the life we truly want instead of playing victim and thinking we have no say in what happens to us.

I don’t accept that.

I’m talking about radical ownership, radical responsibility, and radical accountability to self.

This goes deep.

It starts with doing what you say you’re going to do.

If you don’t believe yourself, other people will have a hard time believing you.

If you say you’re going to get up and go to the gym Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 7:00 a.m., then by all means—hell or high water—you’ve got to get up and go to the gym at 7:00 a.m. on Monday, 7:00 a.m. on Wednesday, and 7:00 a.m. on Friday.

Are y’all picking up what I’m putting down?

Your relationship with yourself begins with self-trust and believability.

Believe what you say.

Act on what you say.

Remember, Scripture says, “Faith without works is dead.”

I’m not even speaking about that only from a religious standpoint.

Look at the information metaphysically.

Your word matters.

In some Hermetic teachings, mind and speech are treated as powerful creative faculties.

Your speech reflects the image you hold in mind of yourself and your reality.

As you go deeper into this, you begin to see that how you feel about yourself, what you think about yourself, what you believe about yourself at the core level—at what I call the spirit level—you’re expressing it all the time.

Now we’re talking money.

We’re talking environment.

We’re talking associations.

And we’re talking speech.

When you say, “I never have any money,” “I can’t afford it,” or “That costs too much,” that reflects the image you hold of yourself in mind.

You are speaking from lack.

You are speaking from scarcity.

You may be speaking from money trauma.

Those labels can reinforce more of the same experiences.

John 1:1 talks about “In the beginning was the Word.”

You’ve got to go look at that.

Meditate on it silently.

Turn it over.

Mutter it.

Ponder it.

Turn it over until some light comes in and shines on the darkness you’ve been in.

Nothing changes unless something changes.

Nothing changes unless something changes.

Nothing changes unless something changes.

And the thing that has to change is you.

Change yourself by changing your inner conversation, inner monologue, inner dialogue, and self-concept.

Unless you do this, the image in mind—the picture you have of yourself—cannot change.

We talked about those states when you first wake up and when you’re dropping off to sleep.

As soon as you wake up, you typically go back to being the same old you.

Scripture talks about taking off the old man and putting on the new man.

Metaphysically, I look at that as taking off the old conversation that equals the old image you have of yourself.

Who do you think you are?

Who do you believe you are?

Who do you feel you are?

Who are you perceiving yourself to be?

Change your words and you can begin to change your world.

Change your words and you can begin to change your world.

Change your words and you can begin to change your world.

Speech is image in mind.

If you begin to ask, “How can I afford that?”

Or if you begin to make declarations like, “I’ll be back to get that,” or “Somehow, some way, I can obtain that,” you begin to use your power in your favor instead of using your power against yourself.

We’re talking thought dynamics.

We’re talking emotion mitigation and emotional management.

Your emotions, in my teaching, play a major role in the reality you experience.

The subconscious mind is deeply connected, in my view, with emotionalized thinking.

Whatever you are consistently thinking and feeling is happening automatically.

So we’re going to look at thought viruses and belief viruses.

We’re going to look at thought dynamics.

A lot of what we call “our thoughts” didn’t begin with us.

Thoughts arise in awareness, but we also inherit ways of thinking from parents and family.

A lot of y’all don’t even realize that you may be carrying your maternal grandparents’ beliefs and your paternal grandparents’ beliefs.

You may be carrying your parents’ beliefs.

Don’t take my word for it.

Test it.

I call these thought viruses and belief viruses.

There may be 140 or 150 different stories running in the background that keep people from expressing money and abundance.

You may already believe abundance exists, but you can’t express it because you believe these stories.

You think the story is a concrete wall.

You think it is a brick wall that can’t be dissolved.

Why?

Because that is how Mom and Dad thought.

That is how Mom and Dad behaved around money.

We’re talking associations.

We’re talking environment.

And we’re talking speech.

Speech is image in mind.

Everybody has heard, “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”

What does that communicate?

It suggests lack.

Everybody has been to a mall at least once.

How can 400 or 500 people who have no physical connection to one another all be in the same mall—some eating, some shopping, everybody exchanging value and money?

How can there be an absolute shortage of money when money is being exchanged all around you?

What I’m saying is that a sense of shortage can be intensified by stories and the emotions behind the stories:

“Money doesn’t grow on trees.”

“Money is scarce.”

“There’s not enough to go around.”

“Money is the root of all evil.”

That last one twists the biblical wording about the love of money.

Then you hear:

“Money is a false god.”

“Money is a big sin.”

“You shouldn’t go after money because if you have money, you’re going to burn in hell.”

Here’s what’s funny.

People say they want more money, but then say money is evil.

If money is evil, why are hundreds of people getting on the highway Monday through Friday at 7:00 a.m. to go to a building, clock in, and make money?

How is money inherently evil if virtually everything in modern society costs something?

The apartment, townhouse, condo, house, Airbnb—habitation costs.

Running the habitation costs.

Water.

Electricity.

Internet.

Food and drink.

Clothing and accessories.

If you have kids, they need clothing, shoes, food, water, drinks, and all the rest.

All of that costs money.

If money is a necessary resource everyone needs in some measure, how can the resource itself automatically be evil?

I’m telling you that illusions are created because of stories and the intentions and emotions behind those stories.

I believe we have been programmed, deliberately or otherwise, to fear money, dislike money, and misunderstand our relationship with money.

Everything is relationship.

We’ve been taught money is dangerous.

We’ve been taught money is bad.

We’ve been taught it’s wrong to have money.

That confusion and chaos can hold you back from having a healthy relationship with money.

And here is one of my highest revelations: you are money.

I’m saying the value and energy you’re looking for are not completely separate from you.

It has been hidden in plain sight.

Let’s continue down this line.

You think you want money, but honestly, part of you may fear money because you have associated money with problems.

You may have associated money with arguments.

You may have associated money with difficult situations you watched between birth and age seven.

You may associate money with breakups or divorce.

So when you think about money, painful pictures—what you may call traumas—come into your head.

You feel the emotions somewhere in your body.

Now you’re confused about money.

You’re in chaos about money.

You’re discombobulated about money.

You’re saying, “I want money,” while also trying to avoid pain, and you have equated pain with money.

Then, in your experience, it feels like money is running from you.

You may have to listen to this three or four times to really get what I’m saying.

Listen to it over and over.

Once you get it, you’ve got it.

The shift doesn’t begin only when the money arrives.

The shift begins when you get the understanding, integrate it, implement it, appropriate it, and demonstrate it.

There’s a song by the R&B group Blackstreet called “Money Can’t Buy Me Love.”

If you know the group, go play the song and listen to it.

Remember, societal hypnotic programming is part of what I’m talking about.

I also talk about programming from school systems, churches, family, and culture.

But I’m here to remove excuses and take you out of victim mode because it is free to think.

It is free to feel.

It is free to choose.

You can think what you want to think.

You can believe what you want to believe.

You can feel what you want to feel.

You can choose the habits and behaviors you want to practice.

You don’t have to let anybody force a belief on you.

Listen to what you listen to.

Listen to what you’re listening to.

Pay attention to what you’re hearing.

We’re trying to bridge knowing, being, and doing.

In the song, there is a phrase like, “I don’t care too much for money because money can’t buy me love.”

If you repeat a thought like that in your head enough times, you may begin to internalize the idea that you don’t want money.

Meanwhile, your rent is due.

Your electric bill is due.

Your water bill is due.

Your car payment is due.

Your car insurance is due.

Your internet bill is due.

You can’t afford to have an unconscious relationship with money.

These stories can play in the background as thought viruses and belief viruses.

They can trip you up and keep you stuck.

At every now moment, you are either stuck in an old pattern or free to choose another response.

The only time you can act is now.

The time you have to make a new decision about money is now.

You can’t live only in next Friday or 30 days from now.

That is how people remain stuck.

If you want to get somewhere different, just like using GPS, Uber, or Lyft, you need to put in a new address.

The new address is your new decision.

Whatever you require, you begin by dealing with it now.

But you’re not going to bring a new result from what I call the 4D into the 3D if you continually play the same old stories:

“Money can’t buy you love.”

“Money doesn’t bring happiness.”

“More money means more problems.”

“Money can only come from a job.”

Let me pause right there.

Can you be gifted money?

Yes.

Can you find money?

Yes.

Can you receive an inheritance?

Yes.

So money cannot only come from a job.

That belief is incomplete.

You may believe it as if it is the only way, but life contains more possibilities.

Nothing is cast in stone psychologically.

Thoughts and beliefs can change.

If you repeat a thought long enough and emotionalize it, thought invokes emotion.

You begin to feel a certain way.

Repeated thoughts can become beliefs.

Then you repeat the thought and repeat the belief, and you wonder why the same experiences keep showing up.

I’m trying to teach you how to reverse the process that gives you results you don’t want and begin practicing a process aimed at results you do want.

Reverse-engineer the process.

What happened unconsciously can become conscious.

Become aware.

Become the watcher.

Become the watchman at the gate.

Stop being mentally slack.

There are teachings in Proverbs about laziness and poverty.

You can change the trajectory of your life by changing what you continually identify with.

You’ve got false narratives, belief viruses, negative dynamics, and negative stories playing in the background.

They can trick you out of your spot.

Let’s continue.

“Money is evil.”

“Money is a big sin.”

“It is wrong to have money.”

“Money is a false god.”

“Money is hard to come by.”

“Money is difficult to keep.”

I’m just hitting a few of them.

There may be 140 or 150 of these stories playing in the background, passed through family and culture—from grandparents, parents, siblings, relatives, and other influences.

Then there are deeper stories:

“It’s disrespectful to your parents or siblings if you out-earn them.”

“If you become successful, you’ll be an outcast.”

“You’ll become the black sheep of the family.”

“If you earn more money, you’ll have to pay the government more.”

“If you earn more money, everybody in the family will expect you to pay their expenses.”

All of that, when you really sit with it in your body, is fear-based.

Fear of judgment.

Fear of criticism.

Fear of being ridiculed.

Everybody wants to fit in and be the same because they don’t want to be called out.

I don’t want to be broke.

I remember when I was about four years old.

This is a true story.

I said, “God, if I’ve got to live like this—if I came here and I’m living like this—what’s the purpose of me living?”

I asked that out loud as a four-year-old, growing up in very humble beginnings.

My mom had me when she was 15.

Here’s something I’ve come to believe:

The problem you keep running into may be part of your destiny.

That may be the solution you’re supposed to provide.

That may be the answer you’re supposed to provide.

That may be the problem you’re here to solve.

Just like checkers or chess, what you keep bumping up against in your family dynamics may be the puzzle you were chosen to solve.

You are the one who gets to solve that puzzle.

If it’s relationships and you always seem to have a hard time with relationships, that may be one of the areas you’re supposed to conquer.

If it’s career and you almost get the promotion, then oversleep and miss the interview, that pattern is something you have to solve.

If it’s money and you’re always living paycheck to paycheck, always saying, “There’s never enough,” that may be the thing you’re here to transform in your family lineage.

Provide the answer.

Provide the solution.

Conquer that pattern.

If you continue running away from it because you just want to fit in, then you can buy a little Mercedes-Benz, a little BMW, or a Range Rover and think you’ve accomplished something.

But maybe you’re capable of much more.

Maybe you should have ten Range Rovers, five Mercedes-Benz vehicles, BMWs, Audis—whatever you actually desire.

There is a biblical teaching about delighting yourself in the Lord and receiving the desires of your heart.

Metaphysically, I also think of delighting yourself in consciousness and awareness.

But if you try to fit in when you are one of one, you can stay trapped in the forces of average.

You stay tapped into what people call “the matrix.”

I’m removing excuses because it is free to think, free to feel, free to believe, and free to act.

Every single person—from Michael Jordan to Denzel Washington to Taylor Swift and whoever else you admire—is working with thinking, feeling, and action.

Everybody.

No one is exempt.

This is why I’m presenting the information.

You have surface stories and underlying stories.

Maybe, if you believe in past-life regression, you think something from another life affects the way you relate to money.

Maybe you imagine that in another life you had money and somebody got harmed or kidnapped for ransom.

That could become part of a spiritual story about why you say you want money while unconsciously fearing it.

My point is: you may not have learned yourself deeply enough to know what is blocking you from receiving what you say you want.

I already gave you my highest revelation:

You are money.

So why aren’t you able to express the money you desire to express when you desire to express it?

I say it is connected with meanings, definitions, stories, and narratives.

Something invisible is causing the visible.

Something invisible is causing the visible.

Something invisible is causing the visible.

To be is free.

You can choose who you want to be right now.

To assume is free.

You can assume in your favor right now.

To believe is free.

You can believe what you want about yourself, your world, and your reality right here and now.

In my teaching, imagination is the only reality.

Imagination is the only reality.

Imagination is the only reality.

Nobody is forcing every thought upon you.

You’re accepting certain ideas and putting yourself in agreement with them.

That’s why, in my framework, your experience happens for you, through you, and as you.

You can feel how you want to feel.

You can express how you want to express right now.

Nobody is stopping you internally from choosing a new response.

I want to go to something Jesus said, in substance, about no one having power unless it is given from heaven.

You’ve got to ponder that.

Sit with it.

Turn it over.

Turn it over until you get it.

Nothing changes for you until you get light on it.

Regardless of the topic, I believe the underlying process works similarly.

Career.

Health.

Relationships.

Money and abundance.

If you’re struggling in those buckets—relationships, finances, career, health—and you are willing to do the inner work, I invite you to reach out to me through BBS Radio or through my email.

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If you’re struggling with money, or going in and out of difficulty with your specific person or significant other, I can show you step by step how I think the issue has to come back to self.

You have to become the version of yourself who matches the relationship you say you want.

If you’re not that version, you can’t expect the other person to become the version you want while you remain unchanged.

You can’t be lazy and think somebody else is going to do everything for you.

People often show up in ways that mirror how you show up.

All of life, in my teaching, is a mirror.

Every person you meet is reflecting something back to you.

What is going on inside?

I’m going to say it a lot.

I’m going to be repetitive.

I’m going to be redundant.

Everything is a mirror.

Everything is reflecting back to you what is going on within you.

Every person.

Every place.

Everything.

Nothing is random in the framework I’m teaching.

Everything happening to you can become a mirror reflecting what is going on within you.

So nothing changes unless something changes.

Nothing changes unless something changes.

Nothing changes unless something changes.

The thing that must change is you.

If you don’t change, nothing changes.

You’ve got to change your relationship with yourself.

Change your relationship with your thoughts.

Change your relationship with your beliefs.

Change your relationship with your emotions and feelings.

Change your relationship with your perception.

What you see sees you.

What you see sees you.

What you see sees you.

Now I also want to talk about what people call the reptilian brain.

In the simplified model I’m using, that survival-oriented part of the brain is not trying to make you rich or fulfilled.

It is trying to keep you alive.

Food.

Water.

Reproduction.

Survival.

Here’s an example.

Getting more money may benefit you.

It may make it easier to meet your expenses.

But your brain may treat an unfamiliar financial level as an unknown.

It may interpret the unknown as a threat.

That is why people can feel psychologically “safer” struggling with what is familiar than having an extra $1,800 in the bank that represents a new identity or unfamiliar condition.

I know it sounds strange.

It doesn’t seem to make sense, but it can explain self-sabotage.

So you have to learn how to work with your mind instead of only reacting from the amygdala and fear responses.

You want to engage your prefrontal cortex, your RAS—your reticular activating system—and other parts of the brain involved in attention, planning, and self-regulation.

Get the machine moving in the same direction.

Then your life can begin to flow.

Your life can begin to flow.

Your life can begin to flow.

I believe more than 95 percent of people struggle with money because of societal programming, conditioning, and unconscious patterns.

If you don’t go into your subconscious mind, it is not only about learning.

A lot of it is about unlearning.

If you don’t take time to reprogram your subconscious patterns, you may continue repeating the same results.

That’s the way I believe it works.

Right here, right now, I teach that you are everything and you already contain what you need.

You are reality.

The reason you may not see it is because you are looking through the wrong lens or filter.

I believe heaven is inside you, outside you, and around you.

I believe you have an energy field.

Most people don’t even think about an invisible field around them or the symbolic colors people associate with energy.

Because you may not know how to work with your mind and attention, you can give your power away and let it be used against you.

That is why I come to enlighten—to shine light on darkness.

Whatever you’re struggling with, I believe you’re struggling partly because you don’t know enough yet or you’re not applying what you know continuously, consistently, and constantly until you see the fruit you want.

Everything is about repetition.

You’re already on autopilot through repetition.

You wake up around the same time.

Get dressed in similar ways.

Drive familiar routes.

Work familiar routines.

Much of life becomes automatic.

If you don’t interrupt non-beneficial and non-serving patterns that need to be interrupted, you stay in trouble.

I’m trying to get you to dial in.

Everything is about relationship.

But the most important relationship is your relationship with yourself.

All the people-pleasing, looking for external validation, and asking for permission—that’s not going to work forever.

You’re not in third grade waiting for your parents to sign a permission slip.

You are the permission slip.

You have to validate yourself.

You have to approve yourself.

You have to learn to love yourself.

And I’m going to tell you something else.

Guilt and shame can block your relationship with money.

Guilt and shame can block money.

Guilt and shame can block money.

Really listen to what I’m saying in these next couple of minutes.

Zone in.

Tap in.

Tune in.

Environment matters.

You’re saying all these negative narratives and negative stories about money.

In my framework, money is energy that comes into form.

Money is energy that comes into form.

Money is energy that comes into form.

If you are continually saying polluted things about it, why would you expect to have a peaceful relationship with it?

Some people hide money in shoeboxes, hide money under mattresses, bury it in the backyard, or hoard it from fear.

What message are you sending to yourself?

In my spiritual framework, what message are you sending to the universe?

You’re still telling a story of lack, scarcity, and not enough.

So I want to talk environment.

A lot of people who struggle financially shop in the same kinds of places:

Dollar General.

Family Dollar.

Aldi.

99 Cent Store.

Dollar Tree.

Walmart.

I’m not saying those stores are inherently bad.

I’m talking about the meaning you attach to the environment.

When you go into an environment, you experience a certain psychological and emotional frequency.

What are you telling yourself?

Are you telling yourself, “This is the best I can ever do”?

Are you reinforcing an identity of barely enough?

If you do not change mentally—because “all is mental” is a central Hermetic idea—you can stay stuck in the forces of average.

Go read The Kybalion if that philosophy interests you.

You may not be able to break out, elevate, or grow unless you become the watcher and observer.

None of this is necessarily complicated.

It is simple, but it is not easy because we can be mentally lazy.

We don’t always want to become the watcher.

We don’t want to become the observer.

We don’t want to be the watchman at the gate and correct ourselves.

But unless we do this, we don’t become better, greater, or more aligned with our best version.

Find your favorite celebrity.

Part of the reason you like them may be because you recognize qualities in them that you also sense in yourself.

But then you still have to do the work to become your best version.

I think it was Jim Rohn who taught something to the effect that if you worked harder on yourself than you worked on your job, eventually you might become someone who provides jobs instead of only needing one.

Think about that.

We can become so loyal to companies that may not care deeply about us.

Why not become loyal to yourself?

Come back to yourself.

Recognize who you are.

Tap into who you are.

Tune into who you are.

Remember, your brain is a projecting machine, and one of the main databases it uses is your past.

But your past does not equal your future.

You may be living under the illusion that your past equals your future.

Nothing changes unless something changes.

You have to declutter your thinking.

Philippians 4:8 tells you to think on things that are true and of good report, among other qualities.

Think on things that serve your highest good.

A house divided against itself cannot stand.

A lot of y’all are not even on your own side.

How can you expect to be successful or great when you are using your own power against yourself?

Nobody else can finally validate you for you.

Nobody else can finally approve you for you.

Nobody else can give you the inner permission only you can give yourself.

You say you have free will.

You say you’re sovereign.

Then don’t act like you have no agency.

Get out of victim mode.

Start doing things for yourself.

Get out of victim mode.

Start doing things for yourself.

This is the part I like because I’m a repetitious teacher.

This stuff is basic.

I teach it in a way I believe even a five- to seven-year-old can understand.

A child can get the basic idea, apply it to a goal, and imagine receiving a gaming system, an iPhone, or money from a parent.

I’m telling you: what you think about, you bring about.

What you think about, you bring about.

Thoughts are always arising.

Some may feel like yours.

Many may come from conditioning, memory, family, media, and environment.

But you have the choice whether to identify with a thought.

You don’t have to accept every thought.

You do not have to accept every thought.

If you accept a thought fully, I describe it as an all-inclusive package, like an Airbnb.

You don’t have to separately ask for the bed, pillow, refrigerator, stove, and towels.

They come as part of the package.

So when you accept a thought, make sure it’s a thought you want to feed because, in my framework, it brings associated feelings, expectations, and behaviors with it.

It’s a package deal.

What you consistently think upon grows and expands in your experience.

What you consistently think upon can become part of your experienced reality.

Thoughts are things, metaphorically speaking.

First you have them, and then, if you continually feed them, they can begin to have you.

Any teacher, coach, or mentor telling you that you never have to deal with your thoughts is leaving out an important part of the work.

Every person on the planet works with thoughts, feelings, and actions.

Tony Robbins.

Les Brown.

Eric Thomas.

Michael Jordan.

Luka Dončić.

Whoever the best football player is.

Everybody is working with thoughts, feelings, and actions.

There aren’t “special people” who are exempt from that.

Some people do things unconsciously.

Michael Jordan, for example, reached extraordinary levels of success but may not have been able to transfer every part of that process directly to his children.

LeBron James may have approached development somewhat differently with his son.

My point is not to judge either one.

My point is that everybody is working with thoughts, feelings, and actions.

There is more to life, of course, but that is the meat of this teaching.

James Allen wrote extensively about thought.

One of the ideas I take from his work is that mind and thought can become tools through which a person produces joys or ills in life.

You think in secret, and eventually the patterns show up in your environment.

That’s the point.

The thoughts you identify with consistently, continuously, and constantly become evidence in your life.

Poverty thinking can contribute to a poverty-patterned life.

No one gets completely away from the responsibility to examine what they repeatedly think.

You cannot consistently become somebody you cannot even imagine or think on the level of.

You can’t become somebody you cannot think on the level of.

This is powerful stuff, but it’s basic.

Simple, but not easy.

Simple, but not easy.

Ralph Waldo Emerson is often quoted as saying, “A man is what he thinks about all day long.”

There are also teachings attributed to Buddha about becoming the sum total of one’s thoughts.

The common point is that thinking and feeling shape the way we experience and respond to reality.

So what are you thinking and feeling about in your relationships?

What are you thinking and feeling about in your career?

What are you thinking and feeling about in your health?

What are you thinking and feeling about in finance?

Everything, in my teaching, is a mirror reflecting back what you hold to be true.

It reflects back what you hold to be true.

The great teachers of personal development repeatedly emphasize thinking.

There is a quote I’ve heard: “Thinking is the highest function that a man or woman is capable of.”

I need the exact attribution verified, but the principle is important to me.

Think about Henry Ford and the Ford Motor Company.

There were people who told him certain things couldn’t be built or done.

He told people to keep working until it got done.

And the quote associated with Henry Ford is:

“Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, either way, you’re right.”

If you think you can do something, you tend to act from that belief.

If you think you can’t, you tend to act from that belief too.

It doesn’t get better than this.

As we draw to a close, I’m going to leave you with this:

Your life counts.

Your gifts matter.

What lives within you is greater than the limits you were taught to see.

This is Sudden I Impact.

Speaker 1 – Prerecorded Closing Theme / Promo Voice:

I woke up tired of the circle,
the same roads, same fear, same view.
Then a voice said, “Become the observer.
There is more inside of you.”

So I turned and faced the mirror.
Let the old conclusions fall.
Found a dream beneath the noise
that had been waiting through it all.

I am not the doubt that found me.
I am not yesterday’s design.
I can choose a higher picture.
I can train this heart of mine.

Every thought becomes a choice.
Every word can plant a seed.
When the vision meets decision,
that is where the future leads.