Speaker Identification

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader
Identity is not stated in the transcript. This speaker leads the spoken welcome, responsive-reading setup, confession, assurance, and congregational prayer before the children’s message.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker
The first name “Peter” is supported by the speaker’s childhood story in which he quotes his parents addressing him by name. The transcript does not provide his last name or a formal title, so no further identity is assumed.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers
This collective label is used for responsive readings, sung or congregational worship material, the “Go in peace” response, and congregational “Amen” responses.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
[Opening musical worship. The automated transcription before the spoken welcome contains extensive non-content repetition and largely unintelligible lyrics. The final intelligible lyric is preserved:] Jesus Christ, to whom we've raised this hymn of grateful praise.

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader:
Jesus Christ, to whom we've raised this hymn of grateful praise, is present right here in the sanctuary with us this morning. Along with God the Father and the Holy Spirit, he greets us in these words: Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
Amen.

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader:
Welcome to Sunday morning worship here at LaGrave Avenue Christian Reformed Church this morning. We're glad that you're with us. Whether you're physically present here this morning or worshiping with us online. We especially welcome you if you are new or visiting among us today. We hope you'll stay around for a while afterwards and get to know some of us. There will be coffee and fellowship in the multipurpose room right after this worship service, and that's straight down the hallway and then to your right. If you're in District Three, however, you are invited to the parlor for coffee and cookies after the worship service. It's a good time to get to know others in your district. That is straight down the hallway and to your left. Be sure to check the bulletin for other announcements and things coming up today, this week, and in the future. In the sermon today, Peter will focus on wisdom for family life. In line with that, let's be reminded of some of God's basic commands for the family.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
Honor your father and your mother so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you. Children obey your parents in everything for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. What is God's will for you in the fifth commandment? That I honor, love, and be loyal to my father and mother and all those in authority over me. That I submit myself with proper obedience to all their good teaching and discipline. And also that I be patient with their failings for through them God chooses to rule us.

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader:
Let's pray. Lord, you have shown us the path of life and yet every day we stray from it. This is very obvious in family life as we all have to admit that we haven't always loved, honored, and obeyed our parents. And those of us who are parents have to admit our many failings in raising children. We confess that we have hurt one another. Through Jesus Christ, the atoning sacrifice on the cross, forgive us, Lord, once again, we pray, and renew us by your Holy Spirit so that life in our families will conform to your ways—not just in outward faithfulness, but from the heart, in genuine loving relationships. In Jesus' name, amen.

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader:
The Apostle John states it very clearly. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Receive this forgiveness and cleansing now through Jesus Christ.

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader:
Let us pray. Lord, we come to you with thanksgiving in our hearts. You have blessed us in Christ so generously, pouring out your gifts of all kinds, physical and spiritual. Today we think of some of your most precious gifts, those we experience in family life. It truly takes a God of great ingenuity, love, wisdom and even a sense of humor to create family, marriage, and sexuality. Thank you, Lord, for these wonderful gifts. But family life is also where many of us experience sorrows, stresses, and wounds. We pray your comfort on those who grieve the loss of family members and loved ones and your peace and renewal for those who have lost a marriage or friendship. We pray that you will heal the wounds of those who have experienced physical, verbal, or mental abuse and those who have suffered betrayal. We pray for those in strained relationships that you will lead them to understanding and reconciliation. We pray for healthy friendships for those who are lonely, including those who are single and pray for a life partner or even a close friend. We pray also for those who struggle with issues of sexual orientation and for their loved ones and for those couples that want children but haven't been able to. For all these we pray that you will give them hope and healing, a strong sense that you are with them leading them forward and that you will meet their needs. We pray too for those who are considering marriage, those who are engaged and those newly married. Guide and bless them with fulfillment and adjustment to these significant changes. We pray for all married couples that you will strengthen the bonds of love and faithfulness, help them deal with the rough spots along the way and find joy and fulfillment in serving you together. Whatever our status, grant each one of us the wisdom and self-control to follow the direction of your word regarding sexuality, marriage, and friendship. Help each of us to be more Christlike as children, siblings, young adults, married couples, parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. Make us a strong and faithful family to each other as sisters and brothers in Christ.

Speaker 1 – Worship Leader:
As we look beyond ourselves, we see many homeless people. For many of them, broken family relationships and abuse are significant factors in their homelessness and life challenges. Bring your transforming power into their lives, Lord, and even use us to be family to them, especially through our neighborhood ministry. And then we think of those who have lost family members and homes in conflicts, in places like Sudan, Gaza, Israel, Lebanon, Iran, and Ukraine. We can't imagine the devastation that they are experiencing. Somehow, may your reign of peace and restoration come to them too, Lord Jesus. Work through the leaders of our nation and other nations to bring true justice and peace. We now turn to specific concerns in our congregation, Lord. We begin by thanking you today with Lois Veneman, Joan Elzinga, and Dick Overbeak as they celebrate significant birthdays. Bless them with your presence and joy. We commit to you, Grace Shearer and Dave Vanderarck at Mary Free Bed, receiving rehab. We thank you that Steve Pelizolo is now home. We pray that his continuing chemo will be effective. We lift up to you, Jerry Vanderhart, now in hospice following a diagnosis of cancer. We pray for good digestive functioning for eight-week-old Oliver Davies and Niku and that you will encourage his grandparents, Paul and Patricia Stevenson. We continue to bring before you many others in our congregation fighting cancer or other long-term illnesses, those receiving hospice care, those dealing with dementia, and those who care for them. May they find you to be their very present help in time of need. For all these, we pray that you will touch and heal them with your powerful, loving, healing hand in the name of our Lord Jesus. Work through the health care workers and their treatments and medicines for their well-being. We pray for Tim Van Beek and Blake Heisinger, our men in the military, that you will constantly protect them and meet their spiritual, emotional, and social needs. We lift up to you, Tim and Barbara Berenz, serving in an exciting and challenging ministry in Toronto. Holy Spirit, we pray that you will work through them in reaching people coming from other nations and worldviews, welcoming them to life in Jesus. And, Lord, work through all of us that we may welcome others around us into your family. In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, we pray, amen.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
[Congregational hymn. The automated transcription of the lyrics in this section is too garbled to reconstruct reliably from the transcript alone.]

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
All right, children, it's time for the children's message. Come on forward. Come have a seat and I'll tell you a story from when I was a kid. And as they're coming up, let me just point out something in the bulletin to the rest of you. After the service, we've had two interns during the summer who have been working in our neighborhood and one of those interns, [name unclear], will be presenting some of what she's experienced and some of the best practices when it comes to dealing with our neighbors. If you're interested in that, it should be really interesting. It'll be in room 200 after the service. Hello everyone. You're here. Yes, you are.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
I am so glad that you are here. Okay, how are we doing? Oh, we're doing so well. I'm sure you know this: when I was a kid, my parents would often tell me things that I should do and things that I shouldn't do, right? That's kind of what parents do. You know, do that. No, no, no, don't do this. Okay. And sometimes I liked that, and sometimes I wasn't so sure. So here's an example. When I was in high school, so I was a lot older than you, but I'm still a kid. High school kids are still kids. My friends—let me tell you—my friends took six courses. So during the day, they had six subjects they needed to study. Okay. And then in between, there were some breaks and they could play and they could have fun with each other. My parents made me take eight courses. So in those little breaks where my friends were all having a good time and doing stuff together, I had to take math. I had to take science. I had to do work while my friends were playing. And I didn't like that so much, but you know what? I was a good son. And so I said, “Okay, I’ll do it, I guess.” But then one day my parents said to me, “You know what, Peter? We think you should take one more course. We think you should take typing.” So you know what this is, right? This is a keyboard, and I mean, maybe some of you are already starting to learn this. Of course you are. A lot of people do, because this is how, with a computer, you put words into the computer, right? Or you put numbers into the computer, you write things on a keyboard, you all know that. Well, my parents wanted me to take typing so I could do it fast. And I did not want to do it. And I whined and complained so much that finally my parents gave in and I never had to take typing. Guess what happened? Today, all my friends type like this, and all the people who work with me type like this. You want to know how I type? A little faster than that, but I'm not very good at it. I go really slow. I go really slow. My parents—I hate to admit it—they were right. They were wise and I was foolish for not taking typing. God gave us parents. One of their jobs is to help teach us what's good and what's not so good. And they're not always right, right? Parents make mistakes too. Sometimes parents make bad rules, but you know what, they're right more often than they're wrong—a lot more often. And you know, they're smarter than you think.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Congregation, what is our prayer for these children?

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
Go in peace.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Okay. I mean, she was responding appropriately to my authority, I suppose.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
All right, our Bible readings this morning are the Proverbs printed in your bulletin. But as we've been doing through this whole series on wisdom, let us sing first our hymn of preparation.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
[Hymn of preparation. The title or lyric captured in the automated transcript is too garbled to reconstruct reliably.]

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Let's read the Proverbs printed in your bulletins together. These come from all over the book of Proverbs, and as you know, today's subject is family. These are all family Proverbs.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
Listen, my son, to your father's instruction, and do not forsake your mother's teaching. They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck. Listen, my sons, to a father's instruction. Pay attention and gain understanding. I give you sound learning, so do not forsake my teaching. For I too was a son to my father, still tender and cherished by my mother. And he taught me and said to me, take hold of my words with all your heart and keep my commands and you will live. The sayings of King Lemuel—an inspired utterance his mother taught him. Listen, my son, listen son of my womb, listen my son, answer to my prayers. My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline, and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves. as a father the son he delights in. Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they're old, they will not turn from it. Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far away. Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them. The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him. May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful. Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
This is the word of the Lord. So we've addressed many topics in this sermon series on wisdom as we've gone through the book of Proverbs. This is our last Sunday in Proverbs. Next week we go off to Ecclesiastes, which is very different territory. But in this series on Proverbs we've talked about many different subjects, but I can safely say that family is at the center of the book of Proverbs in a way that no other subject is. And by that I don't mean that there are more Proverbs about family than anything else. There aren't. There are other subjects that have many more Proverbs about them. But what I mean is this, the whole book of Proverbs is a book for families. It's a book that is given to families and is meant to be used in the family context. It's a family book.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
How do we know this? Well, I hope you heard it in what I was reading. Repeatedly, you can hear fathers and mothers talking to their children. The first proverb: Listen, my son, to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mom's teaching. Mom and dad are saying to the kids, listen to us. Let us help teach you what is good. And that pattern is throughout the book. Son, listen to my instruction. Read Proverbs 31, the proverb of King Lemuel. That's his mom saying to him, boy, listen to what I say. All the wisdom of Proverbs is part of a family conversation. Whatever the proverb is about, whether it's conflict or money or whatever, it's meant to be discussed by families in the places where they live—in the kitchen, in the living room, out in the fields while they are working. They are meant to meditate and discuss these things together so that the Holy Spirit can help them grow in wisdom. It is a family book.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
And all of this underscores the importance of our families. Our families are so important in our lives. And I know I don't need to tell you that. The person who's had the absolutely best family experience here, the person who's sitting here who looks at their family and feels like they got nothing but love and proper discipline and feels uplifted by their families, that person can tell you how important their family is, the person here who's had the absolute worst experience of family, who has been traumatized and abused, for whom their family was a horror, That person can tell you how important families are too. There's a place in the Sermon on the Mount where Jesus says, the eye is the lamp of the body. And if your eye is healthy, your whole body is full of light. But if that light within you is darkness, how deep is that darkness? Now Jesus wasn't talking about families when he said that, but he absolutely could have been. Depending on our experience, our family can be a firm foundation under our feet, or it can be a minefield, right? And you spend the rest of your life walking through this minefield feeling like there's going to be explosions within you. Our families influence everything.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Not only are our families important, unfortunately these days, they're also under new and enormous stress. And there are all kinds of ways in which that's true. I want to just talk about two of them very briefly. Today in our society, young people are more reluctant than ever to form new families. It seems like young people are scared of entering into the formation of families. Statistically, fewer and fewer young people want to get married. And then, when they do get married, many fewer of them want to have children, right? There's a reluctance to start a new family. There's a lot of fear about that. They look out and see how difficult families are and how fractured they are. And there is a reluctance, which is an enormous strain on this institution. Another strain on modern families is the growing phenomenon of family estrangement. Increasingly, within families, there are rifts where two family members do not talk to each other anymore, completely cut off contact, right? Brothers and sisters who do not speak, parents and children who do not speak. I read a stat this week that said something like 40% of families have estrangement within them. It's a lot. Now don't get me wrong, there are times and circumstances when estrangement is absolutely appropriate. In certain cases of abuse or in really toxic, difficult families, sometimes all you can do is withdraw from a relationship. That absolutely happens and sometimes it's the right thing to do. But it seems to me, and I'm not the only one, that these days the standards for what qualifies as toxicity can be quite low. And estrangement happens very easily. And when it does, it creates havoc in families. All this to say, families are under strain right now.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
And families, all families, including ours, need wisdom. And so I'd like, based on these Proverbs, to share a little bit of what I think is God's wisdom, the Holy Spirit's wisdom for us and our families. And let me be clear, I'm not just talking to those of you who are married with children. I'm talking to you if you're single, or if you're married without children, because all of us are in families, right? All of us have family experiences that we have to sort out. So three points this morning, again, three things I want to say, and they are under the headings of delight, discipline, and dysfunction. Delight, discipline, and dysfunction. So not only are there three points, now they're all starting with the same letter. And you may say, “When is this going to end?” And I say to you, “I do not know.” Delight, discipline, and dysfunction.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
First of all, delight. When I first read through those Proverbs, I don't know what jumped out at you, but my guess is that for most of you, what jumps out are the calls to discipline, right? Instruction, teaching, and probably especially those two verses about the rod, right? The rod and its importance in disciplining our children. That's normal. It's hard—those sorts of words take up all the oxygen in the room. But I don't want to start there. I want you to notice something which I actually think is more important, that undergirds it all. Throughout these Proverbs, there's also an undercurrent of joy and delight. The family, as it's described in Proverbs, is not first of all a place of discipline and rigor. It is first of all a place of love and delight. That is the beginning and the end and the foundation of our families.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
These Proverbs say that there's delight at the beginning of our families. Look at Proverbs 3:11–12. My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline; do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves. as a father the son he delights in. God's discipline of us comes out of his love and delight. A father's or mother's discipline of their children should come out of love and delight. There's delight and love at the beginning. There's also delight and love at the end. The picture in Proverbs is very much that once you've taught your child the way of wisdom and if they follow it, that leads to joy and delight at the end of the journey. Chapter 23, verses 24–25. The father and mother of a righteous child have great joy. Joy at the end. And there's also joy in the middle of our families. That proverb right from the very beginning of Proverbs, son, do not forsake your father and mother's teaching because they are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck. Those are images of delight. Flowers on your head, a golden chain around your neck. Delight and joy are in a family from the beginning to the end and also in the middle.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
There will always be discipline in families, right? Our families are the people who tell us what we do not want to hear. They are the ones. But all of that discipline, all of that truth telling, needs to start and end with a foundation of love and delight. And what we need to see is that not only is discipline built on top of the love and delight, the love and delight is the discipline. The love and delight that you have for each other is the most powerful formative tool that you have in your families and all your relationships. To love and delight in each other is to change each other.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
There's a way to think of this as you go forward, just very practically. Here's a ratio to remember. Five to one. Five to one. And that's a ratio that I found multiple places this week in my study. It comes from social scientists, including the excellent work of people like John Gottman, who is a marriage therapist. Five to one. And that ratio reflects, for every one word of correction or criticism, there should be five positive words—five positive movements of affirmation and delight and love. Five to one. Five to one for every one correction. And that's not just a ratio that works in families, that's a ratio that works in all human relationships; it works in business. And the positive affirmation, those five, they don't need to be verbal necessarily. It's great if they are, right? You can never say, “I am so glad that you are my sister or son, I am so proud of you.” You can never say those words often enough within families. But the affirmation could be a hug. The affirmation could be you asking, “How is your day?” And then sitting down and listening and asking follow-up questions with delight. The affirmation could be something like, you know, your wife comes back from the grocery store and you're sitting at the counter going through your phone. And she says to you, “You’ll never guess who I ran into at the store. We had this most interesting conversation.” And instead of you responding by going, “Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. Yeah. Oh, cool. Yeah, all right. Huh.” You put down your phone and you attend with delight to whatever it is she has to tell you. In the course of a normal day with other people and within your family, there will be all sorts of what psychologists call bids for attention. Bids for attention. You make a movement towards the other person. It could be with a smile, it could be with a question. In a healthy family with a strong sense of delight, people are always making bids for each other's attention and those bids are met with an affirmation, with attention, with love, with delight. Delight that comes from the Lord is the center of all our families.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Discipline. That very clearly is part of our verses here. We have to talk about discipline. And more specifically, we have to talk about that rod of discipline that showed up in those two verses. And I could have put two more verses. I think there's four places that say some version of spare the rod and spoil the child. How do we understand those verses? Let me say right off the bat, those verses are not saying to parents, hey, everyone, “Be sure to beat your children.” I'm sure you children will be happy to hear that. Now, in Israelite culture, for sure, the rod of discipline did include corporal punishment, right? That was absolutely a part of the culture then, and it has been part of culture up until relatively recently. So physical discipline was absolutely part of it, but it was not all of it. So the Hebrew word for a rod is “shabat” [transliteration requires verification]. And “shabat” is a word that can mean more than just a physical stick. It's also a word that can mean scepter, like a symbol of authority. It's a word that can mean tribe, like a unit of authority, like a tribe. So for example, in Genesis 49, Jacob says this to his sons: “The scepter will never pass from Judah.” And when Jacob says that, he's not saying that Judah will never stop beating his brothers. He's saying that Judah will always have a sense of prominence and authority. The call to use the rod in parenting is a call to exercise your authority, your proper authority as a parent, to own that authority and to use it, to function as your child's leader.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Now, delight might be the central thing in the family, but that does not mean that you're your child's buddy or friend, not primarily. You are your child's authority figure and you are there to train and discipline and guide and form that child. It is your job, to put it another way, to indoctrinate your child—to indoctrinate them. Now that's not a very popular word. I don't know any surveys about this, but I'm sure if you ask people out there in the world, “Should you indoctrinate young children?”, they would mostly say no. But the truth is, we all get indoctrinated. Everyone gets indoctrinated. If you believe that it is wrong to indoctrinate people, you have been indoctrinated into that doctrine, right? You see that. You can't help but learn and impart a certain view of the world to your children. So parents, your number one job is to help your children find the path of God's wisdom. Your number one job is not to help your kids score high on the SAT. It's not to help your kid hit a baseball or make a jump shot. It's not to help your child be a virtuoso on their violin. All those things may be part of their childhood. That's great. Your number one responsibility is to form their souls. And that means to attend to sending their roots deep down into streams and traditions and ways that will give them life. And as Christians, we know exactly what that means. That means helping them send their roots into Jesus and the life of his people because Jesus is the path of wisdom. He is the way, the truth, and the life. He is the living water that we want to flow through us.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
That all needs to be done in a balanced way. In the scope of parenting styles, there is absolutely a parenting style that's too controlling and abusive. And Paul talks about that in Galatians 6:4—excuse me, Ephesians 6:4 when he says, “Fathers, don’t exasperate your children.” But there's also a parenting style that's too hands-off and too laissez-faire. And that too is not the path of wisdom. It's a balance. So the Spirit calls our families to be places of delight. The Spirit calls us to be places where there's proper discipline. And then let me talk about the last D: dysfunction.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
When I speak these words to you and when I read these Proverbs, I understand that it can maybe sound a little too simple and easy. Like it sounds like, well, you love your child, you teach him the Ten Commandments and the Bible and your family will blossom into this perfect family where there's joy and there's never any fights. And you sit around the Thanksgiving table and everyone is happy. A little Norman Rockwell picture, easy peasy. But as you know, real families are not that neat. There is not a single family in this room who fits that perfect picture. Just like every individual here is a broken person who limps through life sometimes, so also every family here is a broken unit that limps through life sometimes and struggles. You did your best to raise your child in the way they should go. You did your level best and for some reason that child is not interested in what you have to say anymore. You really tried to be loving and fair and equitable in your discipline of your children, but for some reason one of your children will not talk to you anymore—just won't. Families who do their level best to love well and discipline well still end up with addiction and divorce and estrangement. And if that's your family, I'm happy to tell you that there's a really great support group for you. And it's led by a father who knows exactly what you're going through. He has been through a similar struggle. He raised children with the perfect balance of love and discipline but still found that his children turned away. And I'm talking, of course, about our Heavenly Father.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
No one has more experience in dealing with a dysfunctional family than God, right? He's given us so much. His mercies are new every morning. He lets us live in a world of wonders. He's given us everything we have and still we make a mess of what he has given us. Is our Father wounded by our rebellion? When we turn away and make a mess of our family, does that bother him? Oh, yeah. Hosea 11. God says, “I taught my people to walk. I lifted them up to my cheek. I wrapped them in cords of human kindness, but still they turned away.” Or think of Jesus and his lament over Jerusalem in Matthew 23. “Jerusalem, Jerusalem, how often I have longed to gather you to me as a mother hen gathers her chicks, but you were not willing.” If that's not the cry of a brokenhearted parent, I don't know what is. So how does God deal with his dysfunctional family, this rebellious family, this family that sometimes chooses estrangement from him? He sends his Son. He bends towards his family in love and in sacrifice. Jesus comes to fix this family. And he does it by taking on his back the rod of punishment that properly belongs to us, right? He takes the rod of punishment on his back so that this family can be whole and so that we can gather again at his table as a renewed family full of joy. If you are a person here doing your best to love your family and finding it hard to overcome the brokenness, be assured that God knows exactly what you are feeling. And he sent his Son to this earth not just to heal your individual lives and forgive your individual sins. He sent his Son to this world to heal everything, including your family.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
Amen.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Lord Jesus, you know the joy that our family brings, the tears of joy, Lord that it can bring, and you know the tears of pain it can cause too. And you know, Lord, that for many of us here, we no longer know how to fix what brings those painful tears to our eyes. And so we lift our families to you, all of us. The healthy ones, the broken ones, we lift our families to you and we ask that you will heal what we can't heal through the power of Jesus. Lord, make us wise in all the ways of our life, especially with our families today. In Jesus' name, amen.

Speaker 2 – Peter, Children’s Message / Sermon Speaker:
Family of God, receive his blessing. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit, be and abide with you all.

Speaker 3 – Congregation / Worshipers:
Amen.