Speaker Identification

Speaker 1 - Announcer / Prerecorded Intro Voice. Identified by the formal program introduction and Forever Family Foundation station language.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host. Identified when the guest addresses him as Roman and through his role introducing the guest, reading listener questions, taking calls, and closing the program.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest. Identified from the episode title, the host’s introduction, and her first-person discussion of mediumship, Iceland, health, and her professional work.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller. Identified by the host as a caller from Massachusetts who asks about her deceased cat.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller. Identified by the host as a caller from Florida who asks whether a controlling or competitive personality continues after death.

Speaker 6 - Mayumi, Caller. Identified by the host as a caller from California who asks about a spider and perceived energy loss.

Speaker 7 - Heather, Caller. Identified as a caller from Pennsylvania who comments on a healing reading received with Jason at a grief retreat.

Speaker 1 - Announcer / Prerecorded Intro Voice: Welcome to Signs of Life, Exploring Survival of Consciousness, brought to you by Forever Family Foundation on the web at foreverfamilyfoundation.org.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Hello everybody! Good evening. Welcome to Signs of Life, Radio's Medium Insights. We get to explore the mindsets of many accomplished mediums, and tonight is one of my favorite mediums ever, Sirry Berndsen, a certified medium with Forever Family Foundation. She's been blessed with a gift of mediumship through her whole life, and since childhood, She's recognized her remarkable, clairvoyant empathy, vivid dreams, and she, you know, She embraced her abilities and uses her gift to heal and comfort those that needed the most. Her extensive study of mediumship, consciousness and meditation includes, you know, Many prestigious schools such as the Arthur Findlay College in the United Kingdom,

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: As well as the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York, and Sirryple De Center Yoga and Health. She's also a certified grief recovery specialist. Her website is www.spiritoflight.com. Okay, just one word, spiritoflight.com, and tonight's show, as always, commercial-free, And we are doing this show to, you know, to get into the mind of Sirry. She's not going to be doing any readings tonight, but we're going to, you know, We're going to find out a little bit more about, you know, how she does what she does And all other kinds of interesting things. So if you have any questions for our esteemed guest, who I love so much, feel free to call 1-888-627-6008.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: No readings, but if you have any questions pertaining to mediumship, please call. All right, with all that said, Sirry, welcome to the show.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Thank you so much, Roman, and do you mind if I correct you just a little bit?

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Please. This is a call. Yeah, it's the website. It's Spirit of Light.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Oh, you know what? I have a spot wrong. Spirit. Spirit of Light.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: That's okay. You're not the first one. I've been on a radio show before, and something is said. It's spiritoflight.com. Okay. That's great. And I started with this website over 25 years ago simply because nobody could remember my name. And then I thought people were, for sure, they would remember the website. But once they meet you, they will never, ever forget your name. That is true. That is true. Because you're a remarkable person, and I've never met anybody like you. I've got a funny story to tell you before anything else. Guess who I ran into last week. Mo. Oh, my God. I love my mom. I love my mom. Oh, I love my mom. Okay. Guess what she's.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Guess what she's she and I. Do you know what she and I are like, I know, I know. Oh, my God. He told you. Yeah. And the funny thing is, is that, you know, as you know, I lost my son many, many years ago. And then once in a while, you know, he hasn't given me very many signs lately. It usually happens at the beginning, you know, you get a lot of times. And then as you heal, the spirit feels they don't need to give you as many signs anymore. So that's the way it is. But, you know, I said, Hey, Stefan, that's my son's name. Give me a good freaking sign.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And guess what? I went, uh, scootering with my son. Went to the park, ran into Mo. And Mo helped me a lot with my grief.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Oh, my God. And I texted Moh the next day. I said, totally what happened is it like, this is a sign. It's just definitely a sign. So yeah, I'm so, I'm so blessed. I'm so happy. I met Moh and, you know, I'm so happy to have, you know, know you and all that kind of stuff, you know. That's crazy. So you're blessed. So you, so you live not too far from her.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Walking distance.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Are you serious? Yeah, I can walk to her house.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I can walk there. I can walk there. I can be at her house in like 15 minutes if I walk. Okay. Full confession. I'm a little, little and yes, not jealous. There's a difference of being a little bit envious and jealous. Jealous is not really good, but being a little bit envious is like, I wish I was there. Anyway.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Well, you know, where are you now? So currently I am in Iceland and it is, um, it is midnight. So it is, it's a new day. So it is actually July 10th where I am located. And it's kind of overcast and cloudy, like July in Iceland is like the sun is out, but because it's been overcast since I arrived. And so it's kind of like now it's kind of rainy. So it's kind of gloomy a little bit. And you know what the temperatures since you're Canadian, you would know this, the temperatures that have only been like maybe between 10 and 12 degrees in the last couple of days.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: It is about 50, 50 degrees Fahrenheit for those that are not familiar with the Celsius.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Now, is that are you guys like any, what's considered your summer months? Yeah, you're in the Northern Hemisphere. Yeah. I'm only like, I'm only five hours away from you. Airplane five hours. Yeah, five hours like flapping your wings real fast. Yeah. Hey, I love your hair. Wow. Thank you. Yeah, pretty cool. I don't have any left. So it keeps disappearing every day. More hair disappears. You know what? You know what? Four years ago, I lost almost all my hair. Why? I got sick. And so I came up. Yeah, I got very, very sick. And it just fell off. And then I had like, I lost like 90% of my hair. And I didn't, you know, I almost had no pictures taken of me. Like probably about six months or so.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Or longer than until it came back and it actually came back in my childhood caller and it came Back really thick with a big. Yeah. And so there are actually a couple of pictures of me online with my short hair when it after It all happened. But anyway, so then took me a year to recover, to recover, but I got my hair back by using Herbal remedies. Oh boy. Well, I'm glad that, you know, never mind the hair. I'm glad you're healthy. That's the most important thing.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yes. So I should say I'm on a healing journey because like I just had surgery. So the last, I would say the last three, four years, I've been on a sort of this, I would Say fairly intense healing journey, but I'm very private. But I'm sort of seeing the end of it. So it's a good thing because I just had surgery in Germany and I got out of that really well. Yeah. So I got out of that really well. And I'm one of these very strange people. I got out of the surgery. It was a three hour surgery and I did not need pain medication or anything. I know people are kind of dumbfounded by it. So I just spoke to a friend of mine.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: She once she had, once she had her kids, she, I think she had a C-section or something. She did not need any pain medication. And so I did. Yeah. So it's kind of, and she's really into this holistic living. And so in my case, I, before the surgery, I had never been in a hospital like this before. I went into a prayer and meditation and I visualized the whole entire journey and I came out Of it really well. Incredibly well.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: That's fantastic.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yes. And you are like, let me tell you, right from the start, the world is a much better place With you in it. So you stay in it. Okay. No matter what. It takes, it takes one to know one. Thank you. But it takes one to know one. Thank you. Thank you, Sirry. Thank you so much. Yes. You guys are going to be doing you and Mo are going to be doing a radio show. Tell me about a little bit. Oh my gosh. He told you everything didn't she? Yes. So, so it's full confession. I know for us as with, you know, with all the volunteers, I know that I am Tom's favorite. He confessed to it like in the, like, like one of the grief routines and because he was introducing Me and then we have Sirry, my favorite.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So I know that I'm his favorite. He is my second favorite, but then after Bob, but my favorite is Mo. She's my absolute favorite. She's like a soul sister to me. So I'm, I feel so blessed. I feel so incredibly blessed for having met all the volunteers and all the mediums that I met. It's fantastic. It's a fan, absolutely fabulous family. Mo actually introduced me to, to forever family foundation. I had no idea about it. Mo introduced me and never looked back.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Oh, wow. Yeah. It's just a loving, I mean, it's just a loving community. So anyway, I can't remember how many years ago I met Mo because I've been with the family now, Like, I don't know how many years. And I think we kind of clicked from the, like, from the get go. We just clicked. And then I'm saying the last five or six years, we really clicked. I don't know what it was. It's just the energy and like everything was changing where I was sort of in the midst of this COVID thing. And, and Mo and I were just connected and there was a time when I was having a rough time. She would always check in with me. She was so nice, like so super nice. Oh, yeah.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And so then I had this idea in my head for quite a while that I wanted to do a show. Like I want to do some sort of a podcast or something because I studied media before I got into the mediumship. I studied media and then I started art. And, and so I was sort of really wanted to do this thing. And then I thought that the perfect match to do this. So this is kind of like an idea that both Mo and I came together with. But I think initially I had approached her and I said, because I kind of knew this, He was getting to the point of retirement. And so I thought the most of the lecture would be the perfect match.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And if I ever move back to Iceland with some kind of planning on doing the next couple of years, Then at least I'm going to have my little connection with America. And maybe I'm going to be invited back to do the grief and all the stuff. So, well, I hope so because I love them. It's kind of like my favorite thing to do. So anyway, so we came together and then we've been sort of since January, We've been sort of brainstorming what to call it and all of the stuff. And so she was crazy busy while I had time and I was trying to work through things. And then she was slowing down with her semester. And so that is actually when I had my surgery.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: So we've been having a little bit of sort of like a little bit about up and down with like 20 months of the time. But we're getting to the end. We're getting to the end. No, I think it is. It's like we just had to sort of find the right time for a little like it's like little things. So we're kind of we're kind of topics. I'm going to be talking about on your show. This show is psyche, The Psyche and the Soul. And guess which part is going to be most Mos. Dr. Mo. Well, the psyche, obviously. Yes, the psychology, the psyche and the soul. Yeah. So we're going to bring it together. And so The Psyche and the Soul.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And I am hoping that we can launch it in the next month, at least in the next month. We have almost everything ready. And we just had to record a couple of things. That's great. Yeah. Mo actually said, you know, like one of the topics that we might be dealing with is like, you know, grief recovery. And even though, you know, I still am very much in grief because of my son, I've become pretty successful with stuff, you know, like just every day of life, you know, and I'm and I've found the way to move on.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And my way to move on, the thing probably they helped me the most other than, you know, Mo is, you know, helping people. And that's why I do this because I find that helping people that are in the same situation really, really helped you. And so, you know, she said, Hey, maybe you can be on the show and so I said, Hey, I would love it. I would love to come on the show. I would definitely come on the show. So, and I'm going to tell you why I would love it. So, like, I really know nothing about you now. I know that you're Canadian, you know, centigrade, son, you lost your son. That's all I know about you.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: I do not even know how old your son was nor how he passed. I know none of these things. Which actually is a good thing. Because even though like there's people in the foundation that have been working or volunteering for the foundation, I don't pry into people's lives. Like your life is your life is really private. So, I would love to have you on the show. And I would be hearing your story for the first time.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Oh, well, great. I'm very open with that. And if it can help people, then my life's an open book, whatever helps people. That's why I do it. That's why I've been doing it for, I think, seven or eight years, maybe, you know, you are my 74th show. I was looking today because every time that I do it, I have the transcripts. And this is my 74th show. Believe it or not. I've done other shows with a forever family foundation where I talk to other people. But this is my show, 74 today.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So, what is it? How many? So, it's 12 shows a year, isn't it? So how many? How many uses that? It's like a little over six years. If you do the math, you know.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: That's a long time. Yeah. Yeah. And until Bob fires me, I'll keep doing it.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I think you're volunteering. I don't think that he ever fires the volunteers. I mean, no, he would never do that. So anyway, so, so going back to the psyche and the soul. So, yeah. So my hope is to have people that have moved through grief because I don't think that you have a move through it as in you never fully recover from it.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Oh, no, you don't. Right. Right. And I think you live with it. And one of the things that Fran Ginsberg said to me that was so profound, simple and profound was that she didn't like it when people said they lost their sound or they lost their daughter. She didn't like it because you didn't lose them. It's like you lose your car case. You lose your, you know, like I lose my car keys. I lose my wallet. I lose everything. But anyway, you know, right. Exactly. And so you find a way to live with it. And I think that I also think that what first is when it comes to the mediums that having the ability to bring forward the evidence that is undisputable.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Oh, yeah. I mean, then you begin to think, Oh my God, how would they know? Like, how would they know? Mm hmm. Absolutely. And you know what? Another thing that I heard recently, which blew my mind just a very simple thing. And so the truth is love with nowhere. Oh, it's with, it's love with nowhere to land. That's what greeted it. It's love with nowhere to land. And when you think about it, I mean, to this day, I got goosebumps right now just thinking, you know, profound statement and it goes right along with you just said, you know, it's amazing.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And so I think that the spirit people that never lost, they're always in the hearts. They're always in our minds. They're always in the memory. They're always we wake up. And there they are. They're always there. And so it's going to be interesting with the podcast. It's sort of, you know, the psyche and the soul and how we're going to be able to merge the sort of the two together. Like she knows the grief. She knows how to heal the grief. I think I know a smidge a little bit about sort of spare communication. So it's like how we bring that together. I think it's going to be interesting sort of having the psychologist on the medium.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: It's like a one-two punch, you know, like a, you know, like the one to punch kind of thing, you know, it's great. Yeah. Then also the hope is that she's going to be able to teach a little bit. You know, like she's going to be able to talk about certain topics that she knows a lot about. And maybe if we can figure out how to do it, maybe I'll do live readings on one of the shows. I don't know. You know, but then also you do whatever you want. Yeah. And then also. So we've set everything up. So the I've set up that I actually set up the website, The Psyche and the Soul.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And we have an email that is this Psyche and the Soul, a gmail.com. And if people want to, if people would like to be on our show and they have an interesting experience with healing grief, going to a grief retreat in some way, having been in touch with the Forever Family Foundation come to a grief retreat or even had a reading or something. I would love to have people come and sort of on the show and talk about their experience because I think also healing takes place when you hear what other people have experienced themselves.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Absolutely. Absolutely. That is the biggest part of it, actually. Because if they can get through it, you can get through it, you know, bottom line, you know, hey, he did it. I can do it. It's like the it's like the ending of Die Hard 2, where the airplanes are stuck in the air and the snowstorm and the first plane lands because he made that big fire trail and the other planes. Hey, I can land too. You know, it's exactly that. So yeah, I did see that. I did not see the movie. Oh, you didn't see that. Oh, I'm sure.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: You know what? I almost never watched TV since six years ago. The only time that I watched TV is when I'm home in Iceland because then I get to watch Icelandic TV, Danish TV, Swedish TV and British TV. And then I can just like, I don't need to watch the American TV. It's just a little too much for me. It's just a little too. Yeah. Yeah. Well, this was a movie. But yeah, I know. But even movie. Yeah, it has to be like, for me to watch the movie or TV show, I really have to make an effort for it. Like, I will call it. Do you know what? I actually, I watched the Matrix. I was on a I was actually flying from Saudi Arabia, from Jeddah, Saudi Arabia to Paris.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I turned the TV on six times and I fell asleep every single time. Many, many years went by and then I think it's maybe four years ago, I actually watched the Matrix without falling asleep and I got it. Yeah. I was just not ready. You know, like those whatever 20 years ago, I just wasn't ready. But then, yeah. So, so, but falling asleep, like watching the Matrix, who does that? You know what? You do that. And that's what makes you. You are the most incredible. I've never met anybody like you. Like, folks, we are dealing with somebody very, very, very rare here on the show today.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I love that. That's great. Yeah. All right. That's the vegetarian. That's the very. Anyway, so anyways, we got, we got some questions from people that, you know, have, have emailed in questions and stuff like that. You'd like to answer some. I would love to. All right. So here's one. Hello, kind Signs of Life hosts. I got a message from a loved one during a transforming grief retreat earlier this year. They came through gentle or neutral a different way than I experienced them when they were alive. My grandfather was a.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Actually grumpy, a yeller, a prickly kind of guy. I'm just the opposite over the years. I would get smiles. I was out of them. When he knew he was going to pass on, I was looking up to see him the week before. He told me he loved me for the first time and always loved hearing what I was doing. Even if I even if he didn't show it, it was a. It was totally 180 from my total experiences with him. Can you talk a bit about how there would be a change in attitude when somebody passes to the other side? Thank you for the first. For the conversation forever grateful Carly.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: That's the listener that wrote in. Thank you. Thank you question. Yeah, so this is my experience and I think that almost all mediums would say the same thing that when we do pass, we go through this sort of life review. So to speak and then, you know, there's this we evolve. And I think that this is my experience when we get on to the other side, unless let's just put it this way, if somebody was in their lifetime, they were not a really nice person. They may oftentimes come through with profound forgiveness and all of this stuff, which is wonderful.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: But also like if somebody has a personality that is a little bit edgy or jaggedy or whatever, spiky and then they come through, but they're like really soft and nice. You know, there's an evolution that takes place. But so there is definitely some sort of a shift or sort of, I would say, not even a shift transformation that takes place with the energy because it's kind of coming from a place that is a little bit of a rough and tumble sort of place to live in life is not easy. No, it's not.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And then to the afterlife or into another dimension, so to speak, then you are surrounded with love and like a talks like and who do you become when you are in love, you know, like when you're in the embrace by love and you become loving. That has been my experience. Yeah. Yep. And there's nothing more powerful than love, nothing more important in love. Right. You know, and there's a little bit of luck at it these days, you know, in the world with, you know, what's happening in politics and wars and stuff like that. I just, you know, but that's, that's a whole other topic. We're here to talk about media.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: You know, do you know the best thing that you can do when it comes to politics? You look at both sides and then you realize, Oh my God, it's all the same BS. And then you find freedom. You just find this incredible freedom when you, when you, when you get up on you, you realize like it's talking hands. And you could swap the callers, you know, in America, you could sort the callers and they will still be like they're talking about the same stuff, you know, same stuff, different day.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yep. Exactly. There you go. And so when you begin to realize this, that it's all the same. You, it's this freedom. Is this your heart is lighter, leave it be, let it go. And I'm going to tell this, make fun of it all. Have fun with it. I know, I know that's, you know what, those are words of wisdom's because I think a lot of people are profiting off of that. Oh, it's all off the media attention. There's like, yeah, places like the mightest touch that has millions of viewers that strictly democrat going Trump did this Trump did that. And people were who I was a victim of that too. Till I realized, you know, it's all the same shit. Same stuff. Yeah.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah, it is. It is. You know what? There was a one of my clients this last week. So I was still in Boston and I had a lady come to my office. And she said something that was so simple and but so profound. She said, you know what, people in power really should not be in power. Hmm, that is, you know, that makes a lot of sense. When you think of how they got the power, you know, it's greed that gets you to that level. Yeah. Yeah. Other people start, you know, going out of their way to help you because they got a stake in it and it's just not good. Yeah. So. Yeah. Yeah. Different subject. So, Sirry. Yeah.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: What is one of the most mind blowing things you've ever seen as a medium? Does anything come to mind? Oh, there are so many things. I know. It doesn't have to be the most mind. Just give us an example of a mind blowing. So I'm not sure. Well, I mean, I think that like the details I think for me as a medium, I remember when I first started doing this like 25 years ago, I actually want to, I was in Massachusetts.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I went to Spiritualist church. I was an atheist and I went to see, I want to see a medium work and I had no idea who she was. And that it was the moment that transformed my life and it was she's not my friend, Jackie. She's such a phenomenal medium. And I said, you should try for the family. And she was like, no, I'm a mom. And she was just busy. Anyway. So she was giving a message to a lady in the audience in the congregation. And she said some like this, you mother coming through and she gave a really good description and then Jackie because she's really clairaudient.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And so she said to her, I'm hearing this thing. She was obviously from Asia. She said, I'm hearing this thing. I do not know what it is. And she repeated exactly what she said. And the young lady, she just gasped and she said, Oh my God, that was my mom and everyone that day they said what?

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Oh, she said, I love you in another language. So this was either like Thai, maybe Malay. Like she looked kind of Thai revelation. So it was one of those two languages that she said to the young lady. And it was a moment that transformed my life. And it was not me. I'm not so it's so interesting when it comes to the mediums. Some mediums are incredibly clairaudient. I can be incredibly clairvoyant. Like I can see I can walk through someone's life. I can walk through people's homes. And what I find so interesting is the presence. I'm really not that interested in people. I'm really not that interested in people's homes. Like when I go to a person's home, they will show me their home.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: I'm good. I'm here to see you. Like I'm really not interested. One of the three people want to come through. They can show me the most incredible detail. So they will walk me through almost anything. I've been able to find diamond rings. I've been able to find wallets. I mean, I would say that success rate is maybe 80% sometimes I'm tired or I'm lazy, whatever.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And I found a dog. You know what? I do you know what? This is really interesting. So I found a dog. The other figure is out. So I'm in Boston. Okay. And then I am in some sort of a group with other Icelanders in America. And there's one woman. She posts in the group and she posted something about a dog being lost. It was not even her dog. It was her neighbor's dog. She's in Arizona. She's an Icelander in Arizona. And I said, for whatever reason, I caught my eye and some social media on Facebook. And I thought to myself, I wonder if I can find the dog.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Okay. And so I love the picture of the dog. Now, bear in mind, two Icelanders must have chosen Arizona. I looked at the dog and I thought to myself, and then what I did, I took out the Google Maps. And I started thinking to myself, like, I think the dog went there. And then I started like in my mind, I kind of could trace the dog and then I messaged her and I said, I think the dog went this way. And that way. And this way. And that one is there's a little place that just looks like a church and he went by there. So you had to go a little bit further down south. So they did. And they found the dog in two days.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And then she sent me a picture of like her holding the dog and she said my neighbor found the dog. It was a big white dog. Wow.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Well, that is pretty incredible. Isn't that is incredible. And what got me hooked? I mean, you know, when I was deep in my grief when the event October 27, 2009 when my son passed away. Right after that, I read like how many books on mediumship and all of the afterlife and this and that just to find out where the hell did he go. Then I met up with Mo and Mo recommended me to this medium called that. I think it's her last name was O'Connor first name. It's either Georgia or Grace. I know it began with a G. It's been many, many years. But when I, this is like Mo gave me this medium. She was Loretta Lynn, who was a famous country artist.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Pass the way, but she was Loretta Lynn's medium that moved to near our area. So I went to see her. I called her from a conference through my general electric where I worked. So not from my desk from a conference room. I gave her a fake name, told her I would pay her in cash. She said, Okay, I believe you come on over. She said, you pulled my son's name right out of thin air. Like, and my grandparents names right out of thin air. Like just did that. That blew my mind.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Like she had no way of doing it. You know what I mean? And I didn't, you know, I wanted to be, you know, I didn't want any water. That's why I did the security. But that got me hooked. Ever since then. And then we had another session, me and my wife with her. And she says, Yeah, you're going to a Malanka. You know, like a Malanka is a Ukrainian because I'm a Ukrainian. And she's a, she said, Yeah, you're going to a Malanka, which is a Ukrainian dance around New Year's time. Like, how the heck would she know that? You know, crazy. And she was dead right. You know, so yeah, it's crazy what you can what you can do.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So like, so this is, this is such a good point. So I'm not really a strong name medium unless it's in my language. If it's my language, I can get it. I can hear. I can hear Icelandic names clearly. You know, like I can hear those names really loud and clear. And so what I'm doing readings in Iceland, if I'm doing an event in Iceland, easy peasy. But then when I'm in America, like the names, oftentimes they sound really similar to me. Because it doesn't it doesn't have my native language. And so I can't catch that quite as easily. Although one time in a reading, I got a name that was it was an Indian name was Krishnamurti.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And it was actually the girls brother or something that had died on a motorcycle accident in India. And I never got it because the way he came through with the name Krishna, Krishna Murty was has a strange sounding name. So it can happen. But yeah, because I mean, in America, like all these names are like you can have like three or four version of the name Sean, like however you spell it. Then you have like John with an O eight and then you have John with an age. And then you have like Mary and then it's like Mary and Mary.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Like it's all at Stacey and Tracy. It's like, I know the American. I mean, the English language. I mean, you could have the same letter doing different sounds, which doesn't make sense like in Ukrainian. We have the alphabet, the Cyrillic alphabet where every letter has an individual sound and there's no way about it. No other way. So it's very easy. It is crazy. And, you know, I'm natively speaking English all the time, but you kind of just learn these things. But I can see how that can be a little bit of a challenge and propose a little bit of an obstacle for somebody whose native language is not that.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Right. You make up for it in fades another way, Sirry. So, well, I think with my details though, because I do know this. I do know this for a fact that I can't be incredibly detailed to a point. I've actually had people in my office. I said to me, did you Google me? It's like, no, I don't care. Like, and I actually had to say so like I really don't care about people just like, let's just finish the session. And then of course I want to my yard. Like I want to my garden. I was in the hammock for the rest of the day. You know, like, yeah, you don't find people like with the heck, you know, but there are mediums out there that, you know, there are charlatans out there.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Oh, for sure. You're spending all kinds of money and stuff like that. And you want to get the real thing when you get that kind of money. So absolutely. And I've been to very, very bad mediums in my.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Oh, you have. Oh, you have. This is really worthy. Can you bring a picture of your phone? I know, I know. Oh, you know what I should, you know what I should say though. Like one of the things that is happening lately is, and I do not understand why people do this. I mean, I don't blame them because they don't know any better, but I need to put a video on social media. Please stop doing this. People will email me. Well, no, people will email me and they will say, I really want to hear from so and so. When can I book a session? I think to myself like, never tell the media. Now, thankfully there's a bit of a wait or a book for them. And then I just booked it really quickly.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And then I forget like my memory with all of this stuff is really, really bad. But why are they email me? Like, I want to hear from my so-and-so. I want to hear like, no, no. And even sometimes I will say to them, like, you may want to book with another meter. You told me way too much. So then I may say and just don't tell them anything. Like do not tell them anything. Yeah, you're actually hampering the medium if you give them. Right.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: It's a detriment. Absolutely. People understand that. Yeah. And so even like in my case, my only little pet peeve is when people book with a phony name, except for your first name, because I say you can put everything phony. Like, but is it I do need an email or some way to contact you in case like I have to know if I have an emergency or whatever, doctors point whatever.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So the only thing that I ask for is that they check their email, whatever email the book with. And then the first name, the rest of it, they could be whatever they want to call themselves. They could be like Jim, I don't care, but just Jim has to be the true name. Because what I do and what is interesting, this actually happened to me the other day. There was somebody had booked a session with me. And so on my booking, there was a female name. Let's just say it was Kathy or something. So Kathy had booked a session with me.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So then, and I don't know the last name, I just don't care. And I begin to meditate on Kathy, like really very specifically on Kathy. And then I get on the zoom and then I'm looking like it's a guy. And I felt like this is not even like, no, it's a guide. It's a, you know, it's a male figure that is right in front of me. And I said, I said to me, like, you're not Kathy. Well, that's kind of obvious. And I said, well, Kathy booked the session, but even he forgot to change the name on the screen.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And then I said, okay, let's see how this goes because I actually had meditated. I wrote on a number of things about Kathy and I started reading. And then he said, you know what this whole reading is for Kathy.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yep.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Well, she booked it under her name. And then you're in front like, so do you just, so people that have to have a little bit of thinking, a little bit of a sort of, okay, who's this session for? So do you tell your sister Kathy has a big penis? No, I would not do that. But anyway, so, so, and also mind you, so the guy that was not supposed to be getting the reading, he was a Ukrainian. And like me. Huh? Like me. Yeah. And so what I did ended up doing, I was shut down the reading and I said, okay, and then he rebooked it. And I only had his first name. I didn't even know his last name. I just had his first name on nothing else.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: And then I went into the reading and everything was fine. Like, you know, his mom came through and all this stuff. And he was the one that said to me, like, did you Google me? And I said, no, I only have your first name. I don't know the rest of it.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yep, exactly. When I did that session with Georgia, as soon as I walked in, I told him my real name. Like, like, okay. Yeah. So I didn't want to, I just, you know, it was my first time. It was my first time, but it was, it was my most mind blowing time. Yeah. Well, I mean, one of, one of, like, so one of the volunteers, Liz, maybe she will hear this episode. But anyway, so she actually put on, she was so paranoid. She put on gloves. She got the money out of the towel. I don't know how. Yeah. I think she got, she got a cashier's check or something. Okay. She made sure that there was no traces of DNA from her on this envelope and she sent the payment to the medium.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: But there was no trace of her on the envelope or anywhere. And I think she did book it with a fake name. Uh huh.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I think she also did the same thing with me. I think that she booked a reading with me. Yeah. Like with a fake name or something. But she was, yeah. So she was like, that is one of the half of half media, like, what are the half of half volunteers. She really wanted to have, like, have proof that life after death.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yep. And I'm sure, like, you know, I know the first name, you know, that's a great idea. But I know, like, you are the real thing. So the fake names don't bother you. Bring it on. Like, come on. Yeah.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Bring it on. Yeah. Just what I only want you first for, you know, the true first time. But anyway, so do you have more questions? Otherwise, I want to switch gears and talk about the upcoming convention. Please do. Tell me about the convention. Okay. So we haven't had a convention since, I think since 2018. And the, the Forever Family, Bob and Lee and everyone, they decided to put on a convention coming up in October, October 24th and 5th, 25th of this year. And it's going to be in LA. And it's going to be four mediums. It's going to be one I haven't met. Why am I blanking on his name? Oh, you should know that I should know the name. No, no, no, no, no. It's going to be L

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I can see his face in my mind. You see this is me. I can see his face in my mind. Has he been on the show before? Don't know. Dave Campbell. No, no, no, no. Okay. I'm looking at the Signs of Life. Give me a second. He's running out of view. Like in the last six months or a year, maybe. Dustin Pari? No, no, no, no. I love Dustin. He's funny. Yeah. Oh, I love that guy. He's. You know what? I love all mediums. You guys. I know, I know the world a better place. You know, they're good people. Oh, heck yeah. I'm looking at male names here. Yeah, it's probably nobody that I've interviewed in the past.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I just like that. Like 15 minutes. Anyway, it doesn't matter. Anyway, so yeah, so we're going to be coming together for mediums teaching. So it's going to be convention and teaching. So that's going to be kind of exciting. I think that I think Laura Lynne Jackson is also going to be doing Messages in the evening. Yeah. Yeah. I love your lunch. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Absolutely. So you know what? We actually. I think this is you said it's October 24 25th in Los Angeles. I'm sure there's going to be information about that on the forever family.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Foundation. Yeah. Yeah. The info is already there. And do you know also, it's actually not that expensive. It's actually affordable, which I really, I really appreciate.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Good. That's amazing. So we got a caller. You want to you want to call? We got Marsha from Massachusetts on line one who has a question for you. Hi, awesome. Hi, Marsha. Welcome to the show. Hi, Marsha.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Hi, I saw your post on Instagram, Sirry, and I thought, yeah, listen in. I met with you twice in person at your Brooklyn location. I think the last time I met with you in person was. 2018. It was. I had gotten married. So it's, but I still re listened to the sessions. So. It's not just. But anyway, I just felt like I wanted to reach out and I've been dealing with the loss of my cat. And I've been seeing a lot of stuff on social media about like soul, Pets or soul dogs or soul cats. And I just wanted to try to understand, like, or get your take on like, what does that mean? And how do you know if. Or just a little bit more on like what that means.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So, so I'm going to tell you so, so thank you. So you know what? I'm not good with posting things on social media and I like I'm trying to get better because Joe Perreta will post like he put Joe Perreta is the master poster. Anyway, so thank you for noticing the post. Anyway, this is my take on. Thank you also for coming into my session eight years ago. It's a long time ago. Anyway, obviously you had a good experience since you're still sort of like following me a little bit. Animals. So this has been, this has been my experience. Animals, they reincarnate. I mean, there's no difference of people because we're all mammals and animals like we're all.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: We're all part of the sort of the creation of God. If we believe in God. My experience has often been that animals, they will linger around. And like for instance, we had to put a dog down in here in Iceland. We had to put him down in May. And I miss him dearly, but I thought I heard him today. Like he's been gone now for almost two months. And I could swear that I could hear him like running on the floor. But then of course, I know cognitively that he's, you know, he's in spirit. Same thing happened when my mom passed away. Like, so you were standing in the doors like, Hey, mom.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Anyway, so animals in my experience, they will reincarnate fairly quickly. If you feel, if you honestly, if you feel like they're with you, if you feel like they may be watching you, if you feel like they're walking up to you, if you feel like your cat might be jumping on the bed, just acknowledge it. Because I think that sometimes what happens is that when animals have passed away, they're still sort of like, you know, with us here in this physical world. And I'm like, Oh, hello, I think I'm still here. But then slowly but surely realize saying that, Oh, they're also in this spirit world.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: But I do believe that reincarnation happens quite frequently with animals. Do they come back in the same species or do they come back and look maybe as a dog or, you know, something else who knows because I actually have. I'm actually convinced that animals that come back to us when we say, Oh, I'd love to see you back. They may look different. Do you know, does that sort of answer your question?

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah, because I actually had met with the animal communicator online. I did a session and she had said that she's very much still here and that like if I, you told me like, you can, if you reach out, you can even feel her energy like she's saying she's sitting right next to you and I, I've been kind of looking around. Trying to feel her energy like I feel like she's still here. But I don't, I just, it's just so surreal to me. I still am trying to understand it because like I, I'm so you, I spent so much of my life with her and with me through so many pieces.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So just feels, I don't know, I'm just trying to understand more about like what a soul. So, okay. So, so, okay. So, so I, so I actually, I have actually communicated with a gorilla with a miniature pony. With dogs and cats. I once did a whole session just talking about a cat. Anyway, so I'm tuning into your energy, Marsha. So with you, would your cat, you know, like when people sit and watch the TV and then they have like really nice cushy couches with like, not necessarily a high back, but really nice comfortable back. Would your cat ever be on the back on the back of the couch or the chair that you sit in.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Yes. Yeah. Okay. And do you still have like a blanket or something that is draped over the back of the couch.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yes, it's still has her indent. And exactly. Yes, exactly. Because what I know, yeah, us talking about your kitty is that I just feel like, oh, your kitty is still there like still on the blanket. It's still right. Like it's kind of like, do you know, like when you have the cat right behind your hand. And you can like you can feel them purring and then you just reach behind your ear and then like that's where they are. So I feel like your kitty is right behind you. You know, so I would not even question it, you know, I would not even question. But also, who in the family has either thinning hair or would you cat ever pull on the hair. Or be right behind their head.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Yes, like you would always sit right behind my head. Okay. So it's your head. Okay. Do you sometimes put your hair in a ponytail? Yes. Okay. So she would be able to see your ear or see over your ear. Yep. Exactly. Or where I sit right now. She's just right over me. Yep. Exactly. And so if you turned, if you turned your cheek, you could hear her purring in your ear.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yes. Yes. She's still with you. So she's not really, she's not really gone anywhere. And I think when the time comes that you might be ready to get a new pet. Then make a deal with her and just say to her, I would love to have you come back in a physical form. You know, now you're welcome to leave, but let's meet up again and come back to me. Like when you feel ready that your grief is healing a little bit and you made a commitment to getting a new pet. You know, just do it in that way. Just tell her like, I want to see you again. Come to me. That's what I would do. You can ask the spirit or animal spirits can because of because they reincarnate so easily. Is that the kind of.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Yeah. Yeah. That has been my experience. Did you also did you also did she had one point in her life had to have surgery or did you shave her. Fair. I had so we the whole I regret that we did this ultrasound and they had to shave her belly and she had a bad reaction to the sedative.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah. Well, she shows me that. So they had to take the hair off.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Yep, to do the ultrasound. Yep, because she was sick.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah. So I'm going to tell this my feeling is she's okay with it because also did she live to be at least 16 years old 15 to 18 years old.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Um, 13. Okay.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I mean, but she was still over the 10 like the 10 year mark.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Yeah.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Now also around her were in your family who's the one that has a birthday and May. Like it has to be a birthday one.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Your husband. Yeah, he his birthday is May 7. Thank you. So also, um, is he also having a lot tougher time than he is willing to.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Indicate.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Um, I thought that possibly. Yeah, I think so.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Like in other words, like she was really your kitty though.

Speaker 4 - Marsha, Caller: Um, no, she definitely was my cat. Yeah, I got her. Um, when I had first moved to Boston after college.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Okay. Anyway, so I got a little bit of a mini reading, but it was a nice. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Marsha, you're the first person of my callers ever got a reading. Believe it or not.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: You're lucky. And you got it from one of the best of the best. Yeah, she's worth her. Oh, thank you.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Well, Marcia, thank you for your call. Thank you very much. Yeah. Thank you for the insight. Thank you. All right. And now we have, uh, we have, uh, we've got a, we've got a couple of callers that are waiting. We got Lisa from Florida on line two. And you know what? And I got a reminder audience that, you know, this is not a reading show. It's more of a investigative analysis show. So with that said, Lisa from Florida, welcome.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller: Yeah. Um, I like to know my mother passed away in January.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller: I'm communicated. Can you hear me?

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: I can hear you. Yes.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller: Okay. Good. I can communicate with people who have crossed over, other people's, um, family and friends of crossover. But my mother, when they get to the other side, can they still have a competitive nature or do they let that go? Cause I think my mother was messing with me with lights in my kitchen. But you know, saying like I found the light cause I'm a light worker and she was always in competition. When they cross over, do they let go of that, that competitiveness and that edge? And she was very, very, very, very controlling over me, which I didn't realize the expense of it. And so she crossed over. Um, can they, do they, do they always let go over it? Or could they still hold on to it?

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So I think that is it a possibility that she's just trying to get your attention sort of playing with you a little bit. Maybe not with an edge, but maybe with a lighthearted as this or like with a sense of humor. Cause I think that, cause I do think that they let go of the edge, but they would only come through a medium knowing that, oh, they put an edge to them. But I think that her trying to get a sort of just trying to get your attention, but not with, I don't think that it would be in a competitive way.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Cause I think that when it comes to the friction that people have on the earth plane, I think that often says that is they let go of it immediately, but only as the evidence that they would do that.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller: Okay.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah. Yes. That is my, that's been my experience, but they do it as only as evidence for a medium to say, Oh, by the way, your mother was so and so, so, but she's let go of it.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller: Cause I mean, I thought it was her and I didn't know how to react. Should I say, you know, like normally with other people and it's not, you know, it's not like I do with my father, my grandmother, my best friend. No problem. But for my mother, I guess it's still this edge I have, you know, on my end of it. And like I'm not sure which is coming from with it.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: We do let it go. So I can just like kind of like down my guard. So to say, yeah, let it go. Yeah, just, just, you know, you know the song from frozen. Let it go. Just sing that in your heart.

Speaker 5 - Lisa, Caller: Sing that in your mind.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Great advice.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: I will say that. Thank you. I appreciate that. Thank you for your call. That was a great question. Thank you very much for your call. And now we have got another caller. We got Mayumi from California on line three. So Mayumi, welcome to the show.

Speaker 6 - Mayumi, Caller: Yes.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And I'm sorry if I put your name.

Speaker 6 - Mayumi, Caller: Hello.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: My Yumi, you're really breaking up.

Speaker 6 - Mayumi, Caller: Hello. Hello.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yeah, she was really, really breaking up. Probably a bad, bad cell phone connection or whatever. My Yumi, I encourage you to try to call back in like hang up, try to call back in. But do it really quick because we only got like eight minutes left to the show. This is the fastest hour I've ever experienced in my life. Holy cow. Didn't it like slide by. It's crazy. Yes. Yes. Did you see my cat? I did. Oh, yeah. I was busy doing a reading that I was not supposed to be reading. But you know, like, how could you not do a reading when it goes to little pets. I love pets. I love. I don't blame you. I don't blame you. This is my cat. His name is a good, which means button in Ukrainian. I love him.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: What? Gud, Gud, Gud. Okay, my only buckle line. Is she back there?

Speaker 6 - Mayumi, Caller: I have a question. For a while there, I would have a, I know it's a strange question. Like a spider would crawl over me while I'm in bed. And it would drop down. And I think it used to, it would steal some of my energy. And it would, and I would wake up and I'd catch it. But, and I was wondering if you know about these things.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: This is my philosophy. I don't think that anyone or anything, a spider or any other person can steal your energy or suck away your energy unless you are struggling emotionally. Unless you might be ill, you know, physically or emotionally. Or like something might be sort of going on with sort of with your aura with your energy field that may be fragile. That gives that an opportunity. But when you are really truly in your space in your power, nothing should be able to get into it.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: So you may want to, so you may want to seek out someone who knows how to do healing, a shaman or somebody knows how to do Reiki. You know, find someone that is able to help you work on the aura or the energy field around you to make it more solid. And then I'm going to tell you this also eat better, eat better and eat organic and rest and meditate and breathe. Learn how to breathe and build your build. Yes, thank you so much. You're welcome. It was great. Thank you so much for your call. That was a great question.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: All right. So, I had a question about my cat because this cat I love, but my other cat, the one that I had before. I didn't like that cat so much. So, so it's not the same spirit, right? Different cat, different spirit. This one completely. The other one, I couldn't stand that other cat. But the thing is, maybe that cat got a bad rap because, I mean, I would never be abusive, but you know, I wouldn't do what I did with this cat.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: You know, I, you know what, preachers require like every animal that I've ever met, they love me. This is where I'm staying right now, like in my home in Iceland and my sister is in the same, she's in the same house, but just downstairs. She has a cat and we call, the cat has a nickname of a female dog because she's not very nice. Okay. Oh, does it begin with a B? Yeah. Yeah. There's the only cat that has ever not liked me, which I just don't get. And I even, I'm even beginning to call her little skitzel because she will be super nice one second, like I'll be petting her and then like she just will have her like little freak out. So, yeah, welcome to the, welcome to the group.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah, they're very different. It's amazing. You know, you do know what, you know what, and cats have it really good because all they do is eat, pee, poo, and they get constant massages. Imagine if you got a massage on demand every single day, many times a day. Amazing. I know. I think cats must have been like Mother Teresa in a previous life and now they're reaping the benefits of like being an amazing person. I'm just kidding. I have no idea.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: One more call. I think we can make we got Heather from Pennsylvania on line one. Heather, welcome to the show and make it. I almost at a time.

Speaker 7 - Heather, Caller: No, I just wanted to give a comment because, Sarah, I saw your post on Instagram as well. And you were actually our first reading that we ever had with Forever Family Foundation at the first grief retreat and it was literally it just was so healing. So we just wanted to give a comment of how much we love you and are so grateful for the family foundation. So Heather and Jason. So thank you.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Oh, wait, it's Heather and Jason. I love you guys. I want you to be on my podcast. Oh, I love that.

Speaker 7 - Heather, Caller: I just want to say you were just talking about, you know, about readings and room. You same thing about your first reading in theory with our first reading. So it's really amazing feeling.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I love you guys. Yeah, I will never forget. Love you too. Thank you.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Thank you for your call, Heather. That means a lot. It really means a lot. And Sirry, I've never had a reading from you, but your energy like right away when we met that night when we party that Bob's place. My God.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Oh, my God. That feels like that feels like ages ago.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yeah, that was when Fran was still with us. That's like last century. Yeah. The whole thing. I just, you know, these are all people that I met from my first school at time and I was sitting, I was lucky enough to sit at a table with 12 mediums, partying at Bob's place, having drinks and I'll never, ever forget that ever. And the energy, especially from you, Sirry. Oh, my God. It was such positive energy. And that's, I think that has a lot to do with how you can communicate with the higher vibrations or whatever you want to call it. It's a mystery to me.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: I don't claim to be a medium, but I can see where that talent, like I can see how you get it, you know, you know what to me is normal and I've been like this since I was a kid.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: My first. Yeah. I was very eccentric is like very eccentric.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Well, you know what, that's, that's made you, God bless you. That made you who you are. And I'm glad I'm glad it worked out that way, you know. And having said that, we are out of time. We're out of time. Can you believe it? You got to come. And you got to come on this show more often.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: It's a lot of time. We love to.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: And yeah, absolutely. And please invite me to your show as well. Yes.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Along with Heather and that would be amazing.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Yes. Okay. So everybody, this was an amazing show. I think I was a little bit, you know, usually I'm a little bit of worried how the show is going to go. And, but I was still relaxed for the show. This was the most relaxing show that I ever had. It's everything just flowed out. And it's because of the energy that you're your energy on your.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Awesome. Thank you.

Speaker 2 - Roman Karpishka, Host: Well, thank you everybody. And we will see you in about a month. And until then, just know that your loved ones are just a heartbeat away. And that, like I said before, grief is love, you know, when love has nowhere to land. That's what grief is, you know, it's a beautiful thing. So with that, good night, everybody. And thank you very much.

Speaker 3 - Sirry Berndsen, Guest: Good night, everyone. Thank you.